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  1. Height-ism and the double level hypocrisy of feminists
    Height-ism and the double level hypocrisy of feminists
    Sure it is. My first two wingmen were two black guys in Dallas. Both of them got laid more than me because they were more experienced and had better game.
    Will you have a disadvantage with white girls? Sure, probably. But it doesn't really matter when you talk to 30 girls a night. You don't need to bang every girl you meet. You only need 1 per night to be down.
    If you're a black guy and you want a hot white girlfriend, this isn't a problem because all you gotta do is filter through 500 hot white girls until you find a few that love you. Is it worth it? Sure it is. You can do that in a few months.
    Remember.... you're not out to bang the whole female race. You're just looking for a handful of women. A handful out of thousands. This makes your goal much easier.
    When I was practicing game, it's even worth it to approach 300 pound whales. You are just being social and having fun. Lower your standards for socialization and approach. Just because you approach does not mean you need to end up having sex with her. She might have a cute friend.
    APPROACH ALL! -- should be your motto. Young, old, hot, fat, man, woman, gay, straight -- doesn't matter. Just approach and socialize. Sort the wheat from the chaff later.

  2. Height-ism and the double level hypocrisy of feminists
    Height-ism and the double level hypocrisy of feminists
    Depends. When I was doing it seriously I would go about every night that clubs were open in the city I was in. Sometimes 3 nights per week. Sometimes 7 nights per week for a whole month. It all depends on what opportunities are available in your area and how serious you are. 2 nights per week should be minimum. That's typically Fri & Sat. You'll need to check your city and venues to see if it's worth making the trip out there on weekdays. Many times it's not worth it if you live in a small city.
    Typical night: 5, 10, or 20 girls. Depends on how busy the venue was. Some nights are just slow so you can't approach 20 girls. Sometimes you only get 5 or so. 10 per night is a great number to shoot for. But some nights it will only be 3 or 5 just because it was slow or you were chickening out.
    The #1 to doing massive approaching is that you need to find specific venues and cities that offer that opportunity. Your average bar does not have 10 girls worth approaching.

  3. Height-ism and the double level hypocrisy of feminists
    Height-ism and the double level hypocrisy of feminists
    The peak of my game was a Vegas 30-day challenge. I beasted full-time for 30 days straight in Vegas, 5 hours per night. I did something like 750+ approaches in that month. I even approached with a cold fever and dripping nose. In fact that night I got laid. I was having sex and wiping my snotty nose on the rough sofa pillow because my nose would not stop running in the middle of sex. It was unreal and not so pleasant. But it was training. My wingman was nailing her friend in the same hotel room. The four of us slept in the same bed.
    Yeah... that's beast-mode in Vegas. Off the hook. Crazy shit goes down here.
    I did it all 100% sober too.

  4. Height-ism and the double level hypocrisy of feminists
    Height-ism and the double level hypocrisy of feminists
    One of the hardest things I've ever done. But also one of the most growth-catalyzing for me.

  5. Are psychedelics ULTIMATELY a distraction?
    Are psychedelics ULTIMATELY a distraction?
    I have not found any methods that work well for me other than long and tedious-as-fuck full-time meditation retreats.
    Realistically you need 100 hours straight of uninterrupted mindfulness concentration.
    But even then, you will fall out of that state once you stop the retreat. Changing one's baseline is the hardest thing.

  6. What exactly are DMT entities?
    What exactly are DMT entities?
    Indeed it won't.
    What it will do is show you how deluded you are to chase after those things.
    You are confusing spirituality with an activity of serving the ego's survival. Spirituality is the opposite of that.
    Your mindset is: "Why should I do spirituality? What's in it for me?"
    To which the answer is: "Spirituality will fucking kill you. There's nothing in it for the ego. If you want to keep being an ego stay as far away from spirituality as possible."

  7. What exactly are DMT entities?
    What exactly are DMT entities?
    Indeed, you do not yet understand
    You don't get how deep this goes.
    Death is imaginary.
    When you realize that. EVERYTHING changes. Yet nothing changes.
    If you have cancer, enlightenment will not cure your cancer. But it will allow you to be happy regardless because you know that you'll just reincarnate as soon as you want because you have infinite lives.
    Imagine if you were playing a video game like Mario Bros and you believed you only had 1 life vs playing the game knowing that you can play it as many times as you want. What would that change? It wouldn't change Mario's world. But it would change how you play the game. All the sudden, Mario dying is not a problem.
    See, when I die, I will just reincarnate as something else. I know that but you don't. That's the difference.
    Yes, enlightenment is technically useless. Because use is an illusion. Enlightenment is prior to usefulness, which is exactly what it's so powerful. It frees you from the enslavement of utility.
    What you're also missing is that Beauty and happiness are useless. And yet it's the greatest joy of life. So in practice what you're missing out on is infinite joy, beauty, and love. All totally useless, yet life sucks without them  
    What you really want from life is not usefulness, you want LOVE and Beauty.

