If a girl differs with your spiritual views would you still be with her?

[Leo Gura]

8 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

you're not 'gonna find a chick thar will ever equal you on this stuff.

I am not looking for a chick at all.

[Inliytened1]

Just now, Leo Gura said:

I am not looking for a chick at all.

Suit yourself.

[Inliytened1]

@Leo Gura  I had two choices. I could be like you. Or I can bend like metal..

You and Valach will learn that you can't win by playing one side. 

Edited 2 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Cubbage]

2 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

It's not a problem. As long as they do not proselytise

100% agree

[Cubbage]

10 hours ago, JoshB said:

The second you hold something above Truth it is not a matter of if but when it will corrupt.

This is a good quote 💯 

[Cubbage]

Shared values are attractive but too much similarity in dating is unexciting imo. I used to only date women who were into the same music as me. Part of the fun and intrigue in getting to know someone is discovering why they're into the things they love that you don't. I actually find it fairly spiritual understanding and then connecting with a partners interests that you wouldn't usually give the time of day. It's like connecting with more of yourself through a partner being a conduit towards that.

Spirituality in dating is a different ballpark though ofc. I wouldn't date a new ager or a religious person. Obviously, that cuts out a huge chunk of potential partners. I have met very few genuinely spiritual women in the dating world, but that makes meeting them so much more interesting cause genuinely spiritual people are a rare breed regardless of gender.

[amberlight]

38 minutes ago, Cubbage said:

I have met very few genuinely spiritual women in the dating world, but that makes meeting them so much more interesting cause genuinely spiritual people are a rare breed regardless of gender.

How do i find them? 

[integral]

On dating apps i filter for "spiritual", it must be written anywhere in there bio.

Then i manually filter out religios people that mistakenly use the world spiritual.

And swipe right on all remaining.

Im now dating a Buddhist.

Buddhism did not save her from herself and it definitely didnt make my job any easier. 😂

Edited 6 hours ago by integral

[Davino]

3 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

What does not work so well is people whose heads are full of fake spirituality, because they will demand that you respect and oblige their fake ways. They will push their fake ways on you.

That's very annoying, but you can stablish limits and work things out. It's no different than handling any other important disagreement. Although clearly there are red lines.

[Basman]

6 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

It is a problem if they believe a bunch of New Age trash spirituality.

But Leo, what if their your divine twin flame of eros?

[Inliytened1]

12 hours ago, Hojo said:

Yes I want a woman that loves hitler.

It hot to me when a woman say that love hitler. It shows me they are not scared to break out of social norms which 99 percent of woman are in.

Lol 

[Inliytened1]

11 hours ago, aurum said:

Within a certain limit.

Where exactly that line is, is not obvious.

I would have to take in full picture of her.

She usually makes that clear. So what if she is Christian for example.  Because you're bound to meet a Christian. There's so many Christian girls in the states. 

Edited 2 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Inliytened1]

5 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

I am not looking for a chick at all.

@Leo Gura

You need to find a wise one.  Then she will keep you in line. And you will. I foresee it.  It's my dream afterall.

Edited 2 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Inliytened1]

5 hours ago, Cubbage said:

Shared values are attractive but too much similarity in dating is unexciting imo. I used to only date women who were into the same music as me. Part of the fun and intrigue in getting to know someone is discovering why they're into the things they love that you don't. I actually find it fairly spiritual understanding and then connecting with a partners interests that you wouldn't usually give the time of day. It's like connecting with more of yourself through a partner being a conduit towards that.

Spirituality in dating is a different ballpark though ofc. I wouldn't date a new ager or a religious person. Obviously, that cuts out a huge chunk of potential partners. I have met very few genuinely spiritual women in the dating world, but that makes meeting them so much more interesting cause genuinely spiritual people are a rare breed regardless of gender.

Yeah. They aren't rare but they're usually Christian. But hell as long as they can get down.  

 

Edited 1 hour ago by Inliytened1

[Olaf]

@Leo Gura what would your future girlfriend look like? Do you think she will be able to accept what you do?

[Inliytened1]

2 minutes ago, Olaf said:

@Leo Gura what would your future girlfriend look like? Do you think she will be able to accept what you do?

He's not gonna have a gf any time soon. He's smarter than us. So I guess it's just that. 

[Inliytened1]

10 hours ago, trenton said:

This sounds more workable in my opinion. I would think of it as someone who might be honestly agnostic or perhaps doesn't think much of spiritual beliefs. From their, the interest would probably be in what she focuses on instead of spirituality.

Does she like games? Nature? Just having fun? Relaxing? What does she like to learn about? What does she enjoy?

I think the details matter. Maybe she's not interested in metaphysics, but has other strong interests that would be worth exploring together.

God those types of girls are a godsent.