Only ever be with one girl

[cistanche_enjoyer]

Would you be okay with only ever being with one girl? 

Let's say the first girl you get into a relationship with is amazing and perfect for you. Would you think you miss out something in life if you don't experience what it feels like to be with at least another different girl?

[Schizophonia]

8 minutes ago, cistanche_enjoyer said:

Would you be okay with only ever being with one girl? 
 

Yes

8 minutes ago, cistanche_enjoyer said:

Let's say the first girl you get into a relationship with is amazing and perfect for you. Would you think you miss out something in life if you don't experience what it feels like to be with at least another different girl?

No it’s just ego (pride…).

[Peo]

2 hours ago, cistanche_enjoyer said:

Would you think you miss out something in life if you don't experience what it feels like to be with at least another different girl?

Yes. I want a lot of experience in life.

Like i want to be in a abusive relationship just for sake of experience and in a healthy relationship. I want to date a girl who is really mean and a narcissist for the sake of knowing what it is like. I want to date a kind and highly spiritually developed girl for the experience.

Now i might regreat it later in life, but i am willing to take the risk. 

My dessire for a lot of experience in life comes from Life, psychedelics and this video.

 

[Atb210201]

That's how it should be actually.

If you want more than one; That's just greed.

And you don't need more than one.

It also shows you don't love her enough so you need more than her to feel whole.

It's disrespectful and not dignified.

Edited Thursday at 01:41 AM by Atb210201

[gettoefl]

Every ego wants to be open and free and easy because, I am god's gift and I can handle it and I deserve it, and to the extent one is ego, one proceeds thusly.

God meanwhile is knowing there's only one of us here.

[LastThursday]

23 hours ago, cistanche_enjoyer said:

Would you be okay with only ever being with one girl?

If it works why change it? A relationship is a dynamic thing always changing. If it stops working then you can find someone else.

What causes the most suffering is not fully appreciating the person you're with, but also, not breaking up when should and dragging things out.

[Twentyfirst]

If you are with enough girls you realize they are all basically the same anyways 

[cistanche_enjoyer]

Lol I just discovered about the 37% Rule.

The 37% Rule, in the context of partner searching, suggests that you should spend the first 37% of your dating life (or any time period where you are actively seeking a partner) in exploration and gathering information, without committing to any particular person. Then, you should settle for the first person you meet after that who is better than all the ones you've already met. This rule is based on the idea of the Secretary Problem, a mathematical optimization problem. 

Elaboration:

Exploration Phase:

The initial 37% is dedicated to exploring various options without making a long-term commitment. This allows you to gain a broader perspective on potential partners and understand your own preferences better. 

The "Keeper":

Once you've completed the exploration phase, the next person you meet who surpasses your previous experiences becomes the "keeper". 

Mathematical Basis:

The 37% rule is derived from the Secretary Problem, which aims to maximize the chance of hiring the best candidate when interviewing a group of candidates one by one. 

Practical Application:

In the context of dating, this means spending a significant portion of your dating years exploring different people and situations before settling down. 

 

[Schizophonia]

On 21/05/2025 at 9:57 PM, Peo said:

Yes. I want a lot of experience in life.

Like i want to be in a abusive relationship just for sake of experience and in a healthy relationship. I want to date a girl who is really mean and a narcissist for the sake of knowing what it is like. I want to date a kind and highly spiritually developed girl for the experience.

Now i might regreat it later in life, but i am willing to take the risk. 

My dessire for a lot of experience in life comes from Life, psychedelics and this video.

 

I'm offering you the chance to become my personal maid, you'll do chores and basically be my slave while I do cool stuff.
 

It will give you experience, it is very very important to have experience.

[Peo]

34 minutes ago, Twentyfirst said:

If you are with enough girls you realize they are all basically the same anyways 

So all men are the same too? Bruh so oversimplified you make the world. 

[Peo]

@Schizophonia Sorry i am heterosexual. I am not that into men. 

3 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

basically be my slave

You know there are many men that are into that kinda stuff it is called BDSM or female domination. 

[Schizophonia]

13 minutes ago, Peo said:

@Schizophonia Sorry i am heterosexual. I am not that into men. 

You know there are many men that are into that kinda stuff it is called BDSM or female domination. 

I trolled you mr aspie.

I meant that this experience thing is all about ego ; you don’t really want volontary lose time in bad relationships.

[Peo]

1 hour ago, Schizophonia said:

you don’t really want volontary lose time in bad relationships.

You might be right there, but I can always leave if it gets bad. 

[Twentyfirst]

5 hours ago, Peo said:

So all men are the same too? Bruh so oversimplified you make the world. 

Women have more of a herd mentality than men

[Natasha Tori Maru]

10 hours ago, Twentyfirst said:

If you are with enough girls you realize they are all basically the same anyways 

This is just mangled

[meta_male]

On 21.5.2025 at 7:15 PM, cistanche_enjoyer said:

Would you think you miss out something in life if you don't experience what it feels like to be with at least another different girl?

What do YOU think?

[integral]

On 5/21/2025 at 1:15 PM, cistanche_enjoyer said:

Would you think you miss out something in life if you don't experience what it feels like to be with at least another different girl?

Do I want to have sex with other girls outside of my relationship? yes, do I think other women outside my relationship i could have a great experience in life with? yes. But I'm not scared of missing out.

In your case its the fear of missing out.

it's the same fear when people don't want to miss the next Bitcoin opportunity.

I don't know the solution other than to go make a bunch of mistakes and you'll stop feeling this way.