I compare myself to you guys

[jacknine119]

I am super weak with girls. I even don't remember when I fucked girl. In 2 days I have date. She told me yes to my offer today and whole day I am super super excited think about how I fuck her how I meet her, I feel like world is mine. But then on the forum I read some guys comments about their sexual partners. It means nothing to them. It's easiest for them and I felt super bad after reading this. Why am I such excited and proud when it's very normal thing for others to fuck girls.

[Leo Gura]

Meeting a new girl is always exciting. If it isn't exciting something is wrong.

Take it easy man. Don't compare yourself to someone who has 10-20 years on you.

Everyone started at 0.

You should be excited.

And try not to be so crass about it. "Fuck her" << this is a bad attitude. Treat women as humans.

Edited 7 hours ago by Leo Gura

[theleelajoker]

Everyone is unique. But if you still want to compare - why not compare with someone that doesn't have date? Someone that is sick? Someone that is lieing in the trenches of Eastern Ukraine right now, alone, slowly bleeding to death? 

Every expectation towards the date will create pressure and takesaways joy. If I was you, I would maximizing presence in the date without any further goal.

That's it. Be as present as you can, in the moment. Rest will come as it happens.

[Ramasta9]

Comparison is the thief of joy and self worth.

[Looks]

Thief is the comparison of joy and net worth

[meta_male]

14 hours ago, jacknine119 said:

I am super weak with girls. I even don't remember when I fucked girl. In 2 days I have date.

It's a matter of perspective. For some guy going on a date feels impossible. And someone else reading this is probably thinking: I can’t even say I’ve ever slept with a girl. 

There's always someone ahead and someone behind.

[Rigel]

Because actual sex is not like the fantasy of it you are creating in your mind. It is exciting for sure but I feel like you don’t have realistic expectations. And to be honest, you are probably repelling women by being obsessed with it. Be more nonchalant if you want to have more fun on dates. Sex is not an end. You’ll be the same unfulfilled person after sex if you are deficient before it.

[pablo_aka_god]

8 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Meeting a new girl is always exciting. If it isn't exciting something is wrong.

Take it easy man. Don't compare yourself to someone who has 10-20 years on you.

Everyone started at 0.

You should be excited.

And try not to be so crass about it. "Fuck her" << this is a bad attitude. Treat women as humans.

@Leo Gura serious question, what's wrong with being crass? what if my mind thinks in these terms? I like such terms bc they feel more real to my current needs

Edited 2 hours ago by pablo_aka_god

[pablo_aka_god]

17 hours ago, jacknine119 said:

I am super weak with girls. I even don't remember when I fucked girl. In 2 days I have date. She told me yes to my offer today and whole day I am super super excited think about how I fuck her how I meet her, I feel like world is mine. But then on the forum I read some guys comments about their sexual partners. It means nothing to them. It's easiest for them and I felt super bad after reading this. Why am I such excited and proud when it's very normal thing for others to fuck girls.

@jacknine119 You are not alone! I get upset when I see someone getting success in this area while I don't! Jealously is real.

Have to work deliberately to manage it.

 

[Salvijus]

Because you want to be as cool as me. Perfectly understandable. No shame in that.