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  10. Posted

    Its not the problem of you getting rejected is after that you reject yourself!

    You are the one then basing other persons likes(they didnt have a chance to get the know you in more depth) and what they find attractive(also your initial approach)...as valid point.

    Then you come to a conclusion you are bad somethings wrong with you queastioning your game etc. That's what hurts you.

    Also could be that you know yourself you are not interesting so it reinforces that because you havent worked on being interesting...

    You cant be rejected if you dont reject yourself ,then its just someone saying no to you and that's their right to do so their day could be bad,bad experience with guys,you remind you of someone who cares what the thing is as long as you secure in who you are...

    Similar to what @Princess Arabia said in Sensitive man post...

  14. Posted

    You are bealieving the mind that tells you lies that you need something outside yourself,so mind acts like its helping you then you start believing in the bad things also,thats how it gets you.

    You are just there reacting to it all instead proactivly communicating with yourself to do opposite and think opposite of what mind says.Mind will always be on attack(it can be neddiness,depression,self doubt) its on you if you gonna believe it and react to it instead of counter it with your own thinking...

    I thought this would be simpler to explain 😆...

  15. Posted

    @gleb You are programmed with a virus that believes that she holds key to your happiness,to your worth as a man,if she leaves it means you are not good enough so you walk on eggshells so she doesnt leave you.What a bunch of bs,you manipulating so you fit into what you think you need to be for her as a man.Man doesnt act like that.He doesnt care if she leaves or not,he is fully himself why? because it pleases him not her and he if focused on her more than yourself then you are not in position to give her value but to live in reality that you need to be something for her,please her so you can get validated because you dont see that you are more important than any of women you can come across why? Because you are the value,the experience,the leadership,the pleasure....

    Stop caring if shes gonna leave,stop caring if you win,stop caring what she thinks,stop care in general in life thats first step to get out of this hell...

    That's freedom,that's power!

  16. Posted · Edited by NoSelfSelf

    One reason is it increases metabolism so you dont get fat tissue that resaults in clogged arteries that could cause heart attack and other disieses..

    Second reason: being weak,restricted makes you more prone to injuries and back pain that reduces life quality.

    Third reason: it makes you look younger through releasing waste with sweating, that's why saunas are great because it could fight the waste inside that causes alot of disieses including alzhemier later in life...

    Fourth example:Exercise increases blood flow that helps with overall mood and fighting stress whit more stress the more you age and potentially it could be lethal...

    Fifth example:is not directly helping but it helps you survive to climb thing,push off things,run away etc. 

    Sixth example: with age if you dont exercise you start to lose muscle so in old age you are more prone to bone breaks...

    With exercising muscles are hitting your bones and with time makes them stronger...

     

  18. Posted

    @Amit

    2 hours ago, Amit said:

     

    you have this immense need for their love and you are in the chase of it

    you fully devote yourself to your feminine because she is the best thing that happened to you.

     put 11 hours a day working so that future with her is a good one. 

     You leave such a job which makes you such an unattractive person. 
     

     

    You are lying to yourself  so there cant be trust...

  19. Posted · Edited by NoSelfSelf

    @Amit The part of mind that is making you being needy is also making you consume content to fill you with all kinds of ideologies on how the women are the problem and its you,no matter the culture...real issue is your mind lying to you that there is a reason outside of you that causes you to look so it doesnt change..

    If you dont know what part im saying that voice that tells you im not good enough etc.

    I dont know bigger picture but of what happened in relationship, but how you worship women and talk about women as the problem its enough info that you are the one causing the breakup ..

  25. Posted · Edited by NoSelfSelf

    @Enlightement Well i just wrote you the answer in previous post but because you dont have skill in that regard ill feed spoon you(like that expression 😁)

    As a young adult i was always looking that 2 books,2 authors etc need to agree on so i can say im closer to the truth which is not the case.

    Precisely 2 things contradict because there is not one way,one fit 99% of the time ,there is information someone gives you like quote in this situation and if you dont work on trying,contepleting,implementing it in your life you will always look for information for someone to tell you how to think and be...

    You are basically looking for someone to guide you to your happiness and wellbeing and they will never be able to do it thats why all self help books,video you watched worked so little that you dont see the changes you need because its on you if you want to be peacful and how you want to be peacful coming with your own philosophy how to be peacful or you will just follow the version of peace from one person and how it worked for them...

    This is true with enlightment there is no 1 version of enlightment and it doesnt fit every way to all..

    Scientific minded people are looking for one way for all which again i dont see that they will find on every level...

    Because i gave you the answer,it wont work because you havent worked it yourself ,thats why zen works in riddles...