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  1. @Leo Gura and @StarStruck thank you very much for your insights. This thread will change my life over the next 3-5 years. My plan is to completely opt out of pickup/dating over the next 2 to 5 years as my front end game is already good but my back end is horrible so the plan is to: 1. Write a list of who I am and what I stand for and work on embodying it in every aspect of my life 2. Becoming financially successful 3. Heal my anxious avoidant attachment style 4. See a relationship therapist to get to the root of my neediness 5. Throw out all my stupid tactics and work on becoming a man of value who has a cool life that women would be excited to be a part of If I have all these things in place then I should have no problem retaining girls on the back end. Thank you once again, this will change my life!!!
  2. @Leo Gura okay, I will throw all my games out the window and work on being more authentic within myself, even if it loses me potential girls at first and I will also shift my focus away from girls and dating and work on my finances and gym / making my life something my ideal girl would be excited to be apart of! thank you for the advice! I will use it to change my life over the next couple years!
  3. @Raze thank you for the links!! really interesting videos that I will use to reshape my PUA approach to find more suitable partners. @NoSelfSelf Thank you for the reply! yes, I should create a life where she is number 3-5 on the priority list and it not just be an act @Leo Gura thank you for the reply!! my life dose suck in all fairness even though i have good front end game. So as long as I am financially successful (which I'm not) and have an exciting life she wants to be apart of (which I don't) I will not have to keep up all my games like not replying to texts fast, not initiating hugs, being hard to access and telling her how much i like her etc? To be honest, I think your right with the authenticity. I am needy but I can switch it off in the dating phase when i'm playing all these games on purpose but in the monogamy part I think I just let my guard down unleash all the neediness that i've been bottling up for so long.
  4. Hey @Leo Gura, I'm curious about a paradox I seem to be facing over and over again when it comes to long-term relationships. During dating, I act distant, limit affection, and play hard to get. But when she wants monogamy and I'm down, I become more loving and caring by telling her how much I love her and I actually start initiating hugs more, I respond to her texts promptly and I'm more available. However, girls seems to lose interest quickly by this because I'm no longer a challenge to her and became a pussy beta male in her eyes. In the monogynous relationship should I keep up all the same things I was doing when playing hard to get such as taking longer to respond then her, not telling her how much I love her, never send her lengthy replies, not give her any validation and only hug when she initiates it but mix it in with still being loving somehow? I remember you saying the best way to keep a women is love but it seems to not be the case or am I just attracting the wrong women by using these tactics in the dating phase? Any insights or advice would be much appreciated and thank you for all your amazing content!
  5. maybe take modafinil and take it on the days you want to work on your course in the evenings if you have pre existing health issues!!! i take modafinil on the days i want to do extra work on other stuff after a full day of my day job!!!
  6. social media is bullshit, delete all your personal accounts and only use it for business and marketing purposes if you have to! I deleted all my socials a year ago and never looked back! fuck social media!
  7. @Leo Gura or a moderator who has seen this, is it cool if I ask people on the forum were I can source Armodafinil or Nuvigil specifically to the uk? I have really bad attention deficit disorder which affects my ability to actualize. It says on google that, "While it is illegal to sell modafinil in the UK without a prescription, it is not illegal to buy. There are many websites, often based in India, which make it available to purchase - though the UK's Medicines and Healthcare Products Regulatory Agency warn this can be unsafe". so technically it's not illegal to buy it online in the uk so would it be sweet to ask such questions on the forum? Many thanks for reading
  8. I had one of the strangest experiences of my life last night. I may have been bumping into a 30-year-old version of me who is a time traveller. I'm not 100% sure it is the same person, but I think I may have bumped into this person on four unplanned separate occasions in my life. The first was at a music festival in Scotland when I was 15 years old. The second time I bumped into him for 3 seconds at a music festival called beat harder when I was 17 years old. The third time I randomly bumped into his on a night out in Leeds. And just last night I bumped into him in my home town pub. I have unintentionally met this person on 4 different occasions and in 4 diffrent spread out locations. He was walking around the pub telling everybody that he is them, and that they are infinite consciousness, and that all there is, is oneness. I instantly recognized him; when I was speaking to him, I got this crazy instant recognition that this guy was a time-travelling version of me. I confronted him about this, and he replied by looking into his eyes for a good 30 seconds, and he says "you know", and as I was looking into him I got this sick sense that he was me from the future and all those time I saw him in the past was him just visiting me from the future. Due to unfortunate circumstances, we didn't get much time to speak but I wishhhhhhhhhh I got his number so i could attempt to get to the bottom of this if possible!!! I have all these questions such as Am I just being delusional? There is a high chance that I am, after all I am just speculating. Was he just a random drunk woke, guy? Is he a crazy time-travelling version of me from a completely different dimension out of an infinite number of dimensions? is he trying to manipulate my future now? If I am right, then I can't wait to play around with time travelling in the future!!! What do peeps think about this? And has anyone had any similar experiences were they think they may have met future time traveller version of yourself?
  9. digital marketing for only high consciousness niches A graphic design company for eco friendly businesses becoming a eco consultant create the first stage turquoise drama entertainment tv program Create a non prophet organisation which just literally researches and scientifically tests how to raise consciousness on a massive collective scale teach kids about basic politics so they can make better informed choices
  10. @paprika test your business about my giving your target audience survey about your idea. get to know your demographic, their needs, wants and desires, their top struggles and moat importantly get feedback on do they like your idea and how much will they pay for it. make sure you get 10 to 20 responses or more depending on what your idea is.
  11. @UDT WOWW!!! this video is 100 times better than the first one you posted on this thread. Amazing work man, keep it up!
  12. @deso maybe this could help? by the way iv never bought from this site and I also don't know much about your condition but maybe this could help