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  1. #100
    I have lost faith in women and I cried a lot today
    You're acting silly. 
    It's not in the nature of women to come to a man. It will be very absurd. 
    Sure she can and will give you signals but through the signals she is expecting you to win her 
    If she doesn't earn you, then why will you have her thought lol? The fact that you want her means she has already earned you in your mind. Now it's your turn to earn her in return. 
    She established her subconscious attraction by placing herself in your mind. Why do you like her and not other girls, that's because she earned your attention over other girls. 
    Now making her yours is your job. Show manliness. Approach her. Not in creepy way. Directly ask her and kick start it. Now if she is really interested she will not play games and come to you straight away. If she is not interested then maybe she will play games or directly reject and say no. 
    In any case if it's failure move to the next girl you're attracted to 
    Also keep standards low because highly attractive girls get too many requests 
    So try all sorts of girls, even average girls.. With average girls the rejection rate is low. 
    And try to be natural.. Don't use too many strategies. 
    And don't take dating seriously. It is not LIFE. If it happens, it happens, otherwise focus on other things. 
    But don't be discouraged. 
     
     

  2. #74
    How to ask a girl out in a lost situation?
    @Vytas She could still go out with you. Your texting is just not the best here.
    Don't ask girls to plan out dates and logistics. Instead, tell her. You should have told her: "Good, let's go walking tomorrow at 7pm at place X."
    Just assume she is free. If she's not, she will tell you and you can say, "When are you free?", she will tell you, and you will adjust the time. You should also pick dates and times when she is likely to be bored and free.
    Wait a day or two and ping her. Sometimes girls are just busy with life.

  3. #73
    The best pick-up techniques
    Best pickup technique: approach 5000 girls.

  4. #72
    Half-Sex??
    Intention, trial and error, lots of experience picking up girls. You cannot learn it theoretically. It requires lots of trail and error. Mostly error.
    See, this experience taught you valuable logistics obstacles to avoid next time. For example, if you were clever, you could have asked to escort her home, under guise of making sure she was okay. Then, once inside, you say that you need to tell her something really important upstairs. Then isolate her to bathroom. Fuck her in the bathroom with the sink running.
    You learn stuff like that if you do lots of pickup. You become adaptable like a fox.

  5. #71
    Half-Sex??
    Fun story for ya:
    One time in Vegas I met a local girl at the club who was DTF. She was real excited, so we drove to her house. We started making out on her couch but I had to take a shit real bad. So I went to take a shit. By the time I got out, 5 mins later, the mood was spoiled, it was getting late, she lost interest and kicked me out. Never called me back.
    Moral of the story: Take a shit before you go out to the club.
    The devil is in the details.

  6. #70
    Half-Sex??
    If I told you about every time I almost got laid but it slipped through my fingers at the last minute, your heart would break. It's too painful to think about.

  7. #69
    Half-Sex??
    Yeah, call back rate on drunk party girls tends to be low. They realize the next morning that they were being giant sluts the previous night and want to wipe it from their memory.
    Every girl is a virgin lady who only wants true love, as long as she erases all the memories of fucking some random dude in the back of a car

  8. #68
    Half-Sex??
    @longusername12345 Don't make girls feel sluty.
    When you aim for the king, be sure you don't miss.
    Girls punish you for half-assing things.

  9. #67
    First Date field report
    Don't qualify yourself or seek to impress. Rather deflect her trap by saying something like, "When I crash, it will be all passenger side, Don't worry, your death will be quick and relatively painless."
    Do not fall for a girl's trap where she tries to get you to sell yourself to her. You are the prize, not her.
    Don't do these serious talks on dates. This is awful.
    Instead ask her something like, "What weapon would you select in a zombie apocalypse?"
    "If you were an animal, what animal would you be?"
    "What is your favorite part of your body?"
    WTF is this??! Get out of that car and get your hands all over her body and kiss her.
    - - - - -
    Overall you are too serious. Be more playful and fun and illogical and nonsensical and emotional. Turn on some dumb music in the car and sing and dance with her. Tell her stories. Be dumb, in a clever way

  10. #66
    Half-Sex??
    Stop thinking negative thoughts and just go out and talk to more girls. That's the simply solution. You can't think your way out of this situation.
    Be very mindful of your negative thoughts. You need to learn to channel your mental energies towards productive action.
    Move to a city which has lots of hot girls. Talk to them frequently. Problem solved. If you can't move now, start making plans to move and build the resources to move. This laying of plans will lift your depression.
    The reason you're depressed is because you have no hope. And the reason you have no hope is because you're not thinking far enough outside the box and taking radical ownership of your life situation.
    You are young and there are literally thousands of hot girls you can meet and sleep with if you really wanted to. But you don't really want to do the work for it. Hence you're depressed.

