The Pick Up Diary

[Lynnel]

5 hours ago, Anna1 said:

I wasn't speaking in absolutes (wasn't meaning to at least), but you seemed to be, when you said age didn't have to do with it. It can and sometimes does. I'm not saying, then or now, that it's not done or possible (my dad married a woman 20 yrs younger), but it's not the norm, imo. Some women are even creeped out by it (ie, dont want to date someone old enough to be their dad). 

The idea behind my opinion is more complex : yes obviously age is a factor but "you're too old" can also be used to get rid of you if you're not attractive.

So if he assumes it doesn't matter it won't bother him and obviously reality will strike and sometimes it will truly matter but at least he won't fail by thinking he's too old when he actually wasn't

Overall we have to see on a case per case basis.  It's very hard to have absolute statements for such things.

[Ananta]

Ok, I got it, instead of always hitting on youngens, maybe split up your approaching. 1/2 the time woman at least 40 (your age) and the other 1/2 youngens 20+. See if you have more success with one group over the other. 

[Ananta]

Hm, another issue Arc is your weed usage. Many ppl can tell if someone's high and it's not attractive. Sorta like when a drunk hits on you. You just wanna tell em' to go pound salt. My parents smoked pot my entire childhood. No one can try to say they aren't high around me, if they are, cuz I'll know it.

[Arcangelo]

Thanks Lynnel!

1 hour ago, Anna1 said:

Hm, another issue Arc is your weed usage. Many ppl can tell if someone's high and it's not attractive. Sorta like when a drunk hits on you. You just wanna tell em' to go pound salt. My parents smoked pot my entire childhood. No one can try to say they aren't high around me, if they are, cuz I'll know it.

About that... I am going on a 20ish day T-Break tomorrow. And yeah my face changes when i am high and is not for the better.

 

[Ananta]

15 minutes ago, Arcangelo said:

I am going on a 20ish day T-Break tomorrow.

Sorry, but I don't know what a T- break is?

16 minutes ago, Arcangelo said:

And yeah my face changes when i am high and is not for the better.

Hehe. Do your eyes get a bit blood shot and slanty too?

 

[Arcangelo]

25 minutes ago, Anna1 said:

Sorry, but I don't know what a T- break is?

Stands for tolerance break

[Ananta]

1 minute ago, Arcangelo said:

Stands for tolerance break

If you can do 20, maybe you don't really need it?

[Arcangelo]

10 hours ago, Anna1 said:

If you can do 20, maybe you don't really need it?

No I don't really need it. But I am a sportsman, and it's incredibly therapeutic. Weed is like a performance enhancing drug for my life.

The way i see it: I don't really need to do 10 push ups a day, but will my life be better if I do? Most likely yes. That's how I see weed. It makes my life better in so many aspects.

Weed is like being hungry and wanting a burger, you go to the restaurant and they ask you if you want a beverage and fries with it, and you say: -''Sure yes OFC, a burger is always better with fries and a beverage.''

The burger is life, the fries and the beverage are the weed.

 

 

Arc

[Ananta]

3 minutes ago, Arcangelo said:

It makes my life better in so many aspects.

Hm, that's what I use to think about cigarettes and vaping, until I realized it was killing me and it was just the addiction talking.

[Arcangelo]

6 hours ago, Anna1 said:

Hm, that's what I use to think about cigarettes and vaping, until I realized it was killing me and it was just the addiction talking.

Don't get me wrong I have said this and I will say it again: I am 100% addicted to weed. When you talk to me the addiction is the one that does all the talking. Make no mistake: I am the biggest pothead at actualized.org and I will challenge anyone who says otherwise.

The fact that I am addicted doesn't change the fact that it is incredibly therapeutic for my body, mind and spirit. I started smoking recreationally now I smoke medicinally, and i don't mind recreating my self while i take my medicine.

 

Today's interactions>

Today I talked to Mariela at a book store, and I stopped Mariana at a super busy sidewalk, they were both less than 25yo.

Mariela stepped back, and Mariana had a boyfriend.

 

See you next time!

Edited February 15, 2020 by Arcangelo
Weed

[Arcangelo]

Hi, yesterday i got stood up by a 3. As I have been saying: -''I have lowered my standards beyond my own beliefs''

I met her 2 weeks ago on the street her name was Naomi. I called her and told her about meeting up next saturday, then I called her on Thursday to tell her at what time and place, and I even told her: -''Let me know if you can't make it.''

