Who's actually pickier in dating: men or women?

[CARDOZZO]

52 minutes ago, Tenebroso said:

You are right in your observations but I feel like it's too late for me, life isn't fair and not all problems have solutions. There isn't someone for everyone and you forgot another option..........jumping off a bridge.

Suicide is not an option. NEVER!

You should open up with us. We don't know who you are, be free and express yourself.

Why do you think is late to turn your life on a new trajectory? 

How can you start forgiving woman for what they did to you?

Edited 5 hours ago by CARDOZZO

[CARDOZZO]

55 minutes ago, Tenebroso said:

not all problems have solutions

Which are your unsolvable problems? 

Be honest, open, direct - we can help.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Tenebroso nope. That is your projection.

People, men and woman. Are equally capable of being full of shit. Mean. Status seeking. Materialistic. 

I just see where you have a cognitive bias - and that bias is also projecting onto me. You see arrogance and self righteous where there is just firm understanding and hard words. It's just coming from a female so it hits different. 

We are debating about your views regarding women, and how they are solely negative. I know there are bad women out there. But if we are to counter this claim you have, it won't do to bring up examples of bad woman that will further cement this. What exactly do you want to hear? That people are selfish and full of shit? The problem is... That quality has nothing to do with sex. Man or woman. It's the same across the board. 

Read all of my posts again, and you will realise I never said women are faultless, saints, angels, goddesses. Really really read my posts. It was never even inplied. You will realise you filled in the gaps with information to perpetuate a narrative. It didn't come from me. It's a narrative spun by algorithms to keep you in a state of lack and powerlessness. And I fucking hate that this manosphere content does this to people.

 

Edited 3 hours ago by Natasha Tori Maru

[Miguel1]

Okay, this is getting very intense. Natasha is correct here, but if we have a person with suicidal thoughts, we need to keep in mind soft love, empathy and compassion. Fragile people need different love than secure people.

As Cardozzo said, we have ton of positive experience with women here. If you @Tenebroso open up more about your situation, we can help you.