I Value Love / Intimacy

[Shakazulu]

Understanding how to attract woman and keep them invested are one of my top three major concerns of 2019 and the following year 2020 I will continue growing. It’s like I can’t be mad at myself for struggling with this area of my life. It’s kinda like I have to not worry about results because, worrying prevents me from being present! 

[Aquarius]

Sounds like a plan!

[Bill W]

20 minutes ago, Mikael89 said:

According to people in this forum you shouldn't want a gf. Since you want a gf you are doomed to be single.

And you shouldn't value love/intimacy at all.

And you shouldn't work towards getting a gf.

All girls (and guys) here will get triggered and attack you because you want love/intimacy.

(Source; this thread:)

 

You are like the pantomime villain of actualized.org 

[Gili Trawangan]

2 hours ago, Mikael89 said:

According to people in this forum you shouldn't want a gf

Nope.

You shouldn't need a girlfriend. Can you see the difference?

[Leo Gura]

Love isn't just something you value, Love is what you are.

Be careful not to lose Love while you're so wrapped up in chasing sex.

The thing you most want is the very thing you push away in your desperation to get it.

But do whatever you gotta do to learn that lesson.

Be careful to distinguish Love and sex/girls.

[Ananta]

6 hours ago, Mikael89 said:

According to people in this forum you shouldn't want a gf. Since you want a gf you are doomed to be single.

And you shouldn't value love/intimacy at all.

And you shouldn't work towards getting a gf.

You should be happy alone and not even think about the opposite sex.

All girls (and guys) here will get triggered and attack you because you want love/intimacy.

(Source; this thread:)

 

Here we go again...  *yawns* 

 

[JustThinkingAloud]

13 minutes ago, Anna1 said:

Here we go again...  *yawns* 

 

It's attention seeking. He's lonely and he thinks that the only way to get noticed a lot is to cause trouble rather than by doing something useful. He doesn't realize that he's actually pushing people away.

[remember]

@Mikael89 perfect so what are you then doing if you know all of that? what is the synthesis of still wanting? what is the action plan?

i mean you are stuck with this two years now... you must have developed some kind of plan...at least in essence. the op at least takes action in trying to find a way without focusing on the fast results too much.

don`t tell me you still are sitting in that car in the middle of the desert waiting for a road runner to come by.

mep mep

Edited November 28, 2019 by remember

[Shakazulu]

@Leo Gura I think it’s time to update my values! 
@Mikael89 I believe in your statement!