Ascent X

smoke a bit of weed n watch spongebob.

my pleasure.

you get & train your Game but the frame is different try reading again. you should be offering value, teasing, and vetting her not trying to pathetically fucking impress her or create a connection. be and act cocky, playful, & charismatic is the distinction you open, you offer value and set a man to women frame and sexual tension…. you aren’t communicating interest…: you’re communicating balls, carefree attitude, passion, free unapologetic sexuality. you communicate some level of intrigue not flat out “interest”…. it’s “hey, blah blah, i’m just enjoying life, what are you about btw ?” =ahh i’m open & attracted not “omg i really like you, can you please like me? i’m so cool, look see? i think we are maybe connected im trying to connect to you.” =fucking pathetic, get away from me, go buy me a drink. What the hell i said is the only damn way to be attractive…. & it’s fully active and intentional here you actually open her…. “hey btw,” you actively set the tone and frame, of you being an attractive man, you set the man to women premise/frame & sexual spark without “trying” or giving away your power. you tease and flirt for it’s own sake, & because it works. That creates attraction. if she accepts that frame… meaning you HOOK, now you can evaluate and get her to qualify herself. (here you see if you actually like her)… she invests. she earns your interest. People don’t appreciate things they don’t have to work for. … if she doesn’t accept the frame/hooks in 5 minutes, cool, move the fuck on in a good mood, or keep her as a female friend for future preselection and to meet her female friends later. (very useful.) only from there… now you can finally build your “narrative”, her romantic story of you, of us/we/connection “whoa we are so alike” and…. “hey i’m actually starting to like you.. at first i wasn’t sure, but you’re starting to win me over” = omg it just happened, i met this cool guy, I wasn’t sure if he liked me, but he does! vs. some random just called me beautiful and complimented me all night, & was non-stop bragging about his job, asking so many questions oh my god im js a girl. so boring, bro i have a bf. (i don’t) now… after Attraction/Comfort & her investing/earning your intrigue … then you lead to a close with an actual reason. … a number + future seed (yeah my friends yoga class this sunday, this event, etc.), “give me your number” or “i can give you my number. text me your name” or an instadate where you move her around (i know this dope after hours deli down the street) & then actually go for a pull to your place or hers. & mention something about your dope ass crib. you subtly seed the pull “oh yeah my home theater, have a great art collection, got drinks/minibar/weed/hooka at the crib, my sex dungeon lol, just made some great food” blah blah blah plausible deniability. it just makes sense. why not no fucking where is this passive. it’s active, it’s subtle, and from a place of power, understanding how women think, this is actual seduction. This is strategy. And what actually matters most is the frame I’m coming from here, vs. “trying to impress, trying to connect” meanwhile you are trying to force an outcome from neediness rather than test or evaluate if she’s actually worthy of you. you’re automatically coming incorrect no matter what you do. If you’re the prize, she is lucky to even talk to you, she’ll feel that. It’s all in the mindset. mindset and identity is foundation to attractive behavior which is Game, before “doing”. What i’m actually trying to do here is … do the best i can, play my cards right, play to win, execute the strategy, to do right by me, offer value have fun with everyone, push my limits, and see if i actually like her. Only Here can you see if you actually connect naturally, and by default you are automatically attractive to her. no need to impress, or try for connection. your “trying” to “impress” or “create a connection” frame/strategy is pathetic & contrived. it’s simply incorrect. it kills all mystery and uncertainty, she feels she already has you, this kills tension = kills attraction. no attraction, & she feels no connection to you. There’s no connection without attraction/value prior. And attraction is not a choice. That’s the paradox. Actively, & doing wise you should be social, bold, amusing yourself and calibrated, giving good vibes to everyone, acting off your instincts of raw attraction without holding back when calibrated, being playful and teasing… because you know your Value. … & you should learn what actually triggers attraction and how to establish man to women premise and sexual tension without giving away your power, or qualifying yourself. techniques frames formats, building commonality, breaking rapport, flirting teasing push/pull, whatever, running automatically. & you’re just naturally talking to everyone… habit of just blabbering fun attractive energy, or whatever damn techniques because you can, you get a Hook, boom, now you go in and starting leading….. You are doing all you need to do, without this mindset/frame/energy of “trying” to force an outcome with her, attaching yourself to her validation or create some contrived connection from thin air. That’s what you call “creepy”. Once again the mindset is, you’re the shit, you like giving good vibes, and are curious if she’s worthy of you. You express your personality unapologetically, you run correct game, and let the chips fall where they may. This is Game.