  8. 5-Meo terror?
    5-Meo terror?
    Yes
    You can get so used to it that it becomes enjoyable. That's how it is now for me.
    First time I had a panic attack though. So yeah... it's gonna mindfuck you a few times.

  9. 5-Meo terror?
    5-Meo terror?
    Be very careful with dosing.
    Plug instead of vape/snort.
    Always on an empty stomach.

  10. Any Pick Up / Dating Success Stories
    Any Pick Up / Dating Success Stories
    I've seen him game in-person.
    He definitely gets results, but he is a dysfunctional, sociopathic rapist and so I cannot recommend him. He also games a lot while drunk. And the thing is, if you drink every night, you don't need game techniques. Being drunk IS the technique.
    I'm sure you can learn valuable things from him, but I cannot in good conscience endorse his methods because they are sociopathic.

  11. Any Pick Up / Dating Success Stories
    Any Pick Up / Dating Success Stories
    I've basically seen every one of them game in person. I've casually winged with some of them.
    I've winged with so many different guys from all over the place. Some great, some terrible, and all in between.

  12. Any Pick Up / Dating Success Stories
    Any Pick Up / Dating Success Stories
    Haha
    That's so unnecessary. Of course you could do that. Or you could just square up to her, look deep in her eyes, move your face closer to her's, hold her hands in yours -- and you will see it in her eyes if she wants you to kiss her. If she is giving you puppy-dog eyes, you kiss her. If she flinches or recoils or darts her eyes as you move your face slowly towards her, you pull back. And if she allows you to stroke her face or the hair on her face slowly with your fingers, then she'll definitely let you kiss her.
    And if you go in for the kiss and she pulls away, you just laugh it off and try again 5 minutes later.
    Always assume the kiss will be successful unless she explicitly says No. If she agreed to go on a date with you, she's obviously already willing to fuck you. All you gotta do is not act weird or creepy and make her feel comfortable. You do this through lots of early physical escalation. Google Kino Escalation Ladder.

  13. Any Pick Up / Dating Success Stories
    Any Pick Up / Dating Success Stories
    Women love to play coy and give fake resistance. Or sometimes she's just not comfortable and shy.
    The man has to be persistent and break through her coy displays and make her feel comfortable.
    If a woman resists your kiss, you butter her up with playfulness and wit, boost up her mood, and they try again 5 mins later when she's giggling. Never kiss a woman on a down-note. Kiss her on an up-note. Tickle her first, then kiss her.
    Women are highly state and mood dependent. By learning to shift her mood you get her to open to you. Women are not like men. They need to be warmed up and turned on. And they will play coy.
    Of course all this assumes she's interested in you. I'm not talking about raping a stranger while she protests. I'm talking about flirtation.
    The hotter the woman is, the more she will shit-test you before she lets you kiss her and fuck her. Women need to test how seriously committed you are to them. This is part of her survival strategy. She wants a persistent man who knows what he wants and can cut through her token defenses.
    One of the best tricks you can play on a woman is telling her this: "We are definitely not having sex tonight." Because that's usually her line. Then you have sex with her 10 minutes later. When she gives you the surprised Pikachu face, you tell her you were just kidding.
    You have to stop being serious with women. Play with them without abusing them.
    Push-pull is an important dynamic to learn. Stuff like telling her, "I hate you." and then kissing her. You need to be illogical to scramble her defenses.

  14. Any Pick Up / Dating Success Stories
    Any Pick Up / Dating Success Stories
    I shot a 3 hour video on How To Get Laid - Part 1. I just haven't released it yet.

    But this stuff is sorta below me. Not to toot my own horn, but it's sort of like you're asking Albert Einstein to tell you how to get laid when he could tell you about cosmic physics. But you are too depserate to care about cosmic physics, you just want pussy like the thirsty dog that you are

  15. Any Pick Up / Dating Success Stories
    Any Pick Up / Dating Success Stories
    I don't recommend much of it. Date to build up skills and get a girlfriend.
    One night stands are not quality sex anyway. You will have way better sex with a girlfriend. I also don't recommend keeping harems.

  16. Spiral Dynamics Stage Orange Examples Mega-Thread
    Spiral Dynamics Stage Orange Examples Mega-Thread
    Read, study, and contemplate it more.
    Read the book
    Tai Lopez is Orange.
    People are complex and so is Spiral Dynamics.
    No, he's Orange.
    His book is helping people go from Blue to Orange. It's classic capitalist business/financial advice. It has nothing to do with Yellow or systemic concerns about "wage slavery" as a political or social ailment. He's just telling people how to make lots of money.
    He's much more conscious and his material is not merely about making money.
    I used to be more Orange. I've evolved a lot in 8 years.
    Some topics I still cover from an Orange perspective because all the higher stages include the lower stage capacities within them.
    When you become Yellow, you still have full access to the Orange abilities. If the topic I'm talking about is something like teaching incels how to get laid, then I will use a stage Orange approach because they do not need nor relate to Yellow. I am able to communicate from any color of the Spiral depending on what is appropriate to the situation. I'm not limited to operating from one color.

