Fucking Some Guy's Wife

[Butters]

Has anyone here done this? I've had a few offers but I always declined. 

I once went to this place where old people massage each other on a table with oil and and I joined in lol. 

But not like full on swingers. I also offered doing some swapping with my ex but she hated the idea. I guess I just liked the idea of another chick or couple watching while we fucked. 

I think swinging is much more prevalent with older couples cause after 20 years of marriage they just don't care anymore and see it as something novel. If she's old then the guy doesn't get jealous anymore. 

Edited Sunday at 12:59 PM by Butters

[Cred]

Open relationships is an ADHD thing. If you have ADHD, you are blind to the concept of monogamy.

[Zen LaCroix]

I don't understand the appeal of watching your girl have sex with other men. Can you explain this to me?

[Cred]

10 minutes ago, Zen LaCroix said:

I don't understand the appeal of watching your girl have sex with other men. Can you explain this to me?

I have not done that yet, but here is how I imagine that logic:

If someone else fucks my girlfriend, then I can focus on my own pleasure rather than hers.

[LordFall]

I've not done it yet but I find the concept pretty hot. I just met a pretty cute girl at an event I hosted yesterday and we hit it off well, she's in an open relationship so I'm considering if it's worth pursuing her a bit. 

[Butters]

5 hours ago, Zen LaCroix said:

I don't understand the appeal of watching your girl have sex with other men. Can you explain this to me?

I never said that. 

[Leo Gura]

It all depends on whether the marriage is serious or not.

If it's a serious marriage, don't do it.

But if the marriage is truly already over, then there's more leeway here.

Some marriages are mostly in name only.

The metric is: don't be the one to break up a solid marriage.

Edited Sunday at 07:51 PM by Leo Gura

[Shermaningeorgia]

6 hours ago, Cred said:

Open relationships is an ADHD thing. If you have ADHD, you are blind to the concept of monogamy.

wild and baseless take.

[Shermaningeorgia]

if it's consensual, it's fine. 

[Sincerity]

If the guy isn't consenting to it, you will have it on your conscience. You will cause a human being great pain.

But some people are in open relationships. Some men also get off to cucking. Perhaps try to find 2 folks in that sort of relationship/marriage.

[Hojo]

@Leo Gura How could you know how solid the marriage is?
Edit :Nevermind i guess they would just suggest it. I was misreading.

Edited 22 hours ago by Hojo

[Ramasta9]

"You shall not commit adultery."

"You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife."

In the Gospel of Matthew (Matthew 5:27–28), Jesus deepened the teaching:

"You have heard that it was said, "You shall not commit adultery.'
But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart."

Adultery isn’t just the physical act. Even deliberate lustful desire for another man's wife is morally wrong.

The issue is the intention of the heart, not only outward behavior.

"Love your neighbor as yourself."

Meaning you should respect your neighbor's marriage and family, not exploit or desire what belongs to them.

There will be grave consequences, its your choice at the end of the day, but don't be surprised when it happens to you too or worse.

What goes around comes around. Even watching porn has a negative effect on a marriage or sacred union, its still cheating psychologically and breaks hearts and souls on some level it is felt and experienced for both sides.

So yeah, be conscious, caring, and careful. 

[Shermaningeorgia]

47 minutes ago, Ramasta9 said:

"You shall not commit adultery."

"You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife."

In the Gospel of Matthew (Matthew 5:27–28), Jesus deepened the teaching:

"You have heard that it was said, "You shall not commit adultery.'
But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart."

Adultery isn’t just the physical act. Even deliberate lustful desire for another man's wife is morally wrong.

The issue is the intention of the heart, not only outward behavior.

"Love your neighbor as yourself."

Meaning you should respect your neighbor's marriage and family, not exploit or desire what belongs to them.

There will be grave consequences, its your choice at the end of the day, but don't be surprised when it happens to you too or worse.

What goes around comes around. Even watching porn has a negative effect on a marriage or sacred union, its still cheating psychologically and breaks hearts and souls on some level it is felt and experienced for both sides.

So yeah, be conscious, caring, and careful. 

Not everyone is Christian. And Jesus Himself said we’re all sinners 

[Ramasta9]

31 minutes ago, Shermaningeorgia said:

Not everyone is Christian. And Jesus Himself said we’re all sinners 

Jesus was not a christian, he simply laid down general / universal / spiritual guidelines. They weren't called "The Master" for no reason.

[something_else]

I can't imagine ever finding this enjoyable personally, but each to their own.

Even if the guy liked being cucked, I don't think I have it in me to do that to another person. I certainly don't think I'd enjoy it happening to me.

I did very briefly date a girl who said she'd enjoy being cucked by watching me have sex with other woman, but that's the only time I've ever actually experienced anything like this in real life.

[Butters]

18 hours ago, Sincerity said:

But some people are in open relationships. Some men also get off to cucking. Perhaps try to find 2 folks in that sort of relationship/marriage.

Yeah but the times I ran into these folks it just felt weird. Like when a guy was actually really into being chucked he just gave me weird vibes and I wasn't down with it. 

But there's also regular swingers that are just chill and there's not really that cuckolding inferiority complex involved. 

