I easily get into fights with people who trigger me

[Carl-Richard]

What's the state of jails in India?

Edited April 2 by Carl-Richard

[Natasha Tori Maru]

4 hours ago, Osaid said:

The "triggers" are assumptions. 

Uninspected assumptions. Uninspected because of how it feels.

Fighting and trying to solve is like moving away from the assumption and therein moving away from the feeling, so that it is not inspected and seen as untrue. This allows the continuation of assuming that there is a monster in the closet, and a circular justification that "since I feel this way it must be true that there are monsters living in my closet for me to be angry at". 

The thread is created so that someone can sell you the solution to an assumption. You're looking for something that "makes sense", as in, something that validates the assumption and therein validates the anger. Therefore, any invitation to inspect the anger itself is dismissed.

The solution to Santa Claus would still be the delusion that there is Santa Claus. 

The only thing that can be triggered in you is what is already in you. 

If someone is angry at Santa, does it feel real? Hell yes it feels real. That does not prove the existence of Santa.

There is no way to put up with people, in the same way there is no way to put up with Santa. Anyone selling you the solution is in the same boat as you, right along with Santa.

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[Osaid]

39 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

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[NewKidOnTheBlock]

7 hours ago, Osaid said:

The "triggers" are assumptions. 

Uninspected assumptions. Uninspected because of how it feels.

Fighting and trying to solve is like moving away from the assumption and therein moving away from the feeling, so that it is not inspected and seen as untrue. This allows the continuation of assuming that there is a monster in the closet, and a circular justification that "since I feel this way it must be true that there are monsters living in my closet for me to be angry at". 

The thread is created so that someone can sell you the solution to an assumption. You're looking for something that "makes sense", as in, something that validates the assumption and therein validates the anger. Therefore, any invitation to inspect the anger itself is dismissed.

The solution to Santa Claus would still be the delusion that there is Santa Claus. 

The only thing that can be triggered in you is what is already in you. 

If someone is angry at Santa, does it feel real? Hell yes it feels real. That does not prove the existence of Santa.

There is no way to put up with people, in the same way there is no way to put up with Santa. Anyone selling you the solution is in the same boat as you, right along with Santa.

Never seen so much truth and value condensed into one post! Based🔥🔥

[Someone here]

On ٢‏/٤‏/٢٠٢٦ at 1:07 AM, Ulax said:

Not sure relapsed is the right word to use in the case of abusing someone.

He meant the going back to smoking . 

[Ulax]

12 hours ago, Someone here said:

He meant the going back to smoking . 

Oh my mistake.

[Rafael Thundercat]

On 31/03/2026 at 8:40 AM, Leo Gura said:

@Someone here Why have I heard complaints about you being abusive before?

I find this very suspicious.

I am serious. If you want to remain on this forum I need you to stop abusing your sister physically, verbally, and emotionally.

And than we think Feminsm is just a Hammer that one in our hands look for Patriarchy Nails to hit. The point is this. This sort of thing would be imaginable if Matriarchal Woman and Man were the status quo. Matriarchy is not woman in power, is Motherly Care Oriented Society. Children,Life, Rooted Nature connection centrered. Men Protecting Children and woman and not allowing violence in group our outgroup. 

[Rafael Thundercat]

On 31/03/2026 at 9:40 AM, Someone here said:

question: if some toxic person causes rage and anger in you ..what is the correct way of reacting instead of fighting them? 

thanks .

Go makena liver detox. Take care of this Rage accumation there. Some Anger Retreat help as well. You need to deal with this Somaticaly. No mind hacks with help. 

[Someone here]

Rafael you do realize I  Been bulking up in the gym as of late I’m supercharged with T hormone and I’m doing semen retention just as an example this makes my energy high . I feel my aura . People feel uncomfortable around me because my aura is high because I’ve been kicking ass in life. This results in anger and voilence . I’ve been trying to get married for a while now but failing. All my older male brothers and my dad are gangster mafia type of dudes . They are always on fire . I’m actually the nicest guy in my family . But what do you want me to do ? Look at animals in nature . look at tripes . Go visit third world countries . Boys are always fighting and bullying each others .  Or owning a gun . The masculine energy in young alpha type of men is just unbalanced . The bottom line is they want to put their manhood stick inside a female ok? But when they can’t they buy guns or fight or bully or in worst cases they rape . You talking about rape? Why the fuck do men have to turn into belliacho on a circus to impress women and get married or “laid “ ? If men were sexually satisfied no one would rape anyone . Pfff