  11. #66
    Why do girls seem uncomfortable around me?
    Law of State Transference: if you feel uncomfortable she will feel uncomfortable.

  12. #64
    Half-Sex??
    Sorry, didn't read that far.
    In that case, your victim mentality is even more bullshit. As long as there are hot girls around, you can get them by talking to them. Frat boys and jocks are irrelevant. Why do you even think about them?
    Yes, Covid sucks for pickup. Wait it out like the rest of us. You are so young the rest of your life is still ahead of you. I didn't even start pickup until 26/27.
    What I wouldn't give to be back in college again. OMG, like shooting fish in a teapot with a shotgun.
    Cheer up bro. Have a long-view perspective. Covid will end and you will get much better with girls if you work at it. Jocks don't matter. So all is good. If the girls are as slutty as you say, then you should have no problem sleeping with them. Sluttiness works in your favor if you make yourself into a high quality guy. She will fuck a few jocks, then fuck you, see how much better you are, and stick with you.

  13. #62
    Half-Sex??
    So befriend them or start your own parties.
    Stop making excuses. Do what is required to get results.
    Look man, you are not the first man alive picking up girls on campus. Guys do it all the time. Figure out how. Maybe even watch some videos of guys doing it.
    You can chat up girls simply in classes, hallways, and lecture halls.
    You can go to social events on campus. So many social events, networking events, sports events, study groups, gym, yoga, park, etc.
    You don't need to hit on them hard. You can start off by just being very social. Socialization is like 80% of pickup.
    Do pickup outside the bars/clubs on the streets.
    Or just wait a bit. By the time Covid ends you'll be 21 and ready for action.
    Have some patience. Your life has barely begun and you are acting like you're 65 years old.
    Find cute girls in class. Sit next to them. Chat them up. Grab their numbers. Invite them to social events.
    If you are clever, you can get access to frat parties by befriending a few hot girls and then telling the frat guys that if they invite you to their party, you will bring 3 hot girls and they will each bring 2 friends. The guys will love you and will want you at all of their parties. Build a contact list of 10 to 20 girls who you are not dating or fucking, but are "just friends" for purposes of party invites.
    Stop being lazy and uncreative about this.

  14. #58
    Half-Sex??
    You should be at all those parties stealing their girls!
    You ain't gonna get girls sitting at home. Party time! But be sober.
    Lol
    Dude, those are like the only approaches I pretty much do: busy girls. Deal with it.
    I've approached girls talking on their phone with their mother, and slept with them.
    You make too many excuses.
    A) Make your approaches subtle and indirect
    B) Practice high-volume approaching at the mall or bar/club to hone your skills

  15. #60
    Day game vs night game: when are women more receptive
    There are many pros and cons to each.
    Day pros:
    Virtually zero competition Less noise and obstacles, no friends to cock-block. It's easier to have a conversation. Can run into girls who are introverted and/or don't like to drink or party. Higher quality girls overall. Good even if you're alone (without friends or wings) Day cons:
    Much smaller volume of girls, your approach needs to be well-honed. Waste a lot of time just standing around. Not efficient. Not so good for building up skills. Girls often have boyfriends You're basically only grabbing phone numbers Can't physically escalate much, your game needs to be much more chill and toned down. Night pros:
    Lots more targets. Far more efficient use of your time. Girls are looser and down to fuck Much more likely to be single, less boyfriend rejections. Much better for training and practicing your skills Can get away with sloppy approaches and social awkwardness better Can do rapid and heavy physical escalation Night cons:
    Lots of competition Lots of noise and distractions, hard to hear, hard to talk. Messes with your sleep schedule Need to go for one-night stands, forced to close same-night Drunk girls Friends cockblocking Dancing The club can be very intimidating if you're alone. Wings are more important. Lots of dealing with annoying logistics challenges - - - - - -
    Over all, day game is awesome. The two serious problem with it are:
    Far too few hot girls walking around during the day. The best ones are rarely single Day game is really only viable in certain locations with high volumes of people and hot girls. Such locations tend to be hard to find. Or you can do day game very sporadically as you do your grocery shopping, etc. But this is far too infrequent to be relied upon. It's more of a bonus you get as a veteran of the game. Once you have built up your skills you should be able to execute a solid approach on any random hot girl you see anywhere during the day.

