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@Leo Gura I wrote this yesterday I was spot on > ok I see so you think of approaching as if it it’s golf or learning to draw or skate, which means you are thinking about it with detachment. I think it could be that I don’t look at it objectively like that, it’s isn’t like “screw it I’ll fall of the skateboard a 1000 times before I can do a double flip” I get lost in thinking there is much at stake which doesn’t make it fun. so how do you get into that mindset? This is not talked about explicitly and this is actually much needed to make pick up work. which is why I feel a disconnect when I hear about approaching 2000 women. Drawing is very fun for me, I can draw a 1000 not so good sketches and not even feel anything about it. So the question is How do I make the jump form that to pick up?

Leo has not budged on this, the numbers he give is not normal in my reality. Idk if I have even met a 1000 women in my life, and I’ve worked with many women.

it wasn’t a short memory cramming. It lasted something like 5 months and it was the finals so I had already studied the material before. It was just forceful, I glued my head to books, I didn’t know any better. This can happen in the gym or when when learning anything, learning properly with some theory is what works. Thats why I asked How can I apply this to game ? Like what different things I can do ?

what does that look like? I was going to ask when does spewing words in-front of random girls start paying dividends ? I guess it’s exposure, and it’s important, but I learned a lesson form a time in my life where I locked myself with textbooks to get a better grade in a major exam. Didn’t do better than others who studied normally. I just forced it and it wasn’t the best approach. This sounds familiar somehow, I only learned better studying techniques later where I could have used them and got great results. I hope this can be applied to game.

I’ll check it out. I don’t necessarily get hurt for being rejected, it’s more the emotional exhaustion of rambling words and then having to do this with another 9 women just to warm up. it’s like carrying a camera and filming yourself in public, Idk some people can do it, I just don’t know how they turn off the “I give a shit about people around me” circuit in the brain.

I’m generally very good at talking to women and joking, but I that’s when I warm up to a conversation. You sometimes say something like approach 10 girls as warm up. I don’t know if you are built different or just skilled. But these numbers for me show that you have an extreme emotional stability to handled 10 failed approches in one night. The few times I’ve cold approached was hell and very awkward, they were in the day. Yes now when I look at these approches I feel good, but I feel like if I’d approche now it’s still like starting from zero. For example Didn’t get better at coming up with a good line fast or reduced the anxiety of approaching , Is that just how it normally is? You’re the main source I use for dating advice, as I can at least be confident that you are not scamming us and are giving high quality advice, so I honestly want to ask you this not joking or complaining, and honestly looking to get better.

Since Leo’s videos worked for you, I want to ask you this, how did you learn to deal with the fear of a bad encounter or embarrassing yourself? That’s the biggest issue I have, I normally can get positive reaction from women in general, but cold approach is so in the face that I have no idea how it comes off to women, which makes me nervous. Also what are the best places to cold approach? (I assume that you live in the US)

@Leo Gura can it be used to reprogram brian washing or early society or parental programming?

@Husseinisdoingfine good share!

This is a very interesting take. So it’s not that Trump lies, bullshits and play on people’s weak spots to get approval? It’s also being an egotist is what makes someone endorse Trump? I’ve got many family members which I can call egotistical in their lives, but I’ve assumed that they got on the Trump case because he lies about things that tickles their emotions.

@Michael569 when I reflect on what you say, I think I would love to elevate people taste in design, rase their standers so that they demand good graphic design in their “world”. Meaning I want to make good graphic designs that people enjoy. But I want to draw it’s very important for me, which is where the dilemma is.

@Thought Art how is it different from Mastery by George Leonard?

Bumping this thread up: still can't decide between making art and graphic design. Creating good graphic designs requires drawing and I love both. also I can't get clear on the exact impact I would like to have. I squeezed my head, and found out that guiding people to psychedelics was not so important to me as a life mission, I just know that it's adding beauty and art to people's lives. Turning my imagination to reality, creating the beautiful package designs that add beauty and delight to people's environments/lives (Kitchen counter tops, rooms, houses etc) Edit: Do I need to specify the exact medium in my LP statement? Can I leave package designs, and replace that with "Art" or will that make it too vague ?

The Family itself is 22.99 USD, and I think you can split it up to 5 people. There’s also students discount.

I have it and it's good, you can get a family discount if that fits your life