Tearos

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  1. Hey guys! I've been thinking about this question for some time now: How would the world look like if everyone were pursuing their Life Purpose? Would this even be realistic? If so, who would be taking over the shitty jobs out there - for example being a cleaner? What are your thoughts about this? Thanks! Tearos/Fred
  2. @Key Elements @Leo Gura Do you guys have any suggestions to how we could implement contemplation into the education system, and what that could result in?
  3. @tsuki I've been thinking about the posibilities of implementing contemplation into the school system. Would there be an opportunity to use the contemplation in this system which would lead the students to overall better well-being, do you think? I'm asking myself how that would work then, since it would be hard to know if the students are on the right track or not if there isn't a common truth to be found.
  4. Hey guys, I've been wondering about this question about contemplation/reflection for quite some time now: Does contemplation/reflection in its nature lead to same conclusion as Truth? Example: If both my friend and I contemplate on the same topic, will we both naturally at some point go to the same conclusions which would be the Truth? I'm excited to see what your thoughts are on this! Thanks, Tearos/Fred
  5. @Consept The reason I would think it is an Ego backlash is because the Ego contructed the idea (what it thinks it should be) that we belong together in a sense. Therefore, once the rejection was verified, the realization of truth created the reactional backlash. Additionally, my Ego probably holds the dogmas such as that there must be meanings like worth in me etc; therefore it creates even more stories in my head once the rejection from the girl shows otherwise. In other words, because of her rejection, my mind creates symbols about this situation, interpreting it into stories that tells me I am worthless rather than that I have worth. Help me out if I'm out of track
  6. @Wyze @Wyze Thank you for providing me this advice!
  7. @ElenaO I think your experience relates a lot with mine. Because of the attachment to the ideal perfection the girl I fell for entails, I therefore think it is an Ego backlash towards the break of my idea of our fictional relationship once I was rejected, meaning break of my Ego's way of seeing reality - leading to all these reactions.
  8. I'm currently experiencing some sort of heartbreak or lovesickness which has created a strong painful feeling within my body. Fortunately, I have come to a point in the level of meditation that I am not being a victim of the situation, but rather just experiencing it (and even kind of enjoying it) because I am working on falling in love with all kinds of feelings, regardless of the "pain" that emerges. So what this means is that I am not trying to dismiss these "negative" feelings, rather embracing them fully. Interestingly, I also found that what does not really hurt that much is not being able to be with the person I am fond of, however, the feelings react to the thoughts produced by my low level of self-love, or bad self-esteem - which contains "someone" telling me I'm worthless, etc. However, I have been questioning the ramifications of the event in which caused this emotional reaction. Do any of you have an idea about the "science" behind the reaction? My current theory is that I strongly react to the event because I have identified with a lot of ideas and feelings (by the way, in a very short amount of time), therefore not being able to be with this person creates an Ego backlash within me. A more detailed description, example-wise, could be that the person made me forget all the self-destructive thoughts about myself because I was submerged in the beauty of her whole existence, once we spent time together. However, I have always have had bad self-esteem, telling me that I am not good enough for anyone and that no one wants me. Therefore, once we are split up (which didn't really have anything to do with her not thinking I was good enough) made me experience thoughts about she not thinking I am not good enough, promoting suicidal tendencies. IF YOU WANT TO SAVE TIME AND SKIP THE BACKGROUND STORY ABOVE AND MOVE STRAIGHT TO THE POINT: A more direct question would be: Do you think that heartbreak is just an Ego backlash? I am curious to try out other theories, so please leave a comment to help me understand myself. Tearos/Fred
  9. I'm currently experiencing some sort of heartbreak or lovesickness which has created a strong painful feeling within my body. Fortunately, I have come to a point in the level of meditation that I am not being a victim of the situation, but rather just experiencing it (and even kind of enjoying it) because I am working on falling in love with all kinds of feelings, regardless of the "pain" that emerges. So what this means is that I am not trying to dismiss these "negative" feelings, rather embracing them fully. Interestingly, I also found that what does not really hurt that much is not being able to be with the person I am fond of, however, the feelings react to the thoughts produced by my low level of self-love, or bad self-esteem - which contains "someone" telling me I'm worthless, etc. However, I have been questioning the ramifications of the event in which caused this emotional reaction. Do any of you have an idea about the "science" behind the reaction? My current theory is that I strongly react to the event because I have identified with a lot of ideas and feelings (by the way, in a very short amount of time), therefore not being able to be with this person creates an Ego backlash within me. A more detailed description, example-wise, could be that the person made me forget all the self-destructive thoughts about myself because I was submerged in the beauty of her whole existence, once we spent time together. However, I have always have had bad self-esteem, telling me that I am not good enough for anyone and that no one wants me. Therefore, once we are split up (which didn't really have anything to do with her not thinking I was good enough) made me experience thoughts about she not thinking I am not good enough, promoting suicidal tendencies. IF YOU WANT TO SAVE TIME AND SKIP THE BACKGROUND STORY ABOVE AND MOVE STRAIGHT TO THE POINT: A more direct question would be: Do you think that heartbreak is just an Ego backlash? I am curious to try out other theories, so please leave a comment to help me understand myself. Tearos/Fred
  10. What do you think about Prince Ea's videos about meditation, the non-dual state, and meditation? Example:
  11. Not long ago, I experienced my big toe starting to twitch when I was meditating, particularly when I was digging further into the Now. It was a place I had never been to yet and I was excited to reveal some truths, but it was almost as if my body was trying to interrupt/sabotage me from encountering Truth. After my toe started to move around in an uncontrollable sense, I fell back to the regular meditation habit, where thoughts and feelings arose. Anyone else who has experienced this too, and/or might be able to explain to me what is happening to me? Thanks, Fred/Tearos
  12. @tsuki Let's say I am an average, mediocre person. I would say that my life is pretty good. Let's say I decide to start a meditation habit, and after a given time, all the suffering in my life emerges from within because of the increase of awareness I have gained. The suffering was always there, but not until now I am aware of it. Was I really suffering? Or did the meditation create the suffering? Let's say that now, my life isn't pretty good anymore. This is, of course, just an example - but I think it is a quite relatable example!
  13. Are you really suffering if you're not aware of the suffering? Thank you! Tearos/Fred
  14. How would you describe the word "Truth" (with capital T)? Thank you! Tearos/Fred