  16. #59
    Day game vs night game: when are women more receptive
    @Vrubel Whenever an attractive girl locks and holds eyes with you, you must approach her immediately. That is her telling you: "Come fuck me please."
    If you do those kind of approaches you will see the girl is super-receptive and your job of picking her up becomes almost effortless.
    So don't ever pass those up.
    Stop blinking like a fool, grow some balls and approach.

  17. #57
    Do you think this girl was right to block me?
    @Hardkill Look, bro, you can't build sexual attraction via text. Not a good use of your time.
    If she is not already sexually attracted to you, no sneaky magic line will make her.
    When you go sexual too soon in the pickup you end up looking like a creep.
    When you flirt with her, make it more innocent and cute rather than sexual. Then it won't come off as creepy. But still, don't fool yourself that some magic of words will make her want you.
    You need to build attraction face to face.
    And when they reject you, don't care about it. You will get rejected A LOT. And sometimes HARD.

  18. #56
    How to learn to talk a long time?
    No doubt it works.
    Because it takes a stranger time to warm up to you. By talking casually about yourself you put them at ease amd give them something in the conversation to think about and latch onto.
    If they hear something interesting they will want to ask questions, and soon a deep conversation forms.
    This is a good skill to practice on the airplane when you fly. Make it a goal to start a convo that lasts the entire flight long. It's doable. I've done it. It's also much more fun than sitting their like a cold zombie.
    What's the best way to start a deep convo on a plane? Just start talking about yourself like the persona already knows you.
    "So when we land I'm going to get a burger and a coffee. And tomorrow I'm going fishing...."
    Bottom line: if you want to be a master of starting conversations you must lead them. You must do the initial heavy lifting.

  19. #55
    Do you think this girl was right to block me?
    Requires lots of trial and error. Lots of experience needed.
    You can be cute and romantical without being sexual.
    Here are two better things you could have texted her:
    "You are more adorable than a baby polar bear sliding down a rainbow." (stolen line from Jeffy, but it shows you my point).
    "I want to build you a house out of Legos and fill it with exotic baby animals."
    Neither of these lines is sexual, but they both clearly tell the girl that you are interested in her romantically and so there will be no friendzone from this.
    Friendzone happens when you don't make your intent clear. Besides, this is only the opening shot of the battle. There will be many more lines following it which will also subtly communicate your romantic intent. For example, you can literally tell her something like, "I'm taking you for a picnic in the romantical land of enchanted unicorns. Watch out for the rattlesnakes hiding in the pink mist." If she responds positively to such a text, you know she's interested in fucking you. Your intent is clear and you never come off creepy. If she doesn't respond positively then you know she's not attracted to you and nothing you text her will change that.
    That's why I commented. To disabuse you of this time-wasting notion.
    You can certainly turn a woman on via texts. I can and have given girls more powerful orgasms via text than past guys ever did with their dicks. But this assumes the girl is attracted to begin with. A very important distinction to learn.
    My general rule of thumb is this: avoid explicitly mentioning sex to a girl until you've had sex with her. If you follow this one rule you will save so many blown up sets.
    Of course you can be much more edgy and still get the girl. But you needlessly risk blowing it up. Why take that risk? Just to be edgy?
    Once you reach the attraction hook-point with a girl, you can get away with some really edgy and sexual stuff. And the hook-point is usually reached within 5 minutes of meeting her face-to-face. But you are not reaching that hook-point via your texts.
    If you reach the hook-point, you can politely ask to squeeze a girl's tits, and there's a good chance she will let you. One of the most amazing experiences in game is when you go to the club, hit hook-point within 5 seconds just by looking her in the eyes and smiling, and then politely asking her if you can fondle her tits in front of all her friends, and she giggles and says Yes.
    This sort of thing is possible, but it requires really good calibration and understanding of when hook-point has been hit. Hook-point is like the most important thing to getting girls. It's so crucial to be able to recognize. And it's not a function of time because it can happen in 5 seconds with no words exchanged.
    When flashy and ballsy game works, it's because the guy reached rapid hook-point with the girl. But foolish newbies think they can do that on a cold girl and it blows up in their face.
    When a girl likes you, she will let you get away with murder. But if she has no investment in you at all, you might as well be romancing a brick wall. Don't waste your time romancing brick walls. Look for girls who love you right off the bat. Then sleeping with them will be easy.
    The most effective way to get laid is to go to a nightclub, approach every girl and screen immediately for hook-point. Once you find the one that hooks, you immediately screen her for logistics. If the logistics are not optimal, you immediately move on to another girl until you find one that hooks hard and has optimal logistics. Then you pull. Guys who are masters of game have boiled their game down to this. They are very wise to not waste their time.

