How to give a Man the best sex of His Life (for woman)

[integral]

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Sadia: Do you think men are more loyal to beautiful women or sexually good women? I would say they’re always loyal to whoever gives them the best sex.

Orion: I don’t know; I think it’s the attractiveness, because I think that a lot of men— guys who are still holding a candle for a woman with borderline personality disorder who treated him very badly, cheated on him, left him in the lurch—but she was the hottest woman that…

Sadia: But was she the hottest or was she the best sex?

Orion: I think it was the hottest.

Sadia: I’d imagine it was the best sex, because those crazy women do give the best sex.

Orion: They tend to, because they have a short-term mating strategy similar to men— they know they can’t sustain long-term, so they give it their all, and that extends to the bedroom. They almost fuck like they’ll never see the guy again. Whereas women with a long-term strategy think they’re going to be with you forever— there’ll be days they go to bed in a face mask and socks on. The woman who thinks it’s only short-term will bring it every single chance she gets. I have told women in consultations that you don’t have to be a borderline to fuck like a borderline, and it might be a really good strategy for some borderline women to get together and teach classes to other women about what to do in the bedroom—they would be unstoppable.

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it's unclear if a woman can truly understand what great sex is to a man?

They might confuse it for like doing certain sexual things or positions and all that, and all of that is wrong.

Great sex for a man is how emotionally invested the woman is during sex.

The more emotionally invested she is the better the sex is.

She has to have sex in that moment as if that was the best sex of her life, that there's no way she could ever be touched that good by a man again, that the hand of God touched her.

The woman has to be crying, looking into your eyes (if she can still see) in pure love/mesmeration/lust/admiration, she is in pure flow, she cant remember her name and this is the last day of her life. lmfao and she will tell you "that was the best sex I ever had" and she will say that every time you have sex, and she means it.

She thinks you are a God with everything you do and 100% believes it.

And thats BPD sex.

Edited June 20 by integral

[Natasha Tori Maru]

1 hour ago, integral said:

(if she can still see) 

Goddamn gotta control the location of the skeet skeet in that case 🤣🤣🤣

Edited June 21 by Natasha Tori Maru
Sorry I just had too, your post is beautiful, but the cum eyes is DEATH

[aurum]

2 hours ago, integral said:

She has to have sex in that moment as if that was the best sex of her life, that there's no way she could ever be touched that good by a man again, that the hand of God touched her.

The woman has to be crying, looking into your eyes (if she can still see) in pure love/mesmeration/lust/admiration, she is in pure flow, she cant remember her name and this is the last day of her life. lmfao and she will tell you "that was the best sex I ever had" and she will say that every time you have sex, and she means it.

It would also be unfair to place that responsibility solely on her shoulders.

She is going to feed off of you. You need to do your part.

Edited June 21 by aurum

[Hojo]

I think the men are quiet and the woman reflects them man. If the man go as hard as he wants he would be yelling. Have you ever yelled during sex?

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[Schizophonia]

10 hours ago, integral said:

The more emotionally invested she is the better the sex is.

It depends.

I also have a kink (I'm vanilla most of the time eh😅) to pay a girl to do what I want her to do, like an object or a slave for a set amount of time.
Sexual services on demand, introducing her to cigarettes or drugs without her being able to refuse, dressing how I want, saying what I want her to say, giving me her social media login details so I can interact with others in her place, etc.

Why not vice versa btw, even if I prefer to be dominant.

Your fantasy doesn't allow for the greatest letting go, because even if your wife is making a big deal about how you're a god and blablabla, you're still fundamentally in a performance mindset, therefore "submissive."; and she too must make an effort for this comedy.

Btw borderline women tend to be pains in the ass.

Edited June 21 by Schizophonia

[Sugarcoat]

Basically you’re maximally boosting his ego by making him feel like he is the shit

It’s quite feminine indeed. Like being more stoic and detached would be more masculine, it’s a more “giving” position, meanwhile the more emotional expressive one is the receiving one.

Theres different components to sex. If you can master them all you’ll be doing the best (potentially overwhelming him if he feels you’re much better than him). So if you know the physical techniques to physically pleasure him, that combined with the psychological factor of boosting his ego. You making him feel good in both body and ego.

Sincerely, your fellow virgin. (Take all I say with grain of salt)

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[Rafael Thundercat]

If was permited I would share a video of a great sex here. But of course wr cant share porn stuff here even if is good quality, so bad. But if anyone wish a example DM me. 

Ps. Great sex takes time, is  not rush rush and it takes presence. Presence is the God aspect.

[integral]

14 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Goddamn gotta control the location of the skeet skeet in that case 🤣🤣🤣

LMAO i ment it in that she cant see because she forgot how to and is nearly Unconscious.

"mind went blank" is real.