yeah you’re not saying anything. you can start by actually being specific, picking apart what’s off, and say something alternative. Or not replying at all. he asked questions. I gave my answer and perspective, having thought the same questions a long time ago. Im not investing more, or trying to get his full life story & be his therapist to give an indepth fully tailored reply. that’s your job as a moderator

he either falls into 1 of the 2 categories. clearly not #1. his issue is he wants a healthy relationship and can’t get one, right ? strategy of dating multiple women, and vetting from abundance is the only way. dating 1 women at a time, “to get to know her” is the same as commitment. Why commit if you don’t know her. only 3-5 dates or months and you don’t actually know her. the hell is “dates” and “dating”, it’s live a great compelling lifestyle, and invite people and women into your life along for the ride, hangout, vibe, share great experiences and conversations, and you’ll naturally see who you like the most. process of “oh okay i’m preparing for a date, this is third date now, wonder if i commit” “i should only focus on this one girl because my brain can’t handle analyzing more than 2 people at a time” is flawed. if you are even asking the question, as a man, you need multiple women in your life. if you found a girl, who’s the only one you want, and she feels the same. he’s not going to ask the question. he simply drops the other women. no man is going to find and connect to that one special women who’s down without having multiple women in his life first. What i said still remains. or you can actually argue me with specifics.

Your value creates connections, you shouldn’t try to force any connection. be your own high value abundant self, & women automatically create and seek a connection with you. you simply give the opportunity and good vibes of your masculine presence, and have a curiosity and interest if the women actually is worthy and alligned of you. if the vibe is there, the vibe is there. if it isnt, who cares. she should be impressing you. being fully raw, open, and authentic off bat because you know who you are and what you bring to the table. that’s what turns women on, and even opens them up for connection. trying to impress or trying connect are equally pathetic and incompetent/incorrect strategies & paradigms that repel women, and dry out vaginas.

Very interested in trying, and would love to know of any of your experiences, recommendations, & learning/informational resources/references. Ive heard it’s exceptionally great for one’s discipline focus clarity and purging you of addictions and attachments, to center back to yourself and core purpose outside distractions. not talking a full flood dose, as it can be very dangerous to the heart, and very long and potentially hell fire purging like trip, so ideally done in guidance in a facility that monitors your vitals, done intentionally. which many exist.

leo mentions briefly kundalini energy surge post a 5meoDMT trip but yes energy and kundalini as the natural unfoldment, of human conciousness must be mentioned and discussed more indepth in regards to actual awakening and embodiment. do you have any experience ?

All i can say is immediate dissolution of all fear, trauma, attachment, illusion immediate forgiveness, understanding, infinite love God Realization connecting & branching out to all of infinity, as me, as the infinite holographic fractal nature of reality and being, and its core truth of one Infinite love & mind as its canvas. and an implosive cosmic orgasm. as sex with god, the universe, the goddess, converging as one.

honestly i say months to years post kundalini awakening, tons of grounding and integration. focus on physicality, the practical, life progress, purpose mission contribution, what did the experience show and teach you, and how to bring it down to actuality. physicality and spirituality are one in the same. denying one is denying the other. the body is launchpad for our conciousness and must be maintained like a temple. once a stagnation has hit, a level of mundanity, a clear consistent grounded, almost too grounded, a sort cyclical state, & a clear calling… then psychedelic use or further push for kundalini may be relevant… so much discipline grounding, presence, and dissolution of ego fears and attachments is necessary. & centering in truth, no chasing peak states or “knowledge” requires true discipline & realization of being. i second this.

