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  1. Posted · Edited by Happy Lizard

    @Leo Gura I don’t have enough knowledge on this topic to put a strong argument for it, but what if reaching the truth for women is different form men? For example I heard a spiritual teacher say that a male sits in a cave and can reach enlightenment while a women connects deeply with the world and thats what her path to enlightenment is, which is very hard and requires much more freedom than sitting in cave. 

  3. Posted · Edited by Happy Lizard

    10 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

    Your laziness is not my problem :P

    I got too much stuff to post and not enough days.

    Well to my defense, I don’t watch them all because I don’t want to be lazy and waste too much time watching videos form the blog. 

    But I can come back and watch them later I guess.

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    @Leo Gura Thanks for the note at the end of the Ivy leaguers blog post.

    Your style has had me react in a worried ways sometime like “oh shit the truth is so harsh/far away form reach” etc, which is counter to what you want form this way of communication. I suspect who you intend to read these comments are regular maybe middle class somewhat wealthy people that need a bit of a shock. Not to say I don’t, or I never need it, but it was a bit challenging for me to get to understand your style after many years of following your material.

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    On 4/18/2025 at 1:54 PM, Leo Gura said:

    The whole point is that that doesn't work.

    Actualized.org is different in kind from Christianity.

    Don't you think I understood the problems of religion and ideology when I created Actualized.org, and designed Actualized.org to side-step those problems?

    Actualized.org does not ask you to believe in any spiritual thing. It only asks you to question everything to the bone. You can deconstruct Actualized.org. That doesn't contradict Actualized.org. The only goal here is to free your mind until your mind goes infinite. Which is what religion ought to have always been, but never was.

    @Leo Gura imagine Wikipedia in 3015:

    Leonism is a religion centered around the figure of Leo Gura, a religious leader who reportedly threw a brick at a Wall Street building, claiming to be God, and was subsequently killed by one of his forum moderators.

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    11 minutes ago, Husseinisdoingfine said:

    We can try to forcefully impose a Orange vMeme style pluralist liberal democracy, identical to that in Europe, but do the Syrian people want that? Will the Muslims be okay with living under a kafir (disbeliever) satanic liberal democracy that doesn't even talk about God, and has the nerve to not teach God in schools?

    Syria in 2000-2009 had a lot of SD stage orange. In blue society its not very common to see unveiled women and mixed university, when that is normal in Syria. I would say Syria that I know had a strong blue foundation and peaks at Orange. Assad was not against openness and was less crazy although ruling as a dictator. The levant is different then the rest of the middle-east in general, Idk if SD can explain it neatly.

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    7 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

     

    There's the issue. You assume that these media monkeys have serious intellectual weight when really they are entertainers.

    You are confusing entertainment for serious understanding. No one in the media is qualified to understand reality. They are entertainers. Stop taking them seriously.

    I didn’t mean it’s hard to see it’s nonsense, and it’s not media people I’m saying Imagine someone like your own mentor Ralston starts saying shit like that, I wouldn’t know but I imagine you’d be so surprised you’d start questioning yourself. At least with RFK a 10 years old can tell he’s got some screws loose.

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    8 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

    The Covid vaccine saved millions of lives. That's the bottom line that none of these vaccine clowns can face.

    I’m with you on this, but it is so damn tough to face the claims of vaccines killing millions (?) of people and causing this and that, and Bill Gates being behind it and crap like that from people I consider my heros. I don’t even know if I should go into that rabbit hole just to check their claims for myself. 

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    10 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

    This is the delusion of RFK:

    The notion that RFK is some kind of good guy is pure nonsense. RFK has bullshitted himself with such wrong perceptions of reality that he is dangerous.

    In these situations, how do we know whats true? I know I should probably watch your video on that again, but I’ve seen seriously developed people speak about these conspiracies, it’s not just people that look wonky like RFK. 
    Do you think a video about vaccines and Covid is worth while?

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    I don’t see this in pacifism with Green, but would you unpack the number 1. For me ?

    Also I think people are confused cause no one here shares how stage yellow works and thinks in small steps and 1-1 conversations in some thread or something, so you only have your own experience of how you moved through a level, I think it will be the most useful content here if it was done for every stage with serious effort. 

  16. Posted · Edited by Happy Lizard

    @Fearey 

    If he goes all the way it will be dark, we are talking about people that want to sell democracy for cheap, like it will literally have to involve blood and civil war before people start waking up, he might even go after the celebrities who appose full decorator mode. It’s going to be a serious system challenge to the US. 

