Alexop

Dating app and social media are fucking dating up

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3 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Gemini said I was not sympathetic enough but that the tough love is more helpful than empty platitudes.

I dislike validating pain like this because I don't think it really solves the problem. Would it be great if you went to random events and the most attractive women there were supposed interested in you for no reason and pursued you heavily? Sure. That doesn't seem to be how the world works though. To me Stage Yellow is being able to go beyond our own pain and also understand women's pains and their desires and to be able to fulfill that before we really overemphasize about getting our needs met. 

I also have felt invisible and unwanted by women. I do recognize the pain that it produces. Some people advocate for just more meditation and trying to get rid of your desires and embrace spirituality and somehow that makes it all better. I found that to be 30% accurate and 70% delusional spiritual bypassing nonsense.

What I found works is to level up my social life and place myself at the top of a high value ecosystem and getting hot girls to fuck me. Life is hard but when I cuddle with a girl I like and I cum in her then we both feel better. Then I get motivated to keep working on my life purpose and business and keep that cycle going. Otherwise I get suicidal and think life is too painful and not worth it. The main and only thing that makes it better is getting what I want in life.

I would suggest writing down all you want so your psyche is not filled with undefined longings and then you go and do it. It's truly diabolocal that Stage Green demonizes money and sex because they are 2 of the best verticals to do self-development and find massive life satisfaction. If you don't master those 2 areas of life then you are bound to be frustrated and miserable. 

I need a hug after that tough love plz


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5 minutes ago, Ulax said:

I need a hug after that tough love plz

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(Even the victim mindset bros will eventually get UBI and infinitely hot AI girlfriends. I'm working on some for Legends of the Abyss, they're gonna be dope.)


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32 minutes ago, LordFall said:

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(Even the victim mindset bros will eventually get UBI and infinitely hot AI girlfriends. I'm working on some for Legends of the Abyss, they're gonna be dope.)

The dream is not easy but each day we're getting closer


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Make your own dating app. Uncorrupted.

Ai will code anything for you, no coding knowledge required. Ai is as good as any goolge/facebook/microsoft/apple/tesla engineer. 

Edited by integral

How is this post just me acting out my ego in the usual ways? Is this post just me venting and justifying my selfishness? Are the things you are posting in alignment with principles of higher consciousness and higher stages of ego development? Are you acting in a mature or immature way? Are you being selfish or selfless in your communication? Are you acting like a monkey or like a God-like being?

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29 minutes ago, integral said:

Make your own dating app. Uncorrupted.

Ai will code anything for you, no coding knowledge required. Ai is as good as any goolge/facebook/microsoft/apple/tesla engineer. 

Honestly yeah, that's the right idea. All you would have to do is make vlogs about your dating life, go outside and do street interviews asking for people to vent about their own dating life and pitch your app to them and people will join. Honestly I thought about doing it and I think I will. I think it's entirely possible to build a massively abundant dating life and make millions in the process. There is great power that comes from aligning the different parts of your life together.

That's how dating coaches do it. They tie their income to dating so they can focus their energy on one activity that solves multiple verticals in their life. That's how you go from good/great results to exceptional/world class ones. 


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31 minutes ago, integral said:

Make your own dating app. Uncorrupted.

Ai will code anything for you, no coding knowledge required. Ai is as good as any goolge/facebook/microsoft/apple/tesla engineer. 

This is like saying "just make X.com, uncorrupted ". Yea, that's the easy part, even before AI a college level software engineer could get a prototype working in a weekend. The hard part isn't the software, it's getting people to use it.

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14 minutes ago, something_else said:

This is like saying "just make X.com, uncorrupted ". Yea, that's the easy part, even before AI a college level software engineer could get a prototype working in a weekend. The hard part isn't the software, it's getting people to use it.

Getting some initial traction for it if the app is good is pretty simple. I would just print a t-shirt with the app name and logo and do a bunch of street interviews like this

 


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4 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Getting some initial traction for it if the app is good is pretty simple. I would just print a t-shirt with the app name and logo and do a bunch of street interviews like this

 

She kinda bad, pass on my details plss


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27 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Honestly yeah, that's the right idea. All you would have to do is make vlogs about your dating life, go outside and do street interviews asking for people to vent about their own dating life and pitch your app to them and people will join. Honestly I thought about doing it and I think I will. I think it's entirely possible to build a massively abundant dating life and make millions in the process. There is great power that comes from aligning the different parts of your life together.

That's how dating coaches do it. They tie their income to dating so they can focus their energy on one activity that solves multiple verticals in their life. That's how you go from good/great results to exceptional/world class ones. 

For sure, there's a lot of different marketing and social media strategies that you go with, like just educational content with AI animation.


How is this post just me acting out my ego in the usual ways? Is this post just me venting and justifying my selfishness? Are the things you are posting in alignment with principles of higher consciousness and higher stages of ego development? Are you acting in a mature or immature way? Are you being selfish or selfless in your communication? Are you acting like a monkey or like a God-like being?

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13 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Getting some initial traction for it if the app is good is pretty simple. I would just print a t-shirt with the app name and logo and do a bunch of street interviews like this

 

DAIIIIM dude your looking extra fine, great voice and vibe. 


How is this post just me acting out my ego in the usual ways? Is this post just me venting and justifying my selfishness? Are the things you are posting in alignment with principles of higher consciousness and higher stages of ego development? Are you acting in a mature or immature way? Are you being selfish or selfless in your communication? Are you acting like a monkey or like a God-like being?

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17 minutes ago, integral said:

DAIIIIM dude your looking extra fine, great voice and vibe. 

Thanks bro, I appreciate you! 

26 minutes ago, Ulax said:

She kinda bad, pass on my details plss

What you need to do is shoot some street interviews of your own, approach some women you think I would like. Then we will trade and keep growing our reach. Then when we get our castles we will actually have too many women that want to show up to the house warming party. I want it so that the cops have to travel and shut down the party because there are just too many women in these castles it's just not safe. 

Angry Cop: "Who's in charge here, this is madness!"

Lord Fall & Ulax : "We are sorry sir, next time we will try to not invite too many women, you're completely right this is irresponsible. Have you met Sarah over there? Earlier she said she had a thing for cops, she'll show you some radical open-mindedness and we will make sure the fires are well contained." 

Edited by LordFall

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On 27/10/2026 at 5:39 AM, Alexop said:

I think I met the 10th woman randomly at an activity (I use to meet them at dancing, sports meetings, hiking events) that did not show interest for any of the guys present. After a while I see her on a dating app. They ignore all men who they can meet physically and scroll dating apps instead. The feeling of (there sure is a better guy somewhere) are keeping them single in their prime years. This is sad.

I just want to make you aware (because you keep stating you are simply observing) that the above marked up in red is not an observation.

They are interpretations, generalisations, explanations of a proposed mechanism, and psychological inferences.

This distinction matters, because these are the parts of your reasoning where you are moving beyond what you directly observed, then assigning meaning, motives and causality to it.

This is the part of your reasoning you have direct influence over, and where cognitive biases can enter.


It is far easier to fool someone, than to convince them they have been fooled.

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