Exhausted from only dating low-consciousness women

[Monke]

@aurum

24 minutes ago, aurum said:

Yup, you got it.

Being in your frame is the core of her femininity.

Then you lead her where you envision the relationship going.

Okay gotcha yeah this is super cool. I think I've neglected the importance of masculine leadership on the first few dates. 

In hindsight I've probably had more opportunities than I think to create the sort of dynamic I want but I've been a bit too passive and made assumptions about her instead of leading and seeing if she wants to follow. I've been missing the initiative component. 

this was definitely the blind spot here. thanks

[Schizophonia]

16 minutes ago, Monke said:

@Schizophonia

I mean yeah definitely possible. I suspect I'm late stage green/early yellowish but could always be wrong. A lot of women I've dated appear to be heavily orange. 

I'm reusing your language elements eheh but I don't like the SD system. I think you mean you don't like that your female mirrors are too interested in random things/have weak personalities, rather than reflecting an idealized self. I'm saying that if you, and Hojo for that matter, keep coming across girls like that it's because they're just mirroring who you really are. So maybe scrolling on TikTok isn't great for your brain, maybe you don't have to be an ideal neither, maybe it's even subconsciously the ideal that's blocking you, but ultimately it's all about you, fundamentally.

Edited 1 hour ago by Schizophonia

[Schizophonia]

If you are scientific you will meet  scientific women.

If you never meet scientific women you’re probably far from being a scientific yourself lol.

[Leo Gura]

5 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

scientific women

You mean men? 

Haha

[aurum]

22 minutes ago, Monke said:

@aurum

Okay gotcha yeah this is super cool. I think I've neglected the importance of masculine leadership on the first few dates. 

In hindsight I've probably had more opportunities than I think to create the sort of dynamic I want but I've been a bit too passive and made assumptions about her instead of leading and seeing if she wants to follow. I've been missing the initiative component. 

this was definitely the blind spot here. thanks

Good work.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Monke Reading through this back and forth I think a big issue for you is not meeting women of your maturity level (as well as low consciousness women). Anyway I'll step out - I don't have too much useful info or steps to take. 

As long as you put yourself into situations that increase probabilities for desired outcome, you won't be robbing yourself of the possibility of a banger of a high consciousness lady  

[Raze]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UlozJLMY9ZU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aOjtxemK4Hs

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pn6c9ZMPZVI

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZAz_-ffRT5w

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QXB80VEaRQQ

 

Edited 24 minutes ago by Raze