    Joe Biden was holding it together I swear to god.

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    1 hour ago, Consept said:

    The thing is whatever existential threat that could cause change could there even be? It's not like anyone would invade the US, Trump is a massive test but actually Putin is pretty big, he is basically at war with the US but it's a war of infiltration  and agitation , most dint even realise what's going on to learn lessons from it. 

    It doesn't have to be an invasion, it could be losing something dear to you like a job a family member or you kid's education, maybe some serious collapse of some sort in government, I mean what can we expect from the person that incited Jan 6th?  basically the theory is when someone shows you that you seriously fucked up by trusting them or shows you a deep flaw in your character that invites you to change it, it has to be painful either way, maybe the same can be said to liberals and progressives too basically the whole country.

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    1 hour ago, Consept said:

    This is the shift politics needs, it needs normal but brilliant leaders, deeply entenched politicians with poitical families like Clinton and Bush are just not gonna cut it anymore, people want reality, even if its just a feeling of reality. 

    So whatever we want to say about Trump, politics will not be the same after him and politicians really need to learn from that going forward. 

    But isn’t Trump a millionaire himself ? He is a gang like figure and people like to vote to their level of developmental (there are also multiple or other reasons). 
     

    I think I read that you mentioned you are form the UK. The thing is,  you all are saints probably even the worst of you compared to the worst of the US. You all have been to wars and serious development like most nations have, The US have not had serious system threat and Trump is the worst way to put pressure on the system, equal to training how to handle a sword with an actual sword. 

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    Hey @Emerald love you content on YT! Awesome stuff! 

    If I can offer my view as relatively new  American citizen, what I see in the US is   as an imbalance is Hyper individualism, lack of connection (connecting to people is a feminine thing) and lack of empathy. This goes for many people not necessarily one group and not the other. There need to be a culture shift. Idk what’s my role though, Idk if I need the opposite, but I generally feel an urge to expand and know, so for me it could be about finding my way to balance.

  22. Posted · Edited by Happy Lizard

    @Spiral Wizard I’ve always considered my self orange-green when I get asked where do you place yourself on SD, even though I understand Yellow and keep seeing more and more of it.

    However the problem I think with how you put it is that most people don’t have the luxury to go full green - it’s literally just the last phase I need to be in to fully be at green. One teacher that I really trust mentioned that Jean Gebser- one of the first to create a developmental map before SD and Ken Wilber’s integral framework-  thought that It’s possible for people to skip levels, much like a kinesthetically talented child might skip stages in learning to walk. This doesn’t mean they didn’t learn; they just progress so naturally that it seems as if they bypassed earlier stages. I think It’s problematic to say you gotta go all they way or now way.

  23. Posted · Edited by Happy Lizard

    1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

    The real motivation is personal growth. Or if you just enjoy it.

    You're not gonna do 5000 approaches unless you enjoy the whole project.

    You master golf if you love golf.

    Guys who do well in game actually love going out, being out. Being out becomes more appealing than any girl.

    @Leo Gura I wrote this yesterday I was spot on > ok I see so you think of approaching as if it it’s golf or learning to draw or skate, which means you are thinking about it with detachment.

    I think it could be that I don’t look at it objectively like that, it’s isn’t like “screw it I’ll fall of the skateboard a 1000 times before I can do a double flip” I get lost in thinking there is much at stake which doesn’t make it fun.

    so how do you get into that mindset? This is not talked about  explicitly and this is actually much needed to make pick up work. which is why I feel a disconnect when I hear about approaching 2000 women. Drawing is very fun for me, I can draw a 1000 not so good sketches and not even feel anything about it. So the question is How do I make the jump form that to pick up? 

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    34 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

    This is the key. Not doing approaches after approaches after approaches. Someone can approach once or twice and get results; but if the mindset is to do plenty of approaches before you can see results, the mind will sabotage itself and not expect any results until it does a certain amount of approaches to get the same result.

    Leo has not budged on this, the numbers he give is not normal in my reality. Idk if I have even met a 1000 women in my life, and I’ve worked with many women. 
     

  25. Posted

    17 minutes ago, Raze said:

    Because you don’t learn by just cramming things in your short term memory, you learn by practicing real application. 

    it wasn’t a short memory cramming. It lasted something like 5 months and it was the finals so I had already studied the material before. It was just forceful, I glued my head to books, I didn’t know any better. This can happen in the gym or when when learning anything,  learning properly with some theory is what works.

    Thats why I asked How can I apply this to game ? Like what different things I can do ?