I'm so glad to have renounced romantic relationships

[TruthFreedom]

It's such a lie we are told by Hollywood that we can find some perfect partner 🤣

Literally the only way to happiness is to love yourself. If someone matches that level of self- love then fine, let's go on our merry way. But acceptance of your aloneness is what will bring you ultimate joy and peace.

That's why I bought MYSELF a wedding ring.

And I genuinely need no one else! 🤣

[No1Here2c]

[Lucasxp64]

Congratulations on your Sologamy!

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sologamy

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Sologamy or autogamy is marriage by a person to themself. [...] Supporters of the practice argue that it affirms one's value and leads to a happier life.

 

[Lucasxp64]

We can't be desperate for a relationship otherwise we will not respect our boundaries and would stay with bad deals, that's the major source of suffering in relationships.

Personally, I don't want to have children because I would have to fight until death to make sure they do well, you can't let them go.

But for an adult partner, they will be just fine, they find other guys all the time, so it's easy to break up with them and have peace of mind ethically.

My point is, hire slow and fire them fast, that removes most of the issues, it lets you filter them out better.

Edited yesterday at 09:54 PM by Lucasxp64

[LordFall]

Why do you mix both things? Be satisfied with yourself and love yourself then go find your perfect partner(s).

Otherwise you're mixing in some MGTOW, cope to the sentiment. Get good at dating, it's not that complicated. Most humans are low value if you try hard you'll become a valuable partner in no time. 

[Someone here]

Make sure you’re not self medicating or trying to cope with failure of getting a romantic partner.

[Carl-Richard]

13 hours ago, TruthFreedom said:

It's such a lie we are told by Hollywood that we can find some perfect partner 🤣

Who said perfect?

[TruthFreedom]

It's kind of an epiphany I've had.

People are "looking for love" all the time. It's nonsense. You can never rely on ANYONE to give you real love, it has to come from inside.

I have had many relationships but there was always something inside me telling me it was bullshit and the love you can get from another is so unreliable.

And by the way, I consider myself a very attractive person, and I have no problem getting girlfriends. I just am so satisfied with myself that I need zero validation from anyone else.

I hope others can get to this place too.

[Carl-Richard]

@TruthFreedom What about sharing love just because you're that loving?

[TruthFreedom]

I try that but 99.9999999% of people are unconscious....so they can't accept it

[Lyubov]

Sounds like cope to me

[gettoefl]

Romance is putting cart before horse. Do a fun activity. If good go for a bite. If good watch something on a screen. If good, cosy up under a blankie and whisper choice sweet nothings. Boom! Romance is a scam invented by Hallmark Hershey's Hollywood to name but 3. 

[Basman]

Yeah, but would you actually be disinterested in a nice girl if you had an opportunity to talk to her? Would reject a hot girl approaching you?

I actually don't think it's that crazy to let go of things. typically what happens is that you eventually end up with the thing you where previously chasing. 

Buying yourself a wedding ring is most definitely cope though. That means you still care.

[No1Here2c]

@Basman

Dont assume oriention based upon one's own.

[Basman]

3 hours ago, No1Here2c said:

@Basman

Dont assume oriention based upon one's own.

If he was gay he would have zero issues getting laid, even if he's ugly.

Go ahead and download Grinder and test it yourself lmao.