I want to bump thread alongside past & future psychedelic use i’ve had many spontaneous kundalini awakenings, which couldn’t fully krystallize into full embodiment. I needed to take a lot of time away for grounding and integration. but want to once again consciously and work through awakening kundalini again. rather than only meditation or psychedelics etc. Need more of the methods techniques, practices, information and others experiences as for me, Aaron Abkes info on kundalini is great practical and pretty comprehensive, aswell as Lisa Renee of Energetic Synthesis, she has near scientific advanced high level understanding of it.

let’s drop the gay shit and denial of PUA / GAME principles, or Evolutionary psychology & Power Dynamics/ value exchanges. core to survival and value based relationships, ie. sex. If you have tons of prior experience and secure attachment style, a career, busy life, great friends and family, aren’t needy or desperate & truly think “im tired of playing around, im ready for the one and a family”, you’re actually a catch and highly desired, & you’re +35 years old… sure dating one person at a time, can maybe work, if things happen to just automatically be on, click, super high chemistry & aligned and you’re certain you would like to spend more than 6 months with that person off bat. if not, you’re wasting your fucking time, & as a man you need to dating multiple women, and dating from a place of power and abundance otherwise, you’ll fall for the first mediocre toxic girl who spreads her legs for you, and she will smell your neediness from a mile away before you even text her, and she will leave you, for a man dating multiple women who doesn’t need her. If you have multiple options, you are taking your time, you are seeing who you have genuine chemistry and connection and compatibility with, you are at ease in no rush and abundance… this allows you to be the most raw and authentic, this is the best place you can be, this puts you in the power position, and now you choose. & that’s the only way women will feel attraction for you. A woman will never feel attracted to a man she feels better than, or feels he needs her more than she needs him. Polarity/ Attraction/ thermodynamics 101. You must be abundant, not be needy, know what you want, have tons of experience and competence, have rock solid core confidence, they must smell your abundance. Best bet is create a social circle, a funnel pipeline, have multiple female friends, bring many women into your life, be honest upfront, and with time… from a place of abundance and actual experience, a place of power. you vet & choose.

Tripping without prior meditation training is retarded.

Genetics or blanket term for, depends on your makeup & tendencies. You also have years of prior conciousness work and development. anyone without that, smoking weed too frequently will lower their conciousness. especially if it becomes a crutch and they haven’t developed prior grit and discipline, & masculine Yang energy. Weed is very Yin, and its energy is surrender, acceptance, & releasing resistance. Your perfect compliment, not the guy who sits on the couch and plays video games all day, he needs stress to wake him up. Really depends on someone’s base level & stage of conciousness development. If its a crutch for them, & they haven’t got their life together, their conciousness and life will drift or are they a rastafari rapper with PTSD, they’ll maintain. or are they some enlightened master scholar, they’ll elevate. @Leo Gura do you have your perfect tripping / conciousness elevating stack and combo for THC / CBD / CBG and whatever other cannabinoid variants ? what ratios / amounts ?

Getting & smoking quality vetted dispensary flower is not stupid, they list the entire profile of the strain. I like to mix with higher amount of CBD flower, & I keep the THC pretty low. The terpenes to sativa/indica/hybrid type actually create a clear difference in your experience. & the smell can be amazing. Use a bowl and take baby hits, & or roll up a joint. You can ease up until you get just right. The CBD has protective effects against too much THC, and it kills any chance of paranoia. It’s a great combo for clarity. This is for general relaxation, sleep, creative flow, introspection, social flow, or simple being ease and presence. Base level higher consciousness. Im not talking about some crazy trip. sure for that, use a mix of distillate concentrates.