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    Coaching is all about transformation.

    If you can do the transformation yourself you don't need a coach. Sometimes something else might be necessary for that transformation other than coaching. Or coaching can be an additional aspects in your transformation.

    Coaches tend to cater to people with higher income. Just because those people will pay more for the same coaching as someone who is unemployed for example. So in that regard they could be seen as overpriced.

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    Imagine a woman who desires this Jeremy because of his looks.

    They meet for a date and all he does is trying to get her to like him, he is super nervous and fake laughs to everything she says. He doesn't hold eye contact, instead he looks down most of the time. His voice is like Mickey Mouse but very quiet and he talks very fast. He doesn't display any passion, ambition or interest in life. Whenever he opens his mouth either a lame ass joke comes out or he is too much in his head to even say anything. He doesn't listen to her. He acts very surprised that she even likes him. And at the slightest hint from her, he thinks she doesn't like him anymore. He doesn't feel comfortable in his skin, he scratches his arms all the time and looks over his shoulder as if he assumes everyone is out to get him.

    And most importantly he doesn't lead her. He waits for her to make a move, he waits for her ask him out, he lets her pick a date for them, he waits for her to show him where to sit, etc.

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    That is what you get, when you have good looks and can fill a stereotype.

    But if he would display unattractive behaviour/personality any woman would leave him for the next ugly guy who has a attractive personality.

    It is just, that by his looks you would imagine he also has a attractive personality.

    Compared to someone who looks like he is coming for the last magic the gathering community event or something.

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    This is the whole essence of spirituality.

    Not beating yourself up and accept and cherish reality for what it is.

     

    It's practical to practice acceptance because it will lessen your resistance towards the present moment.

    You become more and more aware of how everything in reality is infinitely perfect and miraculous. Even eating something unhealthy.

    Also Emotional Mastery is huge for the day to day living stuff and feeling good in general.

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    The only entity with the power to take away your bliss is yourself.

    If people are trying to convince you that their delusion is best, they are doing so out of love. Because they think it would benefit your situation if you would change your delusion to another delusion.

    See for example my first sentence.

    I see your post, and I notice how you are giving power away and not taking responsibility. Which, my delusion tells me, are some of the core principles of being happy and in bliss. And I sense from your post that those are things you want.

    It's all lovely delusions here. :x

  13. Posted

    I've found in my own experience, that whatever I think about life will become my reality.

    And that by thinking that "living a good life is hard" we are putting imaginary barriers between our current state and a state where life is good.

    Because sometimes we might catch ourselves being in the zone, being happy and living the good life.

    But then, our mind comes in and asks "hey, you know this is supposed to be hard? What have you actually done to get here?".

    And we start "backwards rationalising" to ourselves that we can't be, in fact, happy and living the good life in the moment because we haven't done anything hard recently.

    ❤️

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    @bebotalk Posting links to your YT on FB or X is not best practice, as this would limit your reach on those platforms.

    Of course you can promote your video everywhere and some people might stay around. But the problem is that the algorithm won't acknowledge these views. And Youtube is just far better as you are at promoting your video. If the parameters (CTR, retention, session duration) are good. It will do the job for you, every day, without stopping.

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    22 hours ago, r0ckyreed said:

    I will just have to find the time to do a more intensive meditation retreat.

    The main thing that is holding me back is that I have 120 hours of paid vacation time per year, and I honestly would rather use that time to travel and go on adventures around the world than to spend all that time, confining myself in one room, one space, just sitting and meditating. 

    Maybe confining myself in extreme solitude like that could elevate my consciousness, but I just have too much of an adventurous personality to just sit still and do nothing.

    Either you do it or don't.

    Or you could try psychedelics if time is of the essence.

  20. Posted

    They pay how much they value your work.

    A boss is not your friend who helps you out when you are in need for help. Just as much as you wouldn’t help him if he wouldn’t pay you.

    Also imagine you’d be paid 100.000 per month. Would you still be working there after a few month?

    Or would you start going on a long vacation, building your own business etc.

    If you are not happy with your job guess what. It’s your responsibility to change something.

  22. Posted

    On 12/02/2024 at 3:16 AM, Leo Gura said:

    Yes! You go run a test.

    Create 2 male online dating profiles. Keep them identical except for pics of an above average guy and a below average guy. Wait a week and count how many messages each guy gets.

    Actually do it. Put your theory to the test.

    I did.

    The answer is crystal clear.

    This test doesn't prove much. Other than that if everything else is equal, the better looking guy gets the attention.

    No one would argue otherwise.

     

    Looks matter in Online Dating. Because women have nothing else to go by than looks.

    And with that knowledge you can increase your matches drastically by getting good pictures taken from a professional.

  25. Posted

    On 10/02/2024 at 2:31 PM, Ramanujan said:

    I invested a lot in LP course only to realize that nothing works in India and i am fucked

    If you really set your heart on your life purpose, you can move to another country. Many people have done it.

    For that, a high paying job might be your first step.

    Good luck on your journey!

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