I am not too eager of lowering my standards ever again tbh. It is depressing to get stood up by a 3 tbh. I would very much rather being stood up by a 10. I rather wasting my time for a 10 than for a 3.

I gave up a while ago (years ago) but things go full circle. Even though I gave up, talking to girls is who I am.This girl standing me up is like a new low for me. Like giving up again, if it was possible.

 

See you next time!

 

 

[Ananta]

@Arcangelo Maybe she got hit by a bus, ya never know. 

[Roy]

10 hours ago, Arcangelo said:

Hi, yesterday i got stood up by a 3. As I have been saying: -''I have lowered my standards beyond my own beliefs''

I met her 2 weeks ago on the street her name was Naomi. I called her and told her about meeting up next saturday, then I called her on Thursday to tell her at what time and place, and I even told her: -''Let me know if you can't make it.''

I am not too eager of lowering my standards ever again tbh. It is depressing to get stood up by a 3 tbh. I would very much rather being stood up by a 10. I rather wasting my time for a 10 than for a 3.

I gave up a while ago (years ago) but things go full circle. Even though I gave up, talking to girls is who I am.This girl standing me up is like a new low for me. Like giving up again, if it was possible.

 

See you next time!

 

 

If I have any advice regarding rejections, it's don't take it personally. You have to realize people make yes or no decisions (like going on a date) based on very quick assumptions and the emotions they are feeling at that time. If the interactions or conversations are too short or aren't deep enough, they aren't making informed decision because they don't have enough information. You could be the most awesome, sweet person in the world but it won't matter if they are having a bad day and won't take a compliment, or they are so busy they are stressed and don't they have time but actually a date would be perfect for them and their stress!

Maybe that 3 has self-esteem issues and masks them by thinking she deserves a 10 herself, and won't even return a call of someone who isn't a model stud.

Is that YOUR problem?????? No, it speaks about HER dude!

The best way to get out of stewing in that pool of pain and self-loathing is to simply accept (as @Anna1 said above) that you'll never know exactly what was going through their head. Chances are they don't either most of the time.

Consider how limited your energy is, and find out exactly where you want to apply it.

Edited February 17, 2020 by Roy

[Ananta]

@Roy Nice post!

 

One more thing about my bus comment. Not that she really got hit by a bus (still never know tho), but about 20 years ago my mom was on her way to work and was crossing the street and "literally" got hit by a bus!

She was laid up in ICU with a brain bleed and until someone cared enough to call her work they were probably thinking bad things about her not only not showing up, but not calling either!

[Derek White]

@Arcangelo Why don’t you try hiring a prostitute or an escort? Does porn not saftisfy you? Have you had success getting laid?

Edited February 27, 2020 by Derek White

[Arcangelo]

On 2/27/2020 at 4:27 PM, Derek White said:

Why don’t you try hiring a prostitute or an escort?

I am single and 40, I have effed plenty of prostitutes in my life, plenty. I actually went on a rampage on 2018 when my online Biz was thriving.

Having sex with a prostitute feels like masturbating with a human vagina instead of my hand. It's not the real deal. Thing is that I am aware of the energetic connections you make when you have sex with someone, and this girls have a dark aura, and the brothels a bad vibe. Not that I see auras or anything but they come from a dark place.

Their boyfriends/pimps are bad guys: Drug dealers, killers, scammers, you name it. The prostitutes themselves are bad girls, they use violence against the pretty new prostitutes, they are territorial, they sell drugs, they use drugs (the bad drugs), they are depressed, SOME (read almost all) of them hate men. I sense all of that. It's horrible, some of them are sex slaves I bet.

When I did my first MDMA trip on my 40th B-Day, I understood (had the insight) that I am building karma by having sex with them. I didn't come to this planet to build karma, I came to dissolve it. 

 

On 2/27/2020 at 4:27 PM, Derek White said:

Does porn not saftisfy you?

No, not at all. I quit porn a while ago, like more than a year ago. It is one of my biggest accomplishments in life.

Porn is kinda like filmed prostitution.