14 hours ago, aurum said:

It would also be unfair to place that responsibility solely on her shoulders.

She is going to feed off of you. You need to do your part.

There's a misunderstanding, this is not an act, she's not doing anything, she's receiving what the man is doing and nothing else, everything she does is feminine instinct and automatic.

Woman has to do nothing.

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[integral]

7 hours ago, Hojo said:

I think the men are quiet and the woman reflects them man. If the man go as hard as he wants he would be yelling. Have you ever yelled during sex?

Women love grunting attacking Apes lol

I know its sounds stupid but men are brainwashed into thinking they shouldnt yell.

When your with the right woman and you 100% are into it, you should be making lots of noise naturally.

If your not tapped into your raw animal instinct your holding back.

5 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

It depends.

I also have a kink (I'm vanilla most of the time eh😅) to pay a girl to do what I want her to do, like an object or a slave for a set amount of time.
Sexual services on demand, introducing her to cigarettes or drugs without her being able to refuse, dressing how I want, saying what I want her to say, giving me her social media login details so I can interact with others in her place, etc.

Why not vice versa btw, even if I prefer to be dominant.

Your fantasy doesn't allow for the greatest letting go, because even if your wife is making a big deal about how you're a god and blablabla, you're still fundamentally in a performance mindset, therefore "submissive."; and she too must make an effort for this comedy.

Btw borderline women tend to be pains in the ass.

There's many ways to have good sex, people are into Kinks that's a completely different subject

I'm talking about the average Joe and 99% of men

3 hours ago, Sugarcoat said:

Theres different components to sex. If you can master them all you’ll be doing the best (potentially overwhelming him if he feels you’re much better than him). So if you know the physical techniques to physically pleasure him, that combined with the psychological factor of boosting his ego. You making him feel good in both body and ego.

There is nothing A woman has to do, there are no techniques she has to do, she has to just let go and fully receive and that is 99% of the blockage every woman has in bed, that she is not in flow and has no idea what it is.

She is also SUPER judgy and picky, this is a huge mistake.

Women are notorious for overthinking, trying to control details, trauma blockages, fear, disliking things.

A woman's skill set in bed is her ability to be 100% open and that means everything that guy does is good (within boundaries).

She has to allow the man to lead and do anything he wants to her and receive the full masculine energy.

2 hours ago, Rafael Thundercat said:

If was permited I would share a video of a great sex here. But of course wr cant share porn stuff here even if is good quality, so bad. But if anyone wish a example DM me. 

Ps. Great sex takes time, is  not rush rush and it takes presence. Presence is the God aspect.

Yes, I think it's easy to misinterpret what I'm saying, I'm not saying you're supposed to just attack and slam it as hard as possible.

It's a roller coaster of different tempos and emotions.

Edited June 21 by integral

[Hojo]

@integralI think it comes from having to be quiet when you are masturbating at home. Basically shame. We compress the emotions then eventually we cannot enjoy sex like we want because of shame.

Edited June 21 by Hojo

[Sugarcoat]

17 minutes ago, integral said:

There is nothing A woman has to do, there are no techniques she has to do, she has to just let go and fully receive and that is 99% of the blockage every woman has in bed, that she is not in flow and has no idea what it is.

She is also SUPER judgy and picky, this is a huge mistake.

Women are notorious for overthinking, trying to control details, trauma blockages, fear, disliking things.

A woman's skill set in bed is her ability to be 100% open and that means everything that guy does is good (within boundaries).

She has to allow the man to lead and do anything he wants to her and receive the full masculine energy.

Ok I see your point yea you’re smart I lowkey take back what I say.

[Schizophonia]

26 minutes ago, integral said:

 

There's many ways to have good sex, people are into Kinks that's a completely different subject

I'm talking about the average Joe and 99% of men

 

I know, but it's not necessarily about the kink.
I mean the fact that the girl is acting out to boost my ego can seem overwhelming in general, and it seems weak because you're giving a lot of weight to her approval.

I'd prefer maybe a quiet girl, so I'm the one who can grunt as much as possible, "take up space."

Edited June 21 by Schizophonia

[integral]

32 minutes ago, Hojo said:

@integral i think it comes from having to be quiet when you are masturbating at home. Basically shame. We compress the emotions then eventually we cannot enjoy sex like we want because of shame.

I agree, but also our entire culture is feminized for probably a good reason because men are dangerous. Men are thought to have sex like woman and that fear of being masculine is instilled.

There's definitely ALOT of shame when a "normal guy" in this culture starts having sex, there scared to make a sound and they think the woman will judge them or laugh at them.

Normal woman you have to train them to have good sex, by slowly opening them up and she becomes more and more comfortable with how sex works.

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The problem is there are half of men with 0 inhibitions and when they start having sex they just run the girl over.

This means the woman feels raped even when she consented at first.

