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  2. Posted

    2 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

    Sex worker? How dies that even fit into the picture.

    Okay, maybe not the best example. But your party example is also bad.

    4 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

    Idk, maybe it's a generation thing and I'm from a different generation. Plenty of both men and women agree with my stance in this matter and it has nothing to do with treating some one like a sex worker

    Why make appeals to culture or majority opinion if we are trying to use reason?

  3. Posted

    Just now, Hojo said:

    @Something Funny What a man has to do for the woman

    Ask out

    possibly get humiliated mulitple times over years

    pay for date

    ask out for relationship

    Act like a pussy to her family

    She will tell you to change you will deny your own identity

    You will get married

    Have to beg for sex

    You will have to fundamentally live as a different person

    Give all your money

    She will stop liking you cause you changed your identity and are a shell slave of a man

    The woman will leave

    You will be a empty shell alone

    Great deal

    This is not how God made it. Woman should be begging for men.

     

    this is going too far

  4. Posted

    3 minutes ago, Hojo said:

    How are you using the word entitlement here? Like the man is saying he is entitled to your time without paying for it?  Are you saying he has to pay for your time and if he dosent he is entitled? That sounds like projection.

    Like really, as if he is not also giving her his time.

    If she thought that their time is of equal value, then they would cancel each other out. Instead, she feel like her time is more valuable so she wants to be paid for on top of him putting all his time and effort in.

  5. Posted

    1 minute ago, Princess Arabia said:

    feel entitled to just ask to go out with you on a romantic date and doesn't know how to show their appreciation for you saying yes.

    Asking a person out IS THE HARD PART. You should be the one showing appreciation for being approached. 

    You are feeling entitled, to be approached, asked out, taken out on a pre-planned adventure, and also be paid for, lol. 

    But somehow, in your mind the guy is the one who is entitled.

    3 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

    Opening your side of the car door for you after you've let me in, showing respect to you throughout the date, giving you my undivided attention and sharing with you a lovely experience. 

    This is expected of both parties. And so should be paying your half. It's a shared experience that both people are benefiting from and they should mutually contribute to it.

    4 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

    Genuine and authentically cheap is all the guy will be showing me if he expects me to pay my half.

    It's not about being cheap, it's about being fair. But I guess if all you see are dollar signs than yeah, very cheap.

  8. Posted

    48 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

    If a guy is interested in me romantically and he wants to take me out on a date, why should I have to pay my share. Ridiculous

    Lol, this honestly sounds so arrogant.

    45 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

    Exactly, that's platonic and with casual friends. That's the way to go, but not on a romantic date where he asked me out. That's what I'm referring to.

    I don't see why it should be different?

    Also, I don't think you are considering this, but you basically filtering out all the guys who are actually genuine and authentic enough to actually have a position on this. Leaving yourself with the kind of guys you see in this thread "I will do whatever if it means I will get into her pants". But maybe that's who you are looking for, idk. 

    Personally, I think that if a man is willing to give up sex and dating opportunities for the sake of his beliefs, that says a lot.

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    2 minutes ago, freddyteisen said:

    When your feet touches the earth it neutralizes your body’s positive charge, restoring the natural electric state of the human body and you gain a sense of ‘peace’.

    Being in nature has a positive psychological effect on people. And being barefoot can stimulate the nerves in your feet, and in general give you a lot of cool sensations, which might once again have positive psychological effect on you. What makes you think that it has anything to do with electric charges?

  11. Posted

    13 minutes ago, Leeo_SA said:

    Due to that, I will close this journal and continue with them.

    Not so fast!

    Before you go, check out this 4 minute habit tracker video. And if you get interested, the whole concept of bullet journal in general.

    I think this is a much more positive mindset, because you stop looking at relapses as relapses, just a part of your journey to rewire your brain.

    And also imagine tracking it for like a year, and seeing yourself gradually improve, a few percent at a time. 

  13. Posted

    @Hojo first of all, this "asking to get taken advantage of" is a weak mindset. The worst thing that will happen is that you will pay for some random person's coffee, is it so horrible? You don't have to see them again if you didn't like their attitude.

    Secondly, I didn't say how you need to act. I didn't say that you always need to act in a way to please them. What "act accordingly" means depends on you and the situation. Maybe for you that means get up and leave.

  18. Posted

    4 minutes ago, Hojo said:

    Yea its an insane amount of rules for one to even begin to decipher. How could you possibly expect a man to know all this.

    Its like we'll its a+b then no

    If its a+b+d then yes

    but if its a + b + e then no.

    What we need is true equality everyone pays for themselves unless someone is broken then everyone pays for them.

    you are overcomplicating it. It way simpler than that

  19. Posted

    @Princess Arabia or not even a date, just in general. Whenever I am invited to go out I always assume that I am expected to pay for myself. That just seems like common decency to me. 

    A few times I didn't have the money so I would just say that straight away: "sorry, I can't come, I don't have the money right now". And then my friend would say that it's okay and that he will pay for me. And that was super sweet and special. I can't imagine just taking that for granted.

  25. Posted

    4 minutes ago, RendHeaven said:

    All perspectives have truths and blindspots.

    You are over inflating his blindspots and dismissing his truths, and then acting snarky about it.

    You are so disingenuous with your fake spiritual attitude.

    I've quoted his specific point and said that it's wrong. So your argument about truths and blindspots does not fit the situation. But who cares about that as long as you can act like you have some spiritual high ground, right?

    8 minutes ago, RendHeaven said:

    I am calling out your attitude, not any specific thing you said.

    Exactly, cause I am right and all your arguments have zero substance behind them, so you need to backtrack and "call me out on my attitude".

    If you want to be so spiritual, why don't you start by focusing on yourself and accepting my "attitude", instead of preaching to other people? Oh, right - preaching is cooler and easier.

    13 minutes ago, RendHeaven said:

    Good thing he's already owned up to it at the top of this page.

    No, as a matter of fact, he did not.