I managed to quit porn by watching Leo's Self Deception series and Leo's 30 Ways Society Fucks You in the Ass. THANK YOU LEO!

Also by hearing about horror stories of guys that can not get it up w/o porn.

Porn is training yourself to be a cuckhold: You are watching the girl of your desires having sex with another dude, in the meantime you are masturbating.

When I masturbate I use my imagination, not pixels. Not even instagram.

 

On 2/27/2020 at 4:27 PM, Derek White said:

Have you had success getting laid?

I've had like 3 or 4 one night stands but I met the girls through friends. So it was not cold approach pick up.

The biggest success I have had doing cold approach pick up was getting to 2nd base 13 years ago. I didn't know that what I was doing was called pick up. That's why I say that every man that has ever lived is a PUA. The results and the level of manipulation just vary from individual to individual.

If I get a hair cut, new clothes and shoes I am manipulating, but is fair. If I lie about me being a professional soccer player it's unfair. You get the point.

Thanks for your questions Derek!

 

Latest interactions:

-The other day at a sidewalk I told a girl: -''Hi young lady can I talk to you for a second?'' But she ignored me and kept walking, she was alright. 

-And today I broke the touch barrier with Caroline, I shook her hand. Haha!

Touching a quality woman (she speaks 5 languages, teaches global politics and lives by herself) you really like is awesome!

 

See you next time!

 

 

Edited February 29, 2020 by Arcangelo
spelling again

[Arcangelo]

On 2/27/2020 at 4:27 PM, Derek White said:

Have you had success getting laid?

Actually yes. I completely forgot about Karla.

This is an old post:

I found mine in the street, like 18 years ago. She was a 10. She was a dancer. She was a street artist. I had seen her by my old neighborhood.

Then I saw her in my new neighborhood.

Arc: -''Hi I have seen you around XX''

After a short interaction we exchanged phone numbers. She was never my girlfriend but we went out a couple of times, and had sex once.

How do I know she was a witch? Because she told me that she cleaned her house using a blend of leaves from pine trees, eucalyptus, mint, rosemary and prolly something else. And at the end she told me: -''That's how us witches clean our houses.''

She also introduced me to salvia, the plant, not the extract. She knew where to find it, she was like a herbalist.

 

 

See you next time!

Edited February 29, 2020 by Arcangelo
grammar

[Derek White]

20 hours ago, Arcangelo said:

this girls have a dark aura

Really? I never hired a prostitute but the ones online seem jovial. 

20 hours ago, Arcangelo said:

You are watching the girl of your desires having sex with another dude, in the meantime you are masturbating.

You could watch solos.

Where did you meet that witch? I wanna hang out in that area.

Ps: (You should get a profile pic)

 

Edited February 29, 2020 by Derek White

[Ananta]

21 hours ago, Arcangelo said:

If I get a hair cut, new clothes and shoes I am manipulating, but is fair.

Um, no, it's not manipulation. Manipulation is deceptive or underhanded tactics.

 

[Arcangelo]

47 minutes ago, Anna1 said:

Um, no, it's not manipulation. Manipulation is deceptive or underhanded tactics.

Ah OK cool. I never lie in PU situations, I could have lied to Caroline the other day to impress her, she asked me If I woke up everyday early in the morning to train cycling, I could have said: -''Yes, everyday baby'' but instead I told her the truth: -''Nah, when I wake up that early is to go meet my weed provider.''

I thought: -''Man, I could have lied to her and she would have had a better opinion of me. That prolly would have increased my chances with her.''

But I didn't, is not who I am. I consider myself to be an OK liar but IDK. We all lie, we learn to lie and to manipulate before we learn to talk or to walk.

1 hour ago, Derek White said:

Really? I never hired a prostitute but the ones online seem jovial. 

NEVER EVER hire a prostitute online. NEVER.

 

1 hour ago, Derek White said:

You could watch solos.

HELL NO. Didn't you read this?

22 hours ago, Arcangelo said:

horror stories of guys that can not get it up w/o porn.

 

1 hour ago, Derek White said:

Where did you meet that witch? I wanna hang out in that area.

I rather not telling bro. It was a street, a sidewalk. It was destiny.

I guess if you go to yoga classes or a meditation retreat you can find witches there.

 

See you next time guys!

Peace

 

Arc