How to approach a woman if you haven't very good IQ?

[Someone here]

3 hours ago, Cireeric said:

but actually higher intelligence  in general - which is not just left-brainy -  definitely helps with humor. 

I don't get you. It's sort of like you are saying the thing and it's opposite ..intelligence equates to humor but also not ?

[Recursoinominado]

1 hour ago, Schizophonia said:

With a harpoon 

How big are the girls you are approaching? 

[Thought Art]

scared of AI taking my girl

[Yimpa]

“Lemme take you on an el lucid date hehehe”

[Schizophonia]

9 hours ago, Recursoinominado said:

How big are the girls you are approaching? 

https://webmshare.com/play/5JObn

[Sugarcoat]

Some kinds of intelligence you will develop through interaction rather than developing them on your own then being “prepared” for interaction 

Maybe it is possible to rid all your social neurosis even in solitude, but I’d say it’s much harder than simply exposing yourself to social situations 

Unfortunately when you feel awkward in yourself it’s reflected in your behavior so every time you enter interaction you’re putting yourself at risk of experiencing that awkwardness directly 

Its hard and discouraging but you have to go through those awkward moments to eventually get in touch with that authentic flow in you where you finally feel comfortable (and sometimes if you don’t enter that flow it could be you two just don’t click, it’s possibility)

Its like when you see woman your mind will be active, on one hand it will think of something to say, and it will imagine bad scenarios, and your awkward self image might start to feel amplified, you’ll think of going up to her but you’ll also be hesitant 

You wanna try to follow those impulses that lead you to her. For now it might be hard to shut of that other stuff blocking the flow, but you don’t have to do that directly, by following those interactive impulses it will grow the chance of you getting into that appropriate flow and it will challenge those other thoughts and “take over”

Im a noob socially but im struggling with this too and here are some thoughts 

[Schizophonia]

52 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Maybe it is possible to rid all your social neurosis even in solitude, but I’d say it’s much harder than simply exposing yourself to social situations 

Idk because I did and continue to do this and it works; and I see plenty of older people who have socialized a lot and are neurotic.

 

Because socialization isn't just about humans but objects in general, it's the "territorialization" as Deleuze would say so in fact socialization happens everywhere and all the time; when you vape your watermelon-flavored e-cigarette you're socializing with it.

Edited Friday at 11:43 AM by Schizophonia

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@Schizophonia holy fuck this profile picture. 

The moustache is obscene...

[Schizophonia]

1 minute ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

@Schizophonia holy fuck this profile picture. 

The moustache is obscene...

Average french moustache 

[Spiral]

Eq is were it’s at

[Sugarcoat]

On 2025-12-19 at 0:43 PM, Schizophonia said:

Idk because I did and continue to do this and it works; and I see plenty of older people who have socialized a lot and are neurotic.

 

Because socialization isn't just about humans but objects in general, it's the "territorialization" as Deleuze would say so in fact socialization happens everywhere and all the time; when you vape your watermelon-flavored e-cigarette you're socializing with it.

I read this but didn’t pause to respond

Getting rid of neurosis I think also requires mindfulness and self awareness which some lack

The best combo is the inner work combined with the outer exposure, it’s like they catalyze each other (chemistry student pun🤓)

I feel socialization maybe becomes less useful concept if you apply it to all objects 

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[Schizophonia]

1 hour ago, Sugarcoat said:

I read this but didn’t pause to respond

No pb

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Getting rid of neurosis I think also requires mindfulness and self awareness which some lack

It requires surrender. 

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The best combo is the inner work combined with the outer exposure, it’s like they catalyze each other

These days I'm making an effort to block out my negative/self-referential thoughts; I'll make a topic about this mixing the epistemology/languages elements of Deleuze and Guattari (🤓)

It generates a narcissistic rage; you have this ego-driven desire to play the victim, to impose limits on yourself, to "block the flow", reterritorialize but if I don't give in to my mood my ambition and masculinity skyrocket.

I've just signed up to try horseback riding and karate lessons and I'm planning at least one more thing to try, this wouldn't happen if I let myself go more like I used to; I think I'll post some stuff on Instagram, either in stories or posts.

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(chemistry student pun🤓)

eheh

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I feel socialization maybe becomes less useful concept if you apply it to all objects 

I'm knäpp

Edited 3 hours ago by Schizophonia