assx95

Why do I repel girls by being myself?

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@DrewNows  I think some people were making fun of her, or she was just saying it, or maybe both, I don't remember it clearly. But when the teacher came and started telling the bullies/her that she is slim, she would just scoled them that she is not slim, she owned it kinda. But I don't know if it was coming from a place of suffering or acceptance. I was just trying to show a very weird case.

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@DrewNows Who determines skinny & fat?  Is it “in the Bible” so to speak? Written in hieroglyphics in a pyramid? Who determines this has to do with beautiful, not beautiful, attractive, unattractive? Of course, you do. The relevant question is, are you aware that you are creating your own reality, or reacting in conditioned thought patterns? To what extent are you aware that you do? Is your ceiling “societies norms”? (Cause that’s actually up to you as well) There’s no escaping you are the dreamer, even in a dream. Especially in a dream.  Identified as body mind though, the world is quite screwed, everything appears ‘relative’ to “you”, right under your nose. In awareness of defensiveness (offensiveness) & protectiveness (needing to be understood & other to see things “my” way, or there is something “wrong” with them). Ain’t no body tryin to experience the death of their own identity though. Well, one maybe. There is no infinite regress, because there is absolute. (♥️)


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@Nahm you crack me up! it always feels as if you're trying to push me over the cliff when im not yet sure i can fly, perhaps, only thinking, i need to be able to xD

7 hours ago, Nahm said:

The relevant question is, are you aware that you are creating your own reality, or reacting in conditioned thought patterns? To what extent are you aware that you do? Is your ceiling “societies norms”? (Cause that’s actually up to you as well)

I am Aware, and i agree ^_^

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@Natasha Corey Wayne was like the beginning of my personal development work in my early 20s. You're right, he's good. He knows how to help people understand how most woman think and change their own mindsets, a huge obstacle for most guys.

It's probably been at least 4 years since ive seen one of his vids, but i remember reading his book too. I wonder how i might perceive his work differently 

 

 

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@DrewNows Wayne's methods are mostly practical/technical while lacking in the area of spirituality. Perhaps that's the reason you stopped watching his vids. He's definitely a Stage Orange coach and those who are in higher stages of development might find themselves having outgrown his teachings as far as values go.  

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@assx95 sounds like you suffer from nice guy syndrome. 

Leo has some videos on male/female dynamics that will shed some light.

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I don't think I've seen one correct answer ITT. (The truth is brutal thus why i'm not saying it outright)

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