Leo on sexual satisfaction

[Kalki Avatar]

Leo, so regarding your blog post on how women will never sexually satisfy you, did you actually simply meant that the best source is masturbation, self pleasure in all its form (self body massages, toys, porn, etc)? 

 In my case I got to a similar conclusion. After having a bunch of sex and adventures to burn the karma, am sick of it. Even though it would still be nice to have a good sexual wife who’s loving and intimate am at the point that I don’t care if I get it or not. I got to the point that instead of doing pickup or going to a sexy massage spa, I just prefer to masturbate. I just saved my self from all the hoops, money, time, energy and karma by handling it myself. Even if the girl wants money she will only satisfy you because of the money not because of your needs. Still, I think the sin comes from abusing masturbation/porn. But, what are your thoughts on sexual transmutation? Why not do that fully? Do you think you can make a future video on this? This is actually pretty important because such unconscious sexual needs are the main drivers and problems of people’s lives.

Edited 10 hours ago by Kalki Avatar

[Terell Kirby]

Men need variety.

Sex with one woman means not having sex with all the other women he could potentially do it with. And so the saga continues.

However, women don’t need to be all the things for men. Deeply fulfilling and satisfying relationships often go beyond sex, something deeper and more spiritual.

I could see men learning how to satisfy themselves being useful in fortifying their commitment to that one special woman, without infidelity that often happens from men being sexually frustrated.

Edited 10 hours ago by Terell Kirby

[Kalki Avatar]

@Terell Kirby But even if there’s deep spiritual and emotional intimacy which is crucial, the sex can go wrong. If there is no energetical compatibility, chemistry and actually a desire of devotion of the partner to SATISFY the other, you will always end frustrated. I have experienced spiritual relationships that left me sexually unsatisfied. Even if there was some chemistry and attraction. The problem lies in the partner not being OPEN, WILLING and fully  DEVOTED. Thats the only queen that will satisfy you. Even if she is intimate, emotional she can still half ass the sex, suck at it or just not need it much and don’t care. Or worse, selfish to care only about her needs. There has to be a desire of improvement from her and devotion. Plus being sexually confident enough to not feel bad from enjoying a lot of good sex with you. It’s complex. 

Edited 9 hours ago by Kalki Avatar

[Oppositionless]

IMO masturbation isn't *truly* sexually satisfying yourself, because you're still having sex with an external source, ie your mind / imagination. To sexually satisfy yourself means to raise kundalini and transmute sexual energy into spiritual bliss. 

Edited 8 hours ago by Oppositionless

[Leo Gura]

2 hours ago, Kalki Avatar said:

I just saved my self from all the hoops, money, time, energy and karma by handling it myself.

Yes, this is basically the solution.

This doesn't mean you don't have sex with real people. You still can and should. But it's not essential. It's a bonus when it is available, but you're not going to chase after it desperately.

Masturbation can be more satisfying than real sex. It often is, as long as you have the proper mindset. But if you buy into the mindset that masturbation is always inferior to sex, that's the key mistake.

Edited 8 hours ago by Leo Gura

[OBEler]

@Leo Gura now thats a black pill insight I always had but I never wanted to admit it or speaking it out. Because the common sense is the other way around. I thought something is wrong with me instead.

[Leo Gura]

6 minutes ago, OBEler said:

I thought something is wrong with me instead.

That was the whole point of that post.

[UnbornTao]

Masturbation Awakening™

[Natasha Tori Maru]

Sex with someone you love and care for fulfils a different need than the relief of sexual appetite. But it can do both.

I have always viewed these things separately. 

My POV might be different because I do not have a cawk.

[Leo Gura]

1 minute ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Sex with someone you love and care for fulfils a different need than the relief of sexual appetite.

Of course. But you can't sit around waiting for that.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

Just now, Leo Gura said:

Of course. But you can't sit around waiting for that.

Nope, not unless you are some sort of thirst trap