If people are being mean to you in their journal, please block them.

[Preety_India]

I'm done with this. Don't drag me into this anymore. Resolve it among yourselves. 

Enough pity party. Get over your selves. 

 

 

[Preety_India]

@Benton can I talk to you please? 

 

[Preety_India]

2 minutes ago, Benton said:

couldn't help myself

Please I request you. Can I talk to you please? 

 

[Preety_India]

1 minute ago, Benton said:

No.

I do not trust you in the slightest. 

Please just once. I want to have a complete closure on this. Please let me 

 

 

[Preety_India]

4 minutes ago, Benton said:

you have something to say, say it here.

I want to have a thorough discussion with you and I don't feel comfortable discussing stuff publicly. Please. 

 

[Preety_India]

2 minutes ago, Benton said:

Yeah you tried to get closure like 100000000000 times. It seems to me more like you are looking for an extension of interaction than closure.

I guarantee you I'm looking for closure. 

Please allow me. 

[Carl-Richard]

43 minutes ago, Loba said:

So how is this mutual blocking supposed to work when the person in question can't listen to a basic request?

Mutual blocking was just an idea I was floating, but I actually think it's impossible to enforce for moderators, because I don't think we're able to view or edit block lists of users, and I don't see a way around that. As far as things stand now, it's all up to you guys (of course within the boundaries previously stated). Maybe I'll have some other ideas in the future, maybe a more case-by-case approach, like making rules like "don't ... with/to/about this person", where breaking the rules gives warning points. The problem there would again be to find good rules with respect to maintaining the trust of the moderators (bias, simplicity etc.).

[Applegarden8]

I have a solution! Have a private journal. 

And when I mean private in a sense that nobody can see. Why do you think an open journal will improve your life more than a closed one???

Edited June 12, 2022 by Applegarden8

[Preety_India]

37 minutes ago, Benton said:

Yeah you already tried to get closure like 100000000000 times. Nothing changes. It seems to me more like you are looking for an extension of interaction than closure.

Maybe if we communicate with each other, we can get over this in a more amicable way. I know that you don't trust me. But let me just talk about all this in detail and see where we can get at. Maybe things will change once you understand my way of looking at things. I cannot do this publicly because I really want some open communication on this that I cannot do in public, you have to understand I'm an introvert. 

 

[Preety_India]

This isn't going anywhere and I'm beyond fed up. 

Tell that @Benton guy to either talk about it privately and resolve it and be done with it or never talk about me.

I have tried every avenue to make this person understand and I'm exhausted. Looks like they are the one not interested in arriving at a closure. 

So I give up. 

 

[Preety_India]

I don't think it's fair for @Benton to keep attacking me directly and indirectly when I have asked for an amicable closure.

I'm done. This is my last. 

 

[Preety_India]

Just now, Benton said:

No. 

You literally never leave me alone. Even when you say "if you can just give me closure" and I do it. It is never enough. And please stop getting people to message me saying you want to talk.

I don't. 

You always end up continuing the same behavior regardless.

 

No I never talked to you. That's a lie. Tell me where have we talked about this? I have never talked about closure before. Do not invent things to suit your purpose. I have been begging to you for the last few hour to allow me to talk to you about this but you don't even have the courtesy to handle this request. Shows how much you actually care about closure. 

 

[Carl-Richard]

27 minutes ago, Applegarden8 said:

I have a solution! Have a private journal. 

And when I mean private in a sense that nobody can see. Why do you think an open journal will improve your life more than a closed one???

Never understood that either.

[Gesundheit2]

[Carl-Richard]

Guys, let's stop imitating the Spider-Man picture, alright? 

[Preety_India]

1 minute ago, Benton said:

You have multiple times said: "If you just say this to me I'll have closure!" Or "I just need to know this about you and I'll leave you alone." Never how it pans out.

 I don't have to talk to you if I don't want to. Stop trying to convince me. I am not responding to you after this message.

Then why the heck are you talking about me. 

First of all, the first line is a total lie. I have left you completely alone since your last complaint. 

You're dragging this because you want to drag this. 

The last time I told you that I have nothing to do with you. 

You were the one who came in my journal and called me a fucking parasite and I still took it calmly. 

 

[Preety_India]

5 minutes ago, Benton said:

You have multiple times said: "If you just say this to me I'll have closure!" Or "I just need to know this about you and I'll leave you alone." Never how it pans out.

 I don't have to talk to you if I don't want to. Stop trying to convince me. I am not responding to you after this message.

@Benton please leave me alone. 

You're projecting your delusions on me. I have left you alone long ago. 

 

[Zeroguy]

1 minute ago, Carl-Richard said:

Guys, let's stop imitating the Spider-Man picture, alright? 

This user once again derailed this thread. @Loba caught her and provided proof of stalking.Lets not forget.

[Preety_India]

@Michael569 also please tell user @Benton that I have no intention to stalk him and please tell him to not bring me up anymore. I am tired of his complaint that I'm stalking him when I'm not. 

 

[Preety_India]

@Michael569 also if user @Bentondoesn't wish to privately resolve this amicably privately (since I don't want a public fight or fuss) tell him that it's not okay for him to keep dragging this as he has been doing for the whole last week. I'm fed up of his complaining. I have told him multiple times on this thread that him and I can resolve this privately but he doesn't agree then he should stop blaming me..