  20. #55
    Could you help me transcend redpill thinking?
    @assx95 
    1) Sounds like you are way too needy.
    2) Two girls is nothing. Statistically insignificant. Go find more and better. Not all girls are like that.
    Cure your neediness, become a strong attractive man, and you will find many sweet girls who will love you and bend over backwards for you.
    I've never had a problem finding loving girls. That's like the least problem with girls. If the girls you're with are unloving you got something weird going on. You are probably attracting that kind.

  21. #54
    Could you help me transcend redpill thinking?
    @d0ornokey Check how you are finding these girls. If you are attracting unloving girls, there's something weird in your way of attracting them. Diversify your source and be mindful of how you're rejecting loving girls. You can also develop screening questions to screen out unloving girls.
    SCREEN your girls before you sleep with them! Say NO to girls who don't fit your standards. Have high standards. Cure your neediness. Set boundaries.

  22. #53
    Online dating destroying the principles of game
    No it wouldn't because it's absurd to expect everyone to be attracted to you.
    Even if you are Brad Pitt not every girl will be attracted to you.
    Even a 10% raw physical attraction rate is very good. You don't need more.
    Personally I know that I'm only truly attracted to maybe 1-2% of women. Which is rather a curse that I live with.

  23. #52
    Online dating destroying the principles of game
    It's not per se that extroversion is more attractive. Extroverts simply get more logistical opportunities for sex.
    The #1 key for sex to happen is logistical opportunity and bumping into new people. Introverts bump into far fewer new people than extroverts. So o course they will have less sexual opportunities. It's just basic logistics. You can't get laid sitting at home reading books. To get laid a lot you need to go to parties and social events. Which introverts don't enjoy going to.
    You act as though I said introverts can't get laid. That's not what I said. I simply said they get laid less.
    The reality is that you don't need to get laid a lot with many people to have children and reproduce.
    Also, introverts can be very good at getting laid through other means. For example, many introverts become successful businessmen who then just buy as much sex as they want.
    For example, I could leverage my introversion to buy a lot of sex if I wanted to. Remember, for most of human history sex was traded and acquired through wealth and power, not pickup at nightclubs or Tinder.
    The ultimate way to get laid is through power. Consider Genghis Khan.
    I am not conflating those two.
    Doesn't matter. That kind of polarization only increases your results with girls. A highly polarizing obnoxious ass like Trump will be hated by 33% of girls, but about 33% will love him. Girls who hate him will really hate him. Girls who love him will really love him. At least at first, before they learn how much of toxic devil he is. Eventually 100% of girls will hate him
    That's nice in theory but doesn't work in practice. You need to be social to get laid a lot.
    Of course you can still get laid being quiet. You'll get just laid less relative to someone who's more active.

  24. #51
    Hate my natural masculine role of a hunter
    @ColeMC01 You can make yourself rich and famous and women will come to you. Classic strategy. But you are too lazy for this too.

  25. #50
    Hate my natural masculine role of a hunter
    I was 110% committed to fixing this area of my life. So failure and quitting was not even an option.
    It only took a few months. Nothing in the grand scheme of things. And it was an exciting journey. Some of my fondest memories today are my early days of game.