Rishabh R
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@NoSelfSelf oo yeah I remember that I have values but every day I see them and following them keeps me away from the rut sorry today I forgot to see my value paper due to classes.By the way my one of the values is to focus on my life instead of other's life.Thank you.
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Hi @Leo Gura and others (a 21 year old collage student here )Why do I always feel like I am inferior to others? Whenever I see relationships I get extremely jealous and angry ?. Also as per my personal life I have proposed 3 girls in my life, hitted on girls , cold approached 27 girls(ya I know I need more).I don't know why I feel like a victim?I also think that girls are too egoistic so no one will be my girlfriend.
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@puporing yeah thanks it is good to move on but the scars remain ??
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In my 1st year of collage I proposed a girl by saying -I love you on a chat(Initially she blocked me on WhatsApp as I didn't know that she was in the hospital recovering from covid -19).After proposing her on chat she said -I will slap will slap you on the face.And the next day her friend from a different engineering branch of the same collage threatened me and said that study and don't do all these things.This event occurred almost an year ago- I don't know that why I am not able to forget it even though I go out a lot and got a few girls attracted to me.
How is my understanding not sufficient enough about the situation?
How am I not understanding the guy who threatened me ?
Also guys and @LeoGura can you all recommend good epistemology books for me ?By the way I have recently downloaded the book an Introduction to contemporary epistemology
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@PepperBlossoms by the way it is a good list and by looking at the list I am sure that you have contemplated the topic a lot ??.
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@Leo Gura and guys how are you all? After contemplating conflicts (which I have to do even more in future) I came to following conclusions.
Conflict arises when
-One party or person unknowingly threatens the survival of other person or party/group
-One doesn't take into account that that person didn't have the same survival demands as himself/herself
-Not admitting that I don't know
-Not exploring someone else's perspective
-Not understanding the other side
and many more causes are there which I can discover. Any more that you all can add ?
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@Leo Gura and guys does contemplating - What counterintuitiveness is in here ? gives an insight into understanding , leads to success in situations and reduces conflicts.
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Hi, guys.Is contemplating in situations -What counterintuitiveness is in here ? a path to make a counterintuitive move? As the more I contemplate this question ,more counterintuitive moves I make.
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@Tim R Ya you are right but I was thinking that by keeping this post alive people can add many more perspectives to it ?.
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Update :
-Detaching from a frame of reference
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I am scared of how the interactions of mine with my collage mates go when I meet them. Obviously the solution is to face my fear and go through it . I am also scared that the girl whom I proposed( said I love you) online rejected me badly and whose friend called to threaten me how will the girl react when she will meet me .So I have to go through it.
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Another update:
-Getting a gist of things
-Sense making using connections from reference of things
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I think that you need to embody the truth that you will get rejected a lot in life and continue on the path just I myself need to embrace the fact that I need to be persistent in the game of dating and relationships. And also try to get out of your mind in the situation in which you are interacting.
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An update guys :
-Seeing that there is always a great opportunity present since there is infinity of opportunities present
-Science is like breaking parts of infinity to understand a part
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Hi everyone,I was contemplating what intelligence is and it came to me as an insight that intelligence is seeing that there is always a great opportunity present since infinities of opportunities are present and also Science is like breaking parts of infinity to understand a part. How do I embody the 1st insight in my career, personal life and what are your all thoughts on that 2nd insight( @Leo Gura and others)?
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An update guys :
- Making an unlikely move
I request you guys to keep this post alive otherwise it would be lost in flood of posts. And @Leo Gura any thoughts on it ?
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Sorry @Leo Gura I am fearful and worried about you too. And also about your health too as you have physical health issues . Is it getting better ?
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Update :
-Paradigm in mind is not the reality itself
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@itachi uchiha Sorry u didn't understand my question. My question was that are there any other things which I can supplement with my ongoing OCD therapy with my therapist and the medicine which my Psychiatrist is giving me? Also I have already found the field in which I can be master in and I am not talking about passion here ?
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@Leo Gura After contemplating what wisdom am I lacking I got the following answers:
I am underestimating the importance of laughter
I am expecting literally every person to be gentle with me ( which is a great foolishness)
Only I am responsible for my own happiness as when I become happy it is only through me happiness flows
Other's thinking are hugely different from me so their actions thereby many people will act below my expectations
Bad things have good things hidden inside them as when they happen they show the true nature of something like is it hollow or of good value
Also being a patient of OCD I already enrolled in a doctor's therapy in which I am on antidepressants and so forth. Any suggestions @Leo Gura and guys/girls what can I supplement besides my therapy?
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An update guys :
-Recognition of change
-Ingenous design
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in Dating, Sexuality, Relationships, Family
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@something_else by proposing I don't mean that proposing for marriage but saying I love you