Why Has Dating Collapsed? The Real Reason No One Talks About

[CARDOZZO]

8 minutes ago, theleelajoker said:

Re content, I agree.

But I don't get the context. My point was that re @CARDOZZO it is not plausible to make a post about "lot's of sex or sex opportunity doesn't make me happy" while saying sex is not a priority.

People that don't have sex as priority don't use dating apps, or if they do they don't have 30 contacts and 20 matches (don't recall the exact numbers) re sexual contacts, and they don't do posts about their sex life in a forum. They don't approach many girls, they don't have an approach or philosophy about how to talk to girls or how they get to sex, because their thoughts don't touch these topics so much. 

It's like saying "I don't care about football while being in a football stadium watching a game lol"

 

It is not a question of caring or not. You will crave sex if you have libido no matter what you told yourself about consciousness or god.

That's my final post here on this thread. 

Edited February 19 by CARDOZZO

[Lila9]

On 18/02/2026 at 1:29 PM, Miguel1 said:

Also, in no way was I implying all women, just low quality women that comes in abundance to your life with hardcore pickup phase.

You would know what I mean, if you actually had gone through this phase.

Dude, no matter what, you never call women trash!

I don’t care if it is a figure of speech, literally or you are just insecure incel.
I don’t care that you had a predatory phase in which you manipulated young women to sleep with you. 

You and your pick up cult should be held accountable for your shitty behavior towards young women. I hope that karma will do justice with people like you.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

12 hours ago, Lila9 said:

Dude, no matter what, you never call women trash!

I don’t care if it is a figure of speech, literally or you are just insecure incel.
I don’t care that you had a predatory phase in which you manipulated young women to sleep with you. 

You and your pick up cult should be held accountable for your shitty behavior towards young women. I hope that karma will do justice with people like you.

Dehumanising language - ie calling women 'trash' I agree is not on.

Personal character attacks - ie labelling someone 'incel' is also not on.

Critique behaviour or arguments - not identities. If you want to be heard, keep it focused on conduct and ideas.

That goes for everyone. These topics are hard enough as it is to remain unbiased and fair.

[Infinite Tsukuyomi]

Definitely no one reason why dating has collapsed. The collapse is a symptom of even deeper problems. As a gay man I've also come to the conclusion that most guys are undateable. Definitely not just a woman problem, but everyone is contributing to the mess in some way. I had a good guy but let him go. Fearful avoidant attachment style is a mother. He was hardcore anxious preoccupied. 

No one thinks they are a part of the problem, and as such the dating pool is filled with undateable people. 

[Kid A]

4 hours ago, Infinite Tsukuyomi said:

No one thinks they are a part of the problem, and as such the dating pool is filled with undateable people. 

Well said. And the more you focus on how others are the problem, the bigger part of the problem you become. 

[bazera]

@Infinite Tsukuyomi

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most guys are undateable

What do you mean by this? What issues do you come across most often that make people undateable for you?

[AION]

I got this from Owen Cook and I think he makes some good points. I will try to paraphrase as good as I can: In the past patriarchy forced women to be loyal because if she started acting hypergamous aka dick hopping they would be shamed and ostracized by their community. It was kind of helpful for the community and child raising. But with the destruction of the patriarchal frame (which was hold by the family members) women have the freedom to act more from their true nature which is egoistic and hypergamous. So according to stats 80% of the population of women want the top 10-20% of men. That is how female animals act like chimps(female chimps only want to mate with the best men). But the difference between chimps and men is that having multiple families is not ok so a lot of women end up as side " girls"  and never get wifed up by Chad and Tyrone. In my opinion this is a great development because I think these women shouldn't be reproducing in the first place. This is necessary stage in conscious development. Yes we will see a demographic crash and very soon, in 10-20 years we will see a huge spike in mental health problems in women. But the gene is out of the box and it is a necessary stage in our collective development. Perhaps it is even good for earth that there is a crash in human population. God idd works in mysterious ways.

Edited 4 hours ago by AION

[Kid A]

42 minutes ago, AION said:

I got this from Owen Cook and I think he makes some good points. I will try to paraphrase as good as I can: In the past patriarchy forced women to be loyal because if she started acting hypergamous aka dick hopping they would be shamed and ostracized by their community. It was kind of helpful for the community and child raising. But with the destruction of the patriarchal frame (which was hold by the family members) women have the freedom to act more from their true nature which is egoistic and hypergamous. So according to stats 80% of the population of women want the top 10-20% of men. That is how female animals act like chimps(female chimps only want to mate with the best men). But the difference between chimps and men is that having multiple families is not ok so a lot of women end up as side " girls"  and never get wifed up by Chad and Tyrone. In my opinion this is a great development because I think these women shouldn't be reproducing in the first place. This is necessary stage in conscious development. Yes we will see a demographic crash and very soon, in 10-20 years we will see a huge spike in mental health problems in women. But the gene is out of the box and it is a necessary stage in our collective development. Perhaps it is even good for earth that there is a crash in human population. God idd works in mysterious ways.

So it's women who are to blame here, which means we as guys don't have to take responsibility, look inward, and do the painful self-reflection needed to improve, become more attractive and less selfish human beings. Lucky us! 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Kid A 🤣 

In before 'its not women's fault they are disgusting creatures, it is just their nature, we men need to adjust to their feral behaviours' and 'any man who disagrees is naive and hoodwinked by women' 

I am so filthy, don't you see!!!! 

[AION]

18 minutes ago, Kid A said:

So it's women who are to blame here, which means we as guys don't have to take responsibility, look inward, and do the painful self-reflection needed to improve, become more attractive and less selfish human beings. Lucky us! 

Men should do that and become Gods. But that doesn't change what I said. Universe is not black and white you dummy.  

But the thing is if I have to become God-like (the whole package like women say) to get a little above average girl, I'm not going to settle for a worn out girl who has a higher body count than John Wick.

That is what most women don't get, you get what you give. And most of them expect too much for what they are offering. But that is their problem.

Edited 3 hours ago by AION

[Kid A]

2 hours ago, AION said:

Men should do that and become Gods. But that doesn't change what I said. Universe is not black and white you dummy.

Okay, Mr. “Everything Is Women’s Fault” and “Do the Opposite of What Women Say and You’re Good.”

2 hours ago, AION said:

But the thing is if I have to become God-like (the whole package like women say) to get a little above average girl, I'm not going to settle for a worn out girl who has a higher body count than John Wick.

God-like? Hah! Just to reach women’s level, we would have to reduce 75% of the violence we commit in the world and 98% of the rapes. At the same time, we would have to reduce most of the misogyny that men like you stand for, which gives women far fewer rights than men all over the world. The same goes for video games, which most boys/men seem pretty blind to the repulsiveness of, as well as bad hygiene and general grossness.

2 hours ago, AION said:

That is what most women don't get, you get what you give. And most of them expect too much for what they are offering. But that is their problem.

It seems like this is a big problem for you. You’re whining about feminism and shit like this almost every day here. You wouldn’t do that if you weren’t very emotionally invested.