How to live a good life while at the same time doing household and preparing foods?

[John Iverson]

how's your day, week and month? I am looking forward to be independent someday the problem is howyou live the day to day.. Leo's talking about living a good life, but how do you live your life doing that while doing household and preparing your food?? The mundane stuffs.. the laundry the cleaning your bathroom, and bed? I need to be ready... and for now i'm living with my parents so any advice? Before i move? 

Edited May 26, 2020 by John Iverson

[universe]

Come again when you actually have problems. Not when you imagine to have problems in the future.

These things will sort themselves out, stop worrying.

 

Its like the fetus thinking "How can I live the good life outside of this womb. Having to walk by myself, having to eat and chew food?" 

[John Iverson]

13 hours ago, universe said:

Come again

What do you mean here? Expand this or elaborate..

[Carl-Richard]

Those things will be the least of your worries haha

[John Iverson]

10 minutes ago, Moon said:

Once you're put in the situation it'll become a habit soon enough and shouldn't take up too much of your day if you do a little bit of every day 

You want to make this stuff a habit in the first place because it all stems from self-love- e.g preparing healthy and nutritious food often to energize yourself and having a clean home to live in all gives you the foundation to carry on with your life purpose or whatever for the rest of the day

Wow! I agree with you ??? high five!! 

[John Iverson]

5 minutes ago, Carl-Richard said:

Those things will be the least of your worries haha

Speaking of my parents bringing up? I don't do household chores here , so having what you have said, be that my least of my priorities haha i rather don't do it ever, I could become that, just deal with it if i invite you there in my house in the future hahahaha! 

Edited May 26, 2020 by John Iverson

[Carl-Richard]

@John Iverson You'll manage.

[michellew]

Everyone has to do these things, it's just part of life, no one's going to do them for you once you're independent.  Start training yourself now to do all these things for yourself, you'll find practice makes perfect, but be wary of giving your parents a heart attack when they see you helping   You will find all good habits you learn before you leave the nest will stand you in good stead.  Learn to do your routine things to provide a basic tempo for your day, so that looking after yourself becomes second nature/requires little thought and you can then devote your energy to the less mundane for the rest of the day.  

[Evil Raccoon]

You ask @Leo Gura to do these chores for ya! (if he's not too busy wanking it to his porn collection)

[universe]

8 hours ago, John Iverson said:

What do you mean here? Expand this or elaborate..

Im telling you; you dont have a problem right now. So how can we help you?

Move out of your parents house and then, if you still have problems with doing the dishes or washing clothes, ask again. I have trust in you that you will find a way to manage.

[John Iverson]

9 hours ago, universe said:

Im telling you; you dont have a problem right now. So how can we help you?

Move out of your parents house and then, if you still have problems with doing the dishes or washing clothes, ask again. I have trust in you that you will find a way to manage.

Amen ?

[okulele]

Start helping out with the chores at home. Your mom will be happy

[John Iverson]

17 hours ago, michellew said:

Everyone has to do these things, it's just part of life, no one's going to do them for you once you're independent.  Start training yourself now to do all these things for yourself, you'll find practice makes perfect, but be wary of giving your parents a heart attack when they see you helping   You will find all good habits you learn before you leave the nest will stand you in good stead.  Learn to do your routine things to provide a basic tempo for your day, so that looking after yourself becomes second nature/requires little thought and you can then devote your energy to the less mundane for the rest of the day.  

Thank you to your response i loved it

[Arcangelo]

Love

[John Iverson]

On 5/28/2020 at 4:04 AM, flume said:

@John Iverson 

Definitely learn from your mom while you’re still at home :-) I live by myself and I do a little bit of tidying and cleaning everyday so it’s never overwhelming. You could ask your mom how often she roughly cleans and make some kind of loose schedule to begin with. 

Also, reframe housework as something positive :-) This video has great advice on that: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WsJiznzUJGM
Alternatively, you could listen to podcasts or ebooks while cleaning to make it a bit more interesting.

It’s just part of growing up, I’m sure you’ll manage :-)

Thanks

[Elton]

@John Iverson wake up early in the morning.

Live your life like you already live alone.

[John Iverson]

On 5/28/2020 at 4:05 AM, Arcangelo said:

Love

Thanks

[Arcangelo]

On 5/29/2020 at 7:45 AM, John Iverson said:

Thanks

Yeah, specially when cooking.

 

[John Iverson]

On 6/1/2020 at 1:50 AM, Arcangelo said:

Yeah, specially when cooking.

 

Ameeeeen