Because the guy didn't take his time to build comfort or to even consult her feelings.

Early sex life of woman is pretty bad because they need time to learn how to have sex but half of men will just run them over.

So dumb masculine men are a pain... and this created our culture. 

Edited June 21 by integral

[Hojo]

@integral Yes I agree. Now think of all those times you had to be quiet when you were cumming. You wanted to scream and thrash your body but you couldnt. All that energy is stored in the body. Now you do it 1000 times look how much of that energy is going to be stored inside of you. And its going to start rotting it needs to come out. This energy turns into rapey energy , they can have alot of sexual energy that isnt coming out because of shame and guilting themselves turning it rancid.

Even when you have sex with a woman you are so ashamed you are not making any sound. You REALLY want to make sound but storing it even deeper down. Then you will see you never released what you really wanted to do. The energy is now aggressive. Now you dug yourself into a hole where you must release this negative aggressive energy projected onto a woman.

Edited June 21 by Hojo

[integral]

29 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

I know, but it's not necessarily about the kink.
I mean the fact that the girl is acting out to boost my ego can seem overwhelming in general, and it seems weak because you're giving a lot of weight to her approval.

I'd prefer maybe a quiet girl, so I'm the one who can grunt as much as possible, "take up space."

Woman are most of the time not yelling, there responding non-verbally to what you do.

Non-verbal is the bulk, like her face... witch will probably make you cum if you look to long lmao

The woman won't be screaming the whole time, so you'll have plenty of opportunities to make noise 😆

its a roller coaster, lots of opportunities for everything.

She is also NOT acting to boost your ego, its not an act.

Its hard to explain this without being misinterpreted.

29 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

and it seems weak because you're giving a lot of weight to her approval.

But what? you want a girl to lie there with a blank expression, 0 sound, like a dead body? lmfao

In the end of the day if she is not and did not enjoy herself and you think -> "that was great sex", your a dumbass... lol (speaking in general not about you)

But most guys in general dont want a girl to make 0 sound and have no body expression... they will be like "am I doing something wrong?, is my dick to small?"

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[integral]

28 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

because you're giving a lot of weight to her approval.

Thinking about this more, when she is in flow that allows you to be in flow and you guys both loss it in animal sex or flow sex, this is what im talking about

Its not about stroking egos.

Your both in the zone and unleash the love... you loss yourself for an hour 

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[integral]

17 minutes ago, Hojo said:

@integral Yes I agree. Now think of all those times you had to be quiet when you were cumming. You wanted to scream and thrash your body but you couldnt. All that energy is stored in the body. Now you do it 1000 times look how much of that energy is going to be stored inside of you. And its going to start rotting it needs to come out. This energy turns into rapey energy , they can have alot of sexual energy that isnt coming out because of shame and guilting themselves turning it rancid.

Even when you have sex with a woman you are so ashamed you are not making any sound. You REALLY want to make sound but storing it even deeper down. Then you will see you never released what you really wanted to do. The energy is now aggressive. Now you dug yourself into a hole where you must release this negative aggressive energy projected onto a woman.

Its hard to say what causes aggression and rapey energy like this.

I dont think we can narrow it down to this one cause.

[Princess Arabia]

This thread is very erotic. It kind of touches that erotic zone. The kind that makes you want to make love. Unlike that other thread where someone wanted to stick something in someone's ass. 🤣🤣See the difference. @integralYou done it again, you instigator you. You made me start thinking about the best sex i ever had. Maybe will never be duplicated and doesn't have to be.

[integral]

6 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

This thread is very erotic. It kind of touches that erotic zone. The kind that makes you want to make love. Unlike that other thread where someone wanted to stick something in someone's ass. 🤣🤣See the difference. @integral You done it again, you instigator you. You made me start thinking about the best sex i ever had. Maybe will never be duplicated and doesn't have to be.

 well someone knows the touch of god.

But there is always a higher level, neva say NEVA.

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This thread is very erotic. It kind of touches that erotic zone. The kind that makes you want to make love. Unlike that other thread where someone wanted to stick something in someone's ass. 🤣🤣

Porn brain sex = fucking, basically lacks actually connection, most people are stuck at that level, especially young. 

5 Stages

1. Repressed sexuality
2. Fucking
3. Having sex
4. Lovemaking
5. Transcendental/Tantric (sacred) sexuality

BUT you can have flow sex at any one of these stages, flow = state not stage. So there are degrees of good/bad sex within each stage.

At each stage people use different language, "stick it in her ass" = stage 2.

Edited June 22 by integral

[Princess Arabia]

52 minutes ago, integral said:

Porn brain sex = fucking, basically lacks actually connection, most people are stuck at that level, especially young. 

Yes, I should have realized that. Watches a lot of porn. They think that's the 'real world'.