I easily get into fights with people who trigger me

[Carl-Richard]

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Edited 13 hours ago by Carl-Richard

[Natasha Tori Maru]

4 hours ago, Osaid said:

The "triggers" are assumptions. 

Uninspected assumptions. Uninspected because of how it feels.

Fighting and trying to solve is like moving away from the assumption and therein moving away from the feeling, so that it is not inspected and seen as untrue. This allows the continuation of assuming that there is a monster in the closet, and a circular justification that "since I feel this way it must be true that there are monsters living in my closet for me to be angry at". 

The thread is created so that someone can sell you the solution to an assumption. You're looking for something that "makes sense", as in, something that validates the assumption and therein validates the anger. Therefore, any invitation to inspect the anger itself is dismissed.

The solution to Santa Claus would still be the delusion that there is Santa Claus. 

The only thing that can be triggered in you is what is already in you. 

If someone is angry at Santa, does it feel real? Hell yes it feels real. That does not prove the existence of Santa.

There is no way to put up with people, in the same way there is no way to put up with Santa. Anyone selling you the solution is in the same boat as you, right along with Santa.

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[Osaid]

39 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

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[NewKidOnTheBlock]

7 hours ago, Osaid said:

The "triggers" are assumptions. 

Uninspected assumptions. Uninspected because of how it feels.

Fighting and trying to solve is like moving away from the assumption and therein moving away from the feeling, so that it is not inspected and seen as untrue. This allows the continuation of assuming that there is a monster in the closet, and a circular justification that "since I feel this way it must be true that there are monsters living in my closet for me to be angry at". 

The thread is created so that someone can sell you the solution to an assumption. You're looking for something that "makes sense", as in, something that validates the assumption and therein validates the anger. Therefore, any invitation to inspect the anger itself is dismissed.

The solution to Santa Claus would still be the delusion that there is Santa Claus. 

The only thing that can be triggered in you is what is already in you. 

If someone is angry at Santa, does it feel real? Hell yes it feels real. That does not prove the existence of Santa.

There is no way to put up with people, in the same way there is no way to put up with Santa. Anyone selling you the solution is in the same boat as you, right along with Santa.

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