Does any man here feel like a woman in a man's body?

[Raze]

Are you low testosterone?

[Hasson_Miah]

@Raze I checked his post the dude said himself '' 

I don't like my life anymore. I have very low IQ, I don't want to live like that anymore. My life is a series of failures. I want to go to the next life. Does such thing exist?'' 

I would say sign of low test imo.

[Human Mint]

Do you eat healthy and exercise? Or do you eat excess sugars and sedentary life?

That is directly linked.

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

Kinda strange to want to be like hoes as a man. You want to be with a hoe, but actually be a hoe, or hoelike? Wouldn't be my cup of tea at all, all things considered

[LastThursday]

The compassion, generosity and intelligence of some, knows no bounds.

[Adrian colby]

On 04/05/2026 at 8:49 AM, LastThursday said:

There's a higher chance if you're autistic that you're more gender fluid, but I forget where I read that factoid, some study or other.

I’ve Deffinately come across that before, many times. If someone’s neuroendocrine pathway development is divergent from the reproductive sex it’s certainly in line with a type of neurodivergence. 

there must be some truth to it because I’m trans and also have a DSD… and just today I started the proper assessment process for an autism and adhd diagnosis. ( age 40+, the typical collapse of masking revealing all the sensitivities).

my sexual variation had a part to play in triggering my awakening but my awakening triggered the slow collapse of my personality.

first time was an intellectual deconstruction, the second time was the exhaustion of an unfit adaptation. No more being inauthentic.

others have suggested following his authenticity and I second that. Be what you are, whatever that is and you know,  when you start to function better. … and definitely integrate both masculine and feminine aspects. For me that had nothing to do with being a man but a balanced human being. 

[soos_mite_ah]

On 5/3/2026 at 4:07 PM, Never_give_up said:

I don't like my role as a man. I don't want to die at wars, protect, provide. I don't want to fight other men for stupid reasons. I want to have fun. I want to be cared and yes even protected. I want to have fun like women do. Even sexually I am very submissive. I don't know what's wrong with me but I feel if I pretend that I don't want all these things I actually am not real to myself and if I try to act as a man I dysfunction.

I don't think that a man's role is inherently to die in wars, protect, or provide. That's a pretty narrow view of manhood and masculinity imo and it strips the humanity of most men to box them in that way. I don't think being sexually submissive is any less manly. And I think it's natural to face dysfunction if you find yourself performing inauthentically for long stretches of time. 

I think the way you said your role specifically is interesting. It makes me inclined to think that you may still identify as a man but not resonate with the cultural and sociatal associations with manhood as opposed to being trans. I know I'm not a man but I've had many moments throughout my mid 20s especially where I don't particularly feel like a woman but not really in a gender noncomforming/ gender fluid way but in a "there is a sociatal script that feels inauthentic to me." 

On 5/3/2026 at 4:07 PM, Never_give_up said:

I swear if I could switch my gender I would do it but with current technology we can't do that completely so there is no way I will become a trans (I am not saying trans women aren't women but that's my personal opinion). 

I mean, bottom and top surgery along with hormonal therapy are pretty effective of getting you like 90% there imo. Sure, you cannot change yourself on a chromosomal level but I think a lot of transpeople I have met  (and I don't think they are the exception) do see such medical interventions as a huge step forward to helping them feel more authentic in the way they show up in the world. You can still be trans and have yet to undergo such interventions.