Rishabh R

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    @Leo GuraIs Victim mindset a paradigm or just a number of assumptions? Whenever I see certain thing bad happening to someone I think that will happen with me also( I am making an assumption in that case as I realise) and whenever certain good happens to someone I get jealous and think that that thing will not happen to me. Is my whole victim mindset just a foolish joke that my mind plays on mindset ?I am talking about this thing in case of all areas of my life.

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    @Leo GuraAs I began questioning assumptions after watching ur video on Assumptions. It transformed my life,like magic started to happen in my life. But that also depends on the fact that everyday one has to remind oneself about this project. So apart from contemplating questions (I discovered that it's worthwhile myself and that video has very deep connections to many of ur past videos to the point of ur most recent video) given at the end of that video I discovered that I have to remind myself about this process daily but how?I have made a habit of watching ur that particular video daily over and over again and keep the pen tickled in to my diary.Is there any other alternative process for reminding oneself???

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    @Leo GuraYour recent video titled why you fear truth was also an eye opener for me .As I contemplated the questions given in the video I came to the conclusion that I can be more truthful by questioning assumptions before going into any situation and during first stages of a situation(you released a video on Assumptions almost two months ago).So must I question the things which my peers in my collage tell me - like you aren't am attractive ,you are inferior ? Aren't these assumptions that they are making as after socialising,talking to girls I discovered that I have a good sense of humor which makes me attractive ?They also called me inferior once as I don't cheat during examination.But I think that cheating in exams is a sign of inauthenticity.

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    Sorry to interrupt but Leo Gura I want to say a BIG THANK YOU to you . I am also a patient of psychiatric disorder(OCD) - from your basic self help videos to abstract,philosophical ones brought profound transformations(more than once) to my life as I did the work ,I followed and watched ur videos without getting distracted by other people. Merry Christmas ?⛄ and a future Happy New Year to you.

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    @Leo GuraIn collage certain group of people including some girls and boys called me in a Google meet as the online classes are going and collage is closed so students interact between themselves via online mode.At first a boy (batchmate) insulted me infront of girls by saying that he will have sex with my wife as my isn't long enough then I jokingly replied by saying I will instead use a toy machine as an alternative all of them burst out in laughter(although the girls were laughing initially when he suddenly out of the blue told me to sit and jerk off) then again those people called me in a meeting and started insulting me started by that particular boy on the same topic of insulting me but also by adding some more students to the participate in meetings.But only just after two meetings the initial one being the first I told my friend who is a girl to not to call me in the meeting again.She alarmingly questioned me but I by gathering courage denied her by doing an online confrontation via chat.The whom I mentioned continued to taunt me two more times .In general class meeting when 3-4 girls said hi to me while switching on the video of Google meet and everyone said good evening including that initial boy I said good night and again all burst into laughing and a particular girl told me that that was savage.But that boy said that this wasn't savage .Today he taunted me again and I complained to the Dean the entire matter and the Dean said that he would help me .Am I being Authentic or is something more of me is required ?

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    @Leo GuraMy mother is recently admitted to ICU in a hospital.She has weakness,electrolyte imbalance and cannot talk,she is also a patient of breast cancer .I and my younger brother met her and hugged her .I am crying, feeling sad , that she would pass away .I am also worried about the future like what will I do without my mother,how will I take care of my father and younger brother.Past memories of me with my mother brings tears to my eyes.I am also saddened by the fact that I planned the time I would spend with my mother in the future was just a mere illusion. What to do ?

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    @Leo Gura When I was in middle school I fell in one sided love for a girl .But  she went into a relationship with someone else. I was heartbroken.Then I discovered that she loved her  boyfriend. It hurted me even more. Then I changed the school after my 10th class examination.And did my class 11th and 12th from the new school .After I finished school and get admitted to collage .I somehow managed to contact her boyfriend(yesterday) and discovered that they were still together.Which again broke my heart. I also discovered that she is in the same collage that I am in. What to do ?

     

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    @Leo Guraar In my middle school I fell in one sided love with a girl. I discovered that she went  into a relationship with some other boy.And they both loved each other.I was heartbroken.She used to ignore me .After my 10th standard I changed the school  for pursuing my 11th and 12th .After which when I got into collage I came to know from her friend that she is in the same collage which I am in.Then from number to number I contacted that guy whom she was in a relationship with and discovered today that they both are still in a relationship and love each other .I still feel bad . What to do ?And in fact I am also worried that if I would meet her in collage by chance she would hurt me again.

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    And also I have many issues besides my personal life like my friends once bullied me ,one teacher hurted me .Now is the case that I am in a good collage (persuing Biotechnology engineering)and the girl that I mentioned and also the friends who bullied me are taking 2nd year drop after their 12th standard for preparing for medical entrance exam .My career is also going well by I don't understand that why do l feel hurt by obsessive thoughts .Even going to the mental health professionals hasn't cured me .