Ingit

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    I am sorry to post again and again regarding this but my possessiveness and insecurity are to the roof... My every past relationship had been full of anxiety and insecurity... my body literally punishes me everytime... Currently I am in a living relationship... but due to my night shifts I become so anxious and think if My girl would be cheating...why didn't she texts me... When I will get her text I will feel good for few hours but the feelings of insecurity and anxiety returns again and I feel suffocated /        My first relationship had left me so trauma that I don't trust any girl and always have fear of loosing someone which is the main reason my every relationship failed just because I pushed every other girl out of my insecurity and quarrels.... what should I do,,,i feel like I could never overcome this...... writing from my bottom of my heart

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    I am an obsessive possessive type in relationships..... I am with a Girl for 2 months... she talks with her two exes In between.... Today i checked her phone In found out she rang her ex But she already said that i don’t trust her and she told me that her ex know that I have a boyfriend... I went upset like why would she talk... But she said normal talk and Told me that she has no problem if I check her phone but at least don’t accuse her of flirting or doing things.... I stay in a livin relation with my girl... POSSESSIVEness and neediness has always an issue with me in a Relationship and J feel weaken and broken... what should I do... how to deal with such situation... and How to not feel sorry for me... my ego becomes depressed 

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    My trainer says that strictly don't. Consume Isolate protein as it will shed my weight( I am trying to gain weight)....... Is it so guys? I have isolate powder at home.... If i consume along with other carbs and fats ....It will behave equal to concentrated protein...what u say??? I find it illogical to think that isolate will shed my weight....should I continue consuming isolate...???? Thank You

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    2 minutes ago, Nos7algiK said:


    I'm not telling OP he shouldn't try to attract others. I'm stating to OP that finding who you are inside and expressing your own authentic self with out feeling the need to impress others due to certain variables society is expressing is indeed the most attractive quality out there. There is more than just becoming attractive that being authentic comes with as well. But, that isn't relevant here.
     

    Exactly 100%.... I often feel pressurized. To act the way society wants to see me.... it is always challenging. To expose ur authentic self.... I often fail

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    32 minutes ago, Nos7algiK said:

    Wear what you personally find attractive, not what you believe other's will find attractive. Being authentic is one of the most attractive qualities we can express. You will feel more comfortable while wearing clothes you enjoy and so you will feel more confident as well, thus making you more attractive naturally.

    By following trends (unless you honestly really enjoy the trend) you fall into the trap of becoming someone you aren't. You will only attract others who enjoy the mask you are wearing and not the "real" you.

    Though I will say there is a baseline we all should try to follow of just being hygienic, clean, and within the legal constraints of what we are able to wear but none of those qualities take much thought to achieve.

    ?? great thanks.... Yes you r right I feel more confident when I dress the way I feel comfortable in.... but I need some more clothing cuz I am wearing the same clothes on and on again....

     

    21 minutes ago, Terell Kirby said:

    What’s authentic to the OP is his desire to attract women through improving his style. He has the right to do that. “Shallow” pursuits can be just as authentic for someone given where they are in life. I see a lot of users on this forum attacking this .. mainly because they suppress their sexual cravings and giving those that seek to satisfy them a hard time.

    Yes U r right too.... I want to upgrade my style but also the boundaries in which I feel Comfortable and confident