Threesome

[ivankiss]

A few years ago I somehow ended up in a threesome with a girl I've been hooking up with back then and a really good buddy of mine. It was great... But maybe a bit awkward, too, since it was my first and only time being around another man's fully erected penis lol. We tried our best to avoid any physical contact... Except when we high-fived over that chick haha. Epic times.

Then, some time after that, I did it again, with two girls. And it was even more awesome. It almost seems like a dream. Like it didn't actually happen lol. It was quite a while ago.

So yeah, I'd really like to have another experience like that now... and it looks like I might just pull it off.

I've been hooking up with these two girls not that long ago, and it was great. And I learned that they're both bisexual. They even know of each-other and hang out together sometimes. If I make the right moves, I can totally see it happening. 

But here's the thing... 

I might be dealing with some performance anxiety, or you know, whatever.

I remember back then, when I hooked up with those two girls, I was struggling to rise to the occasion lol. I had to put in extra effort to stay hard. I was having trouble concentrating. Which is very unfortunate because it's not every day that stuff like this happens. At least not for me lol.

So I'm thinking now, am I man enough to handle two girls at once haha...? If I was to pull it off again, should I maybe consider a pill or something? 

Maybe I should let them play with each-other more, perhaps introduce some toys into the act, etc. That might take some pressure off.

Idk.

I'm a bit anxious but also excited about the idea. Not sure if it's truly relevant, or I just want it for some other weird reason. 

Any of you guys here with experience in this area? Suggestions?

[Leo Gura]

Definitely get toys involved.

And always carry some Viagra or Cialis in your pocket when you go out. It's an essential tool of the trade. You'll never know when you might need it.

The worst thing is having a hot girl in your bed begging for your dick but you can't get hard for whatever reason. Don't use it all the time, just when you need it. Threesomes especially will give performance anxiety.

[ivankiss]

@Leo Gura Thanks, that calmed me.

Don't know why, but I always thought taking a pill is a bad thing, for whatever reason. Like it indicates that something's wrong with me or whatever. 

[Leo Gura]

@ivankiss Take some Maca and Horny Goat Weed too. You will become a sexual tyrannosaur

Work on your cardio too. Fucking 2 girls is a lot of sweaty work.

[ivankiss]

@Leo Gura Looks like I've got some research to do. I'm not familiar with those substances whatsoever haha.

Cardio for sure, hear ya loud and clear 

[Leo Gura]

@ivankiss For bonus points feed Maca to the girls

[Federico del pueblo]

29 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

And always carry some Viagra or Cialis in your pocket when you go out.

How fast does this stuff work after swallowing the pill?

[Leo Gura]

5 minutes ago, Federico del pueblo said:

How fast does this stuff work after swallowing the pill?

30 mins

Take it as soon as you bring them home, or maybe even better on the car ride home.

[Hardkill]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

30 mins

Take it as soon as you bring them home, or maybe even better on the car ride home.

Have you had threesomes before? If yes, then how did you do it? 

[Leo Gura]

6 minutes ago, Hardkill said:

Have you had threesomes before? If yes, then how did you do it? 

I have not

[Hardkill]

Just now, Leo Gura said:

I have not

Oh okay. 

Do you think that it's possible for any guy to pull it off if he really wanted it so badly? Or can only the most talented players do it without having to pay for hookers or escorts?

[aurum]

12 minutes ago, Hardkill said:

Oh okay. 

Do you think that it's possible for any guy to pull it off if he really wanted it so badly? Or can only the most talented players do it without having to pay for hookers or escorts?

You definitely don’t have to be “the most talented player”. 

Decent game and a good setup is sufficient.

[Hardkill]

2 minutes ago, aurum said:

You definitely don’t have to be “the most talented player”. 

Decent game and a good setup is sufficient.

Have you done it before? If you did, then how did you go about it?

[aurum]

5 minutes ago, Hardkill said:

Have you done it before? If you did, then how did you go about it?

I’ve had group hookups and a lot of very near misses.

In my experience it’s usually a snowball type of situation. You’ve got one girl you’re either hooking up or are friends with. And then somehow another girl gets added to the picture.

It’s never something I’ve deliberately pursued. One thing just lead to another. But then you also have to capitalize and not let it slip, which I have.

[Leo Gura]

37 minutes ago, Hardkill said:

Oh okay. 

Do you think that it's possible for any guy to pull it off if he really wanted it so badly? Or can only the most talented players do it without having to pay for hookers or escorts?

In Vegas it's very possible.

Other towns probably harder. Usually guys who do threesome consistently do it by first landing a bi girlfriend. Then she serves as the winggirl and learns to seduce girls.

It's gonna be very rare to pull two rando girls for a threesome. Much easier if one is already your gf.

[Miguel1]

9 minutes ago, Hardkill said:

Have you done it before? If you did, then how did you go about it?

Like Aurum said, the getting it part is not the hard part, if you have decent game. You can also go pick up a girl together with your girlfriend or have two girls in your rotation agree to it. Also, some girls as friends are out hunting for a guy to have a threesome with but this is more rare.

The hard part is to make the experience enjoyable, fun and pleasant for all parties, while making sure that all the switching of condoms and tongue condoms works out harmoniously so no one gets an std, especially when it's a situation where all three are total strangers. This takes experience to become good at, until then the overall experience might not be very good, just like with normal sex. But because it is more rare than normal sex, it might take a long time to get good at it. And also as Leo said, fucking two girls requires good stamina, so you better work that cardio.

[Alex_R]

7 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

In Vegas it's very possible.

Other towns probably harder. Usually guys who do threesome consistently do it by first landing a bi girlfriend. Then she serves as the winggirl and learns to seduce girls.

It's gonna be very rare to pull two rando girls for a threesome. Much easier if one is already your gf.

Hello Leo, How can i overcome my self conscious? I feel ugly sometimes.

[Sempiternity]

I've had dozens of 3somes throughout my life. I've had 4somes, 5somes, 8somes. ect. It's a common occurrence, and readily available in my world. Secrete is to get into sex-positive social circles. I'm surrounded by hot women who love sex and don't play games. Leo teaches how to close on strangers, but I've never really heard him talk about community, and it's role in your sex life. In my community, I'm connected to hundreds / thousands of awesome sex-positive people. We date each other. We all fuck each other. We regularly have sex parties, where we all fuck each other. So, I would suggest moving away from trying to have sex with strangers, and find a community full of people you can have sex with whenever you want. If you're asking where to find them, try fetish clubs to make friends, or sex clubs, or even high-consciousness love festivals. 

[Miguel1]

8 hours ago, Sempiternity said:

We all fuck each other. We regularly have sex parties, where we all fuck each other.

I wonder how hot the girls are in these communities. From the little I've heard and through my own analyzing, probably not the best looking ones. Surely there are some gems in there but the top notch ones are probably either in a more elite setting group / community, where an average joe doesn't have access to, or, they are not in such groups at all.

Social circle on the other hand is a real thing where there are hot girls involved, but it is not the same thing as what you are describing. And there are cons to social circle game as well, obviously. So that's why Leo endorses cold approaching as number one way to get laid, because it grows you as a man the most.

You need balls of steels to open a 10 and stay grounded, while having sexual intentions of fucking her brains out without giving a fuck of the outcome.

[Leo Gura]

Social circle is great but it requires serious social skill which you learn from cold approach.

How you even gonna build your social circle if you can't talk to strangers? The majority of pickup is just basic social skills and social awareness.

50% of pickup is just going out to social places and flapping your lips. That alone will get you laid. It doesn't require some elite tricks to get girls.