How to tell if a guy really loves you ?

[Preety_India]

4 minutes ago, LastThursday said:

Most women know exactly what they want. Most men just don't want to listen or don't know how to listen. This is exactly how women get supressed in society.

What @Preety_India is really asking is: how do I know if I'm being duped? The answer is you don't. You only have behaviour to go by, you have to be sharp and attentive to notice and it may take a while to "work him out". Even the man himself maybe confused between love and lust and not know the difference. Men also don't know what they want.

Thank for your beautiful response. 

You're a gentleman. Being serious.

 

[Zeroguy]

4 minutes ago, LastThursday said:

Most women know exactly what they want. Most men just don't want to listen or don't know how to listen. This is exactly how women get supressed in society.

What @Preety_India is really asking is: how do I know if I'm being duped? The answer is you don't. You only have behaviour to go by, you have to be sharp and attentive to notice and it may take a while to "work him out". Even the man himself maybe confused between love and lust and not know the difference. Men also don't know what they want.

8 minutes ago, Hulia said:

 

Well I can compare. My gf knows what she wants and that's why it is worthy of listening to her. Even helping her out and whatever. 

Preety doesn't. 

Will guy take advantage of her. Well most likely. 

Why would he take her seriously?! 

 

[Zeroguy]

17 minutes ago, Hulia said:

 

Truth hurts and it should because there would be no change. 

Don't be so desparate. 

Have fun. 

[Preety_India]

6 minutes ago, Zeroguy said:

Well I can compare. My gf knows what she wants and that's why it is worthy of listening to her. Even helping her out and whatever. 

Preety doesn't. 

Will guy take advantage of her. Well most likely. 

Why would he take her seriously?! 

 

You have zero right to judge me.

You don't know shit about me 

You act like you care but the only thing you do is make me angry.

I don't know how to enjoy??

Maybe I don't need your version of enjoyment.

 

[LastThursday]

13 minutes ago, Zeroguy said:

My gf knows what she wants and that's why it is worthy of listening to her. Even helping her out and whatever. 

Good. At least one woman knows what she wants right? Maybe there's more like her?

 

Edited July 21, 2021 by LastThursday

[Preety_India]

33 minutes ago, Gesundheit2 said:

This cracked me up! 

 

@Preety_India

• Communication.
• Attention/care, without excess
• Understanding/not self-centered.
• Honesty/Transparency. Ties up well with communication.
• Shares your interests and looks out for them.

Those are some fair points.

Especially the "honesty/ transparency."

 

[Zeroguy]

 

2 minutes ago, LastThursday said:

Good. At least one women knows what she wants right? Maybe there's more like her?

 

Yes. Relationship material. Preety isn't that. 

So what she can expect from guy. 

Personally I would never date her or women like her. Maybe if she is physically attractive a lot but even then it would be just for sex. What else. 

 

[Preety_India]

5 minutes ago, Zeroguy said:

 

Yes. Relationship material. Preety isn't that. 

So what she can expect from guy. 

Personally I would never date her or women like her. Maybe if she is physically attractive a lot but even then it would be just for sex. What else. 

 

 

Stop degrading me. 

 

 

[Hulia]

12 minutes ago, Zeroguy said:

Truth hurts and it should because there would be no change. 

Don't be so desparate. 

Have fun. 

Hahaha! who is hurt? Jackie took what she needed from him - money and left him alone. And sick. If I were Maria, I would just enjoy him dying - alone, sick, abondoned. Not a relationship material. But she was really a goddess.

[Zeroguy]

Just now, Preety_India said:

 

Stop degrading me. 

 

 

Waking you up to improve yourself. Actually. 

You don't want to be happy at all. 

You want constant food for stuff you actually want all the while talking how you want oposite. 

Thank you. 

If you continue and don't change you will end up with abuser. 

 

[Preety_India]

1 minute ago, Zeroguy said:

You want constant food for stuff you actually want all the while talking how you want oposite. 

 

 

How do I want something opposite?

Can you explain me ?

 

[Zeroguy]

2 minutes ago, Hulia said:

Hahaha! who is hurt? Jackie took what she needed from him - money and left him alone. And sick. If I were Maria, I would just enjoy him dying - alone, sick, abondoned. Not a relationship material. But she was really a goddess.

Good for you. 

Go get your naive guy. Wish you luck. 

1 minute ago, Preety_India said:

How do I want something opposite?

Can you explain me ?

 

Waste of time. 

[Preety_India]

1 minute ago, Zeroguy said:

Good for you. 

Go get your naive guy. Wish you luck. 

Waste of time. 

Then don't waste my time by giving out pointless judgements which are nothing but assumptions .

Like I said you don't know shit about me and so you don't have anything to explain.

Just empty judgements created by biased thinking.

People who genuinely care actually care to explain.

You're wasting my time. Use it somewhere else 

 

[Zeroguy]

Pointless. 

Honestly there are so much better women to talk with and share myself with in so many  ways. 

 

[Preety_India]

You need to tone down those attacks.

I'm asking you respectfully to walk away.

I have been very patient with your passive attacks 

 

Edited July 21, 2021 by Preety_India

[Hulia]

19 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

You need to tone down those attacks.

I'm asking you respectfully to walk away.

I have been very patient with your passive attacks 

What do you expect of a random serb? Has he aready said, that he is fed up with this forum and he is leaving, and "be well", and so on? A BMW with ABS, a nigtclub with bitches, a village girl with pancakes - all waiting for him somewhere in the suburbs of Belgrade? ?

[Preety_India]

7 minutes ago, Hulia said:

What do you expect of a random serb? Has he aready said, that he is fed up with this forum and he is leaving, and "be well", and so on? A BMW with ABS, a nigtclub with bitches, a village girl with pancakes - all waiting for him somewhere in the suburbs of Belgrade? ?

Don't know what to do.

I wish him luck.

 

 

[RickyFitts]

3 hours ago, Eph75 said:

@Preety_India

@RickyFitts is essentially saying the same thing as me, he just uses less words and a condensed concept in that communication, yet carries the same message. It does leave a lot of implicit assumptions of previous understanding of self-development and much room for interpretation. One of the reasons why I write so long answers, in order to a greater extent eliminate misinterpretation based in such implicities. 

This is a fair comment, good on you for taking the time to flesh it out.

[Nahm]

7 hours ago, Preety_India said:

I'm glad you realised this. Absolutely. 

Oh Goodness me too. Took years of meditation. Infinitely & as you say, absolutely most worthwhile. 

[Preety_India]

5 minutes ago, Nahm said:

Oh Goodness me too. Took years of meditation. Infinitely & as you say, absolutely most worthwhile. 

Good to know but I'm kinda surprised it took you years. Maybe you have been washed a bit too much, you look cleaner than a car at a car wash ! Take it as a compliment because you look cute