being bi/gynosexual

[Schizophonia]

5 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

It's @bebotalk

Don't know him

[Natasha Tori Maru]

37 minutes ago, Basman said:

Ironically, the trans community is internally quiet conformist and intolerant of differing views. It's an echo chamber, which conclusions you then project unto others like they are given and inherently moral.

I was quietly going to point this out to OP 😈

The slapping of labels onto things to 'assist in learning about the self', or 'defining the self' is actually the conformist 'temple' attitude; OP would never ever know about these terms, or feel the need to label oneself, if they had not learned about this though some external frame. And that external frame in this sense is an idealogy not inherent to themselves 🤣

 

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

On 24. 12. 2025 at 10:00 PM, Shermaningeorgia said:

they could be cis or trans

 

[Basman]

I'm margosexual (sexually attracted to Margo Robbie).

[Spiral]

I fancied a girl many years ago, turns out she’s a lesbian. I was, at the time, surprised that she showed zero attraction towards me. She had a boyfriend and everything.

[Shermaningeorgia]

14 hours ago, Basman said:

Ironically, the trans community is internally quiet conformist and intolerant of differing views. It's an echo chamber, which conclusions you then project unto others like they are given and inherently moral.

stay in your temple. or adapt to the wider world. i'm glad i wasn't that sheltered when growing up. I'm not trans, so i do't know what waffle you're asserting. But then temple people often hold odd comprehension skills and weird communicative patterns. I'm amused this offends you - though i don't need to care if it does. 

I understand how you temple people are. so yes, peopel will only stop using labels since it offends and irks you. Yes, that's how life operates. i can say "nobody can ever support Barca" and all the barca fans will stop. THe entire club will fold forever on my dictate.

Edited 14 hours ago by Shermaningeorgia

[Shermaningeorgia]

13 hours ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

 

So isn't this about open sexuality in this forum or not? 

Oh but yes, Uganda is it. some backward country that blames colonialism for its woes. But not Idi Amin. ok.

[Shermaningeorgia]

13 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

I was quietly going to point this out to OP 😈

The slapping of labels onto things to 'assist in learning about the self', or 'defining the self' is actually the conformist 'temple' attitude; OP would never ever know about these terms, or feel the need to label oneself, if they had not learned about this though some external frame. And that external frame in this sense is an idealogy not inherent to themselves 🤣

 

labels are part of life. sorry, i don't see the issue. it's clear he is from a temple that confined him to the real world, and he has issues in engaging in the wider world since he likes to enforce and assumes others must adapt to his will or whims.

[Shermaningeorgia]

OK, so i make a post and and others get upset since they're called out for being from temples that are closed like this one - . - and apparently i'm the villian? ok. 

 

maybe don't shit on peolpe voicing honest feelings. especially in a supposed open space.

[Adrian colby]

I’m trans ( with DSD) properly diagnosed and fully treated. I’ve participated in one genetic study in 2006 where I discovered( amongst the rest of the FtM cohort) that I had a mutation known to be involved in neuroendocrine pathway development specific to males.

I do NOT identify as trans. For the purpose of this life and relating to others I identify as a man. I specifically conform to western societies expectations of ‘man’ but as a ‘being’ that has deconstructed identity, social constructs and had a God awakening, I’m aware of the non-dual nature beneath reality but I’m also aware that you reintegrate all the parts of reality that you deconstruct because they are a part of the whole unity, they don’t dissapear even if you now can see through them. Within the reality of the ‘character’ I embody, I  have preferences to narrow down the infinity of choices I can make to experience my life. This is done authenyically without external social pressure and according to what I want to experience and explore and what I like and am genuinely interested in.  Understanding the nature of reality means I have the freedom to do that.
 

people expand the categories and meanings they express to explore more nuance. Greater distinctions and details. The human mind expands to hold more of infinities complexity and with that goes more specific language, categories, terms, identities that can better fit or explain their own uniqueness when relating to others. 

non-dual purists dismiss this part of reality and bypass the whole thing, even within themselves and as a result become more isolated, fragmented from unity not integrated into it.
 

I’m not a part of the trans ‘community’. I’m not a part of the LGBTQIA+. I’m not an activist but I have supported people/adolescents in abuse/addiction and gender crisis for 15 years. I saw it as just another social conformity in order to belong and feel safe but I didn’t agree with the interest and behaviour change in order to belong.

anything that anyone expresses as their own identity and preferences is a part of their own unique variation. God exploring one of infinite possibilities of a life. 
 

plenty of people are around who project their bias and try to force or shame you back into their expected worldview which dims who you are. It’s tricky to navigate this if you risk being outed, excluded, targeted. You don’t need to tell people what you’re into if they are not part of a social circle that is accepting. Leave your vulnerability and intimacy to open spaces and like-minded people but stay true to yourself.

 

i wouldn’t have cared for labels in the past but as I’ve come to understand the importance of reintegrating, relating and communicating, I’ve found terms that do describe my experience as a person. Because of this I’ve been able to get help for autism ( which I spend 10 years masking and bypassing till I burned out) and also that I’m Demisexual ( related to the autism in that I don’t form attraction till I know a person for at least two years… like a delayed response regardless of how beautiful they are. I just don’t recognise the face till the rest of the person is ‘known’ and familiar)

cis women, trans women… there are different types of both. All types of women. If you like someone you like someone so go with what feels right for you. 
 

I used to have an issue with women who were taller than me and it was a complete no go till I fell for someone who was the complete opposite of ‘my type’. It broke the closed mindedness and opened me up to more possibility and even the thought of potentially being able to love all people.

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

5 hours ago, Shermaningeorgia said:

So isn't this about open sexuality in this forum or not? 

Oh but yes, Uganda is it. some backward country that blames colonialism for its woes. But not Idi Amin. ok.

In regards to the topic and upon further thought, I would like to think that there are differences between various kinds of trans preferences and their relation to whether they make you gae or not. I would dare say once you start to seek ladyboy type of trans then that makes you kind of gae, or perhaps would you like to invent your personal unique sexuality to best define this snowflake unique attraction of yours?

Btw it's a meme mate. The fact that you've reacted to it seriously means that it done it's job well. Take care

[Basman]

3 hours ago, Shermaningeorgia said:

OK, so i make a post and and others get upset since they're called out for being from temples that are closed like this one - . - and apparently i'm the villian? ok. 

 

maybe don't shit on peolpe voicing honest feelings. especially in a supposed open space.

Your crazy projecting. And I hate using that word. You don't see the irony in name calling and insulting?

If you get so offended from simple disagreement and project so hard then maybe the issue that that you actually agree unconsciously. 

[Yimpa]

 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

I see @Yimpa @Salvijus

Thank you, we will investigate.

If this is indeed the case, the issues have deepened 😕 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Shermaningeorgia

Your replies are quite unhinged. 

Your determination to make everyone an 'enemy to fight' is totally blinding you to constructive discussion. 

No one has attacked you. 

7 hours ago, Shermaningeorgia said:

labels are part of life

Can you show me where in nature there is a label? The birds don't label. The grass - no label. The ocean has no label. The air is. Mammals are. 

It is the human mind that labels - not nature. They are not permanent. They are a fickle human construct.

Labels can help to understand, but they are limited. You do seem very attached to the security of them, though? 

Edited 6 hours ago by Natasha Tori Maru

[Yimpa]

7 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

I see @Yimpa @Salvijus

Thank you