[Jowblob]

13 hours ago, Ramasta9 said:

"You shall not commit adultery."

"You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife."

In the Gospel of Matthew (Matthew 5:27–28), Jesus deepened the teaching:

"You have heard that it was said, "You shall not commit adultery.'
But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart."

Adultery isn’t just the physical act. Even deliberate lustful desire for another man's wife is morally wrong.

The issue is the intention of the heart, not only outward behavior.

"Love your neighbor as yourself."

Meaning you should respect your neighbor's marriage and family, not exploit or desire what belongs to them.

There will be grave consequences, its your choice at the end of the day, but don't be surprised when it happens to you too or worse.

What goes around comes around. Even watching porn has a negative effect on a marriage or sacred union, its still cheating psychologically and breaks hearts and souls on some level it is felt and experienced for both sides.

So yeah, be conscious, caring, and careful. 

This, as making vows before God and witnesses is a serious deal. It will break your willpower and inner harmony.

And there is not much good of having a relationship in marriage or just a general relationship with someone, as eventually you will have no choice but to leave or break this relationship to grow further. A relationship will be a limit in your own mind and after it breaks and you will progress to a new state of consciousness you will add another limit to your own mind and think what could have been better or why you didn't love enough. But i'm writing this while i'm seeing it from the ego perspective and the total unitive perspective could be totally different ofcourse as there will be no doer. From what i see and from my own experience attachments are what creates disharmony. Do things and love everyone without any attachments or binding vows to god.

Marriage is a human concept created out of ego to possess, why? Because inside of yourself you have access to everything. But i'm not against marriage ofcourse as it's simply a concept from this realm.

[Ramasta9]

Porn and Drugs. They will destabilize and destroy relationships. Its their very nature. You only go to them when there is a lack of love and unity within oneness and his/her union / partnership, and yet, most of the time, it only tends to destabilize the relationship / marriage / union further.

Of course there are many other things that do this, but Porn and Drugs (including psychedelics) / sometimes especially... seem to be more potent.

I guess this is why there are Shamans who are there to guide us know it all's... 

 

[Jowblob]

18 minutes ago, Ramasta9 said:

Porn and Drugs. They will destabilize and destroy relationships. Its their very nature. You only go to them when there is a lack of love and unity within oneness and his/her union / partnership, and yet, most of the time, it only tends to destabilize the relationship / marriage / union further.

Of course there are many other things that do this, but Porn and Drugs (including psychedelics) / sometimes especially... seem to be more potent.

I guess this is why there are Shamans who are there to guide us know it all's... 

 

Not really, it's you that decides this and what it does to you. The only problem that can be truely there (for a man) and is hard to get by is releasing your semen and not holding it for your wife or partner. Because semen itself is as potent as Leo Gura's 5 meo dmt experience where he burned his fingers or palms , the semen energy is exactly of the same potency. When you release it and not keep it for your wife or partner you will lower your own vibration and the sex won't be that good and it will reflect back to your wife/partner as they won't enjoy it either. When you hold your semen and get into strong meditation or willpower during the sex you can hold the female potency or her energy as it is much greater then males energy potential, but for a man it is very hard to not release (specially if you have been holding for a long time) but when you succeed and can hold the peak even more without releasing she will start riding you for example even more and harder as she will enjoy it even more and how you hold her energy potential so you can expand together even more. Anyway enough talking, just trying to say that your own consciousness is just being reflected into enviroment...

Edited 14 minutes ago by Jowblob

[Ramasta9]

14 minutes ago, Jowblob said:

Not really, it's you that decides this and what it does to you. The only problem that can be truely there (for a man) and is hard to get by is releasing your semen and not holding it for your wife or partner. Because semen itself is as potent as Leo Gura's 5 meo dmt experience where he burned his fingers or palms , the semen energy is exactly of the same potency. When you release it and not keep it for your wife or partner you will lower your own vibration and the sex won't be that good and it will reflect back to your wife/partner as they won't enjoy it either. When you hold your semen and get into strong meditation or willpower during the sex you can hold the female potency or her energy as it is much greater then males energy potential, but for a man it is very hard to not release (specially if you have been holding for a long time) but when you succeed and can hold the peak even more without releasing she will start riding you for example even more and harder as she will enjoy it even more and how you hold her energy potential so you can expand together even more. Anyway enough talking, just trying to say that your own consciousness is just being reflected into enviroment...

Yes but the issue people have today that's misleading others is "holding / "retention" its the wrong approach.

We are meant to use that energy to create and transform into other things like art, music, healing ect... otherwise holding/retaining can backfire and leads to mental / emotional instability and anger. One must be naturally with god, higher thoughts, focus ect.. to transform sexual desire altogether but if it still comes up, suppressing it is far worse than releasing it, but i do agree when done in the traditional way to masturbate over a screen it will drain you significantly.

There are many other ways you can practice utilizing and channeling this energy and every if you must release it can be done in a way that's not draining like through making love conscious and other forms of deep / tantric massage and movements (focusing on love for self / or making love to self). Keeping the vision pure for healing and kundalini circulation and off the screens and dirty thoughts ect... Hope this makes sense.

Edited just now by Ramasta9