Something Funny

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  1. Posted

    2 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

    So if I were to put a tree costume. That would change my appearance. Would that mean I have become a tree? 

    I mean... tree or not, you seem to reserve an ability to define your identity. You've just defined yourself in this thread.

    What makes you say that she has no right to do the same?

    Maybe then you don't either. Maybe only other people should be allowed to define it for you?

    Maybe I want to define you as a weird forum transphobe. Should this be your new identity?

  7. Posted

    @Salvijus you are the one who was throwing loud words around about how transgenderism crumbles under scrutiny, lol. So I thought you had something to say.

    1 hour ago, Salvijus said:

    In this post you tried to give validity to transgenderism because his appearance is so like of a woman. So is appearance what determines person's gender?

    You are wording it in such a weird way. I didn't try to give it validity with this post, because it being somehow invalid never even crossed my mind. I was juat really impressed with the badass transformation and wanted to share it, lol.

    1 hour ago, Salvijus said:

    Do you have a better argument to support transgender philosophy? 

    I don't see how it is even necessary and how it is a philosophy.

    Dude didn't like being a guy so he decided to be a woman. Dude is now happy and looks amazing.

    That's it. What is there to argue about?

  15. Posted · Edited by Something Funny

    https://www.reddit.com/r/GlowUps/comments/1ibz0q6/18_29_overweight_teenage_guy_to_goth_woman/

    I just saw that post and decided that I wanted to shared because it's just mind boggling to me that something like that is even possible. It's probably the best looking transition I have ever seen.

    Like how is it possible to go from looking so meh to looking so good? This is insane.

    Would he look just as hot if he got fit as a guy or were his genetics just better suited to be a woman to begin with? You can't even tell that she used to be a guy.

  17. Posted

    4 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

    A man pays for a date he asks a woman out on, period end of story whether she's ugly

    You are being so close minded.

    5 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

    A man will understand what I'm saying. A grown mature man. One who has had lots of experience with ladies, not girls and teenie bobbers. 

    And it's upsetting how you don't even respect people having other worldviews.

    Not sure what a teenie bobber is but I would rather be with them if they are nice to others, at least.

  18. Posted

    2 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

    Probably things like, what if I can't afford a date then I'm dateless

    No

    2 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

    she doesn't like me as much she expects me to pay for her food

    Kind of, yes.

    2 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

    I have to limit my dates with women if I have to keep paying for them all

    No

    2 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

    Saying "put in a man's position", " have no idea how it feels from a male's perspective", reveals the mindset you have on this and the kinds of projected stories that is feeding this mentality. It's obvious to me and is only my opinion. 

    Yes, and I think it's a fair issue to have. What's wrong with expecting your partner to be able to relate to you and meet you halfway?

  19. Posted

    @Princess Arabia I think I've finally realised what actually bothers me about that attitude.

    3 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

    All men have to worry about with me is to pay for a date they've asked me out on or not ask at all. Simple and genuine behavior.

    I can kind of respect this position, because yeah, at least you are being honest about it.

    And all that stuff about strong and independent women is nice but you can't judge a person's whole character on just this one thing. And that's not relly even what bothers me.

    I understand now that I would just be really hurt by my potential girlfriend's inability to see things from my perspective and emphasize with my position enough to be at least open to paying for herself. Like, I would honestly be upset about it to a point where I wouldn't want to be with her because it just feels so unloving and unappreciative to me.

    This is what would make it a dealbreaker for me.

  20. Posted

    Just now, Princess Arabia said:

    I never said that. I said I don't ask men out. I'm not the kind of girl to approach men for dinner dates or any kind of dates, not even when I'm working (but that's not the discussion here). Sorry, if that's a bad thing for a woman. I might give signals that i like you etc, but I'm not asking for a date unless we're already in a discussion and talking and you kind of hint it and I'm agreeing something like that, but I don't come outright to ask men for dates. Of course, if I already know you and we've been out before or we're dating or married I might say let's go to so and so, that's different.

    I didn't say that it's a bad thing. I just said that you have no idea how it feels for the male perspective and that you wouldn't be able to hold the same opinion about it if you were put in an average man's position.

  22. Posted

    1 minute ago, Princess Arabia said:

    No one should be expected to pay for themselves when asked out. This is not paying for themselves. This is paying and coming out of pocket for a date you asked for whether she agrees to go should not entitle her to pay for your suggestion

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    It's disrespect to propose a date and expecting them to pay.

    I honestly don't see any logic behind this. Like why? What makes you say that? 

    This is honestly such a privileged position. Only a person who has never had to go through a labour of asking someone out can hold.

    2 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

    Nothing to do with all that.

    In practice, it has everything to do with that. Girls who make it a principle to always pay for themselves are usually the more strong willed and independent ones. There is just something inherently submissive about expecting another person to pay for you.

    I once went on a date with a power lifter girl (I approached her), guess what - she paid for both of us, lol. 

  23. Posted · Edited by Something Funny

    3 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

    Why are you guys bringing in paying for someone's time. He's not paying for my time, he's being appreciative. Likewise I'm being appreciative for showing up. You guys are totally ignoring the part where I said, and I'll put it in caps this time, I WILL GLADLY PAY FOR A DATE THAT I ASKED SOMEONE TO GO ON.

    I get your point, It's just that it sounds a bit hypocritical since you have admitted yourself that you never ask anyone out. It's easy to hold that position when you are not actually being put in it.

    I wonder how you would feel about either being expected to pay for everything or being considered cheap if the only way you could ever get a partner would be by asking them first. I bet you wouldn't be so black and white then.

  25. Posted

    2 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

    Sex worker? How dies that even fit into the picture.

    Okay, maybe not the best example. But your party example is also bad.

    4 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

    Idk, maybe it's a generation thing and I'm from a different generation. Plenty of both men and women agree with my stance in this matter and it has nothing to do with treating some one like a sex worker

    Why make appeals to culture or majority opinion if we are trying to use reason?