  17. Leo - breakups with a small social circle?
    Leo - breakups with a small social circle?
    It stings like a bitch for a week. You feel it and go on with life. It helps a lot when you have built a good life for yourself centered around a life purpose and personal dev. Otherwise you will wallow in despair and depression because you got nothing else going for you.
    When you are proactive about building a good life for yourself and doing spiritual work, you need other people less and less to complete you. To the extent that your life is not well put together, the loss of people in your life will lead to huge catastrophe and deep suffering -- because you use these people as emotional crutches to avoid doing serious work. If you take this work deep enough, you will not need anyone for your happiness.

  18. How much do women get turned on by a man's looks?
    How much do women get turned on by a man's looks?
    When women get turned on by male stripper shows, it's not just the body. It's the emotional state the entire show puts her in. When girls go to male strip shows it's usually a pack of girls and they all drink and dance and get have fun together. This pumps up their state and then they get horny from that and want dick.
    Pumping up her emotional state is the magic key. No woman will ever fuck you logically. If you cannot get her out of logic-mode, she will say No.

  19. How much do women get turned on by a man's looks?
    How much do women get turned on by a man's looks?
    Hey guys, so I've contemplating a lot on this for a while now. Now, I don't mean to toot my own horn, but for most of life many people have told me that I look like model or a movie star. Hell, some girls in middle school, high school, and college liked flirting with me. Now, ever since my mid twenties I've put on almost 20 lbs. of pure muscle and I am on my way to looking like a fitness model or a Hollywood male celeb playing the role of a superhero. However, I've approached countless women in my life within all kinds of venues and have even learned so much knowledge on how to seduce women. However, I've only been able to have sexual encounters with 6 women in my life and have only been able to make out with about 20 women (including a lot of them being girls who were drunk to varying degrees).
    I've learned that women aren't nearly as visual as men are and that looks are subjective especially to women. However, I am now starting to think maybe women in general are not turned on sexually to any significant degree by any male visual aesthetics. Sometimes I wonder if there was even any point in me working so hard to look fit and masculine. Do women even masturbate to guys who look hot to them? Do women only like a guy who looks good or sexy merely because they appreciate the fact that he looks socially presentable, cool, and appears to be their type physically? 

  20. How much do women get turned on by a man's looks?
    How much do women get turned on by a man's looks?
    There is nothing special about anyone. Or, to say the same thing, everyone is equally special.
    The mind is bullshitting itself whenever it feels that one thing is more special than any other. That is ego in a nutshell. But you can't stop doing it or you'll die. So here we are, bullshitting each other.
    And now you understand all of human life, especially dating and relationships. It's all 100% pure bullshit which is why it's so unstable. Ta-da!

  21. Have you ever tripped so hard to were at a state you weren't even "tripping" anymore?
    Have you ever tripped so hard to were at a state you weren't even "tripping" anymore?
    That's the definition of a breakthrough.
    You ain't really trippin unless your trip becomes more real than your past life.

  22. Who are the Best Pickup Teachers
    Who are the Best Pickup Teachers
    Asking who's best is pointless.
    Just learn the princples of attraction from various sources and hit the field. The field is really where you learn.
    If you only use one source to learn a thing, you're doing it wrong. Learm from 10-20 sources.

  23. BUT Leo...
    BUT Leo...
    Sounds like you got a lot of work to do.
    Also, don't neglect mastering basic survival aspects of life:
    If you feel lonely, make some quality friends.
    If you feel horny, learn to date.
    If you are struggling with money, master that aspect of life.

  24. It bothers me that I cant do nothing - Help
    It bothers me that I cant do nothing - Help
    It's not possible to be satisfied with nothing without ego death.
    The ego cannot do nothing. It needs to be constantly surviving.
    You can gradually detox yourself from stimulation tho. But it won't feel good.

  25. Does an invitation to trip together imply sex?
    Does an invitation to trip together imply sex?
    Order of operations in dating is crucial. If you trip with a girl for your first date, the order will be wrong and you will go too deep too fast and it will feel weird and creepy -- which is the last thing girls want.
    If you want to sleep with her, you need to dial back the depth and seriousness. Tripping is serious business. You should not be doing that on a first date. Your first dates must be light, playful, fun, and as low-investment as possible. A coffee.
    By setting up a trip date, you're actually being needy as fuck. Why are you sharing such depth with some girl you haven't even slept with??? It makes no sense. Because you're needy, that's why. And she will smell it off you and it will creep her out. Save the tripping for after you slept with her 5 or 10 times.
    Order. Of. Operations.
    Escalation. Ladder.
    Learn it and follow it.
    DO NOT FALL IN LOVE BEFORE YOU SLEPT WITH HER! It's creepy as fuck.
    The biggest way to turn a girl off is by being creepy and needy. And you're combining the two of them into the ultimate Incel combo.
    P.S. If a girl not willing to agree to a coffee with you, she will never agree to do anything else with you. There is no lower investment ask than a coffee. If she won't agree to that, she just don't find you attractive and nothing you do will change that.