Dating app and social media are fucking dating up

[Ulax]

4 minutes ago, AION said:

That is a victim mindset. As a guy you shouldn’t think about these kind of things. If she ends up as a cat wife with 10 cats. That is her concern and her problem. As a guy you have to be more like women. More agency/selfishness and having more to offer. Because you sitting at home feeling sad about women who don’t care about you is just not the way to spend your time. 

It is okay to have compassion lol

[AION]

5 minutes ago, Alexop said:

again, I shared something I noticed. I don't complain. 

Ok.  I had similar thoughts too when I was having low to none prospects. That is why I said that. If you are successful in dating it doesn’t even cross your mind. 

 

4 minutes ago, Ulax said:

It is okay to have compassion lol

Do you think hot women sit at home contemplating and having compassion for you why you don’t have a gf 😂 im not even saying have no compassion by the way. That is a wrong read. I have compassion by offering value. 

Edited 56 minutes ago by AION

[Ulax]

2 minutes ago, AION said:

Do you think hot women sit at home contemplating and having compassion for you why you don’t have a gf 😂 im not even saying have no compassion by the way. That is  wrong read. 

Yes I believe hot women sit at home and think about me a lot

[AION]

2 minutes ago, Ulax said:

Yes I believe hot women sit at home and think about me a lot

In between sipping her wine with Chad and Tyrone she might think about you. 😝

 

 

[Alexop]

4 minutes ago, AION said:

Ok.  I had similar thoughts too when I was having low to none prospects. That is why I said that. If you are successful in dating it doesn’t even cross your mind. 

I agree that I am in a low prospect situation and this is affecting me. Mainly because I am looking for a mature woman with whom I can have a deep relationship, maybe for life. The same as Miguel, the moderator. We had sex, and we evolved over it. If I just have sex with some random chick from the videos of this dude who came here to give me advice, it will feel for me like I am masturbating with a body. 

[Ulax]

Just now, AION said:

In between sipping her wine with Chad and Tyrone she might think about you. 😝

 

I'm flattered you see gay men as being into me as well  

[meta_male]

4 hours ago, Alexop said:

Yes. But women have very little patience to get to know men now. After they had so many bad experiences with low quality relationships and boring guys.

When you get scammed over an over, you just give up.

I can see where you're coming from. Do you connect with women regardless of whether you see them as potential partners?

[AION]

24 minutes ago, Ulax said:

I'm flattered you see gay men as being into me as well  

This is your chance bro 

 

24 minutes ago, Alexop said:

I agree that I am in a low prospect situation and this is affecting me. Mainly because I am looking for a mature woman with whom I can have a deep relationship, maybe for life. The same as Miguel, the moderator. We had sex, and we evolved over it. If I just have sex with some random chick from the videos of this dude who came here to give me advice, it will feel for me like I am masturbating with a body. 

Don't take Miguel as an example. He is looking for a goddess in flesh and blood who has unicorns and doesn’t fart. Dating with humans is not dating with gods and goddesses.  It is about reproduction which gods and goddesses don’t need to do. The biggest reason why you and Ulax are not successful is that you  don’t see what dating and sex is. You have this idealization of how things should be while reality is how things should exactly be like. Women are far more realistic about what mating and dating is. Probably because pregnancy is high cost and their fertility time span is only two decades. 

Edited 24 minutes ago by AION

[Alexop]

7 minutes ago, AION said:

This is your chance bro 

 

Don't take Miguel as an example. He is looking for a goddess in flesh and blood who has unicorns and doesn’t fart. Dating with humans is not dating with gods and goddesses.  It is about reproduction which gods and goddesses don’t need to do. The biggest reason why you and Ulax are not successful is that you  don’t see what dating and sex is. You have this idealization of how things should be while reality is how things should exactly be like. Women are far more realistic about what mating and dating is. Probably because pregnancy is high cost and their fertility time span is only two decades. 

Sure, Thanks Chad   I am looking for a woman with whom I can have intellectual intimacy. I know what I want. I had lots of sex, chill.

 

Edited 20 minutes ago by Alexop

[AION]

Just now, Alexop said:

Sure, Thanks Chad   

I’m no Chad but lately I have been Chadish 😛 It is just a temporary arch. But I was where you were so I kind of get it. 

[Ulax]

9 minutes ago, AION said:

Don't take Miguel as an example. He is looking for a goddess in flesh and blood who has unicorns and doesn’t fart. Dating with humans is not dating with gods and goddesses.  It is fighting in the mud and it is survival. The biggest reason why you and Ulax are not successful is that you  don’t see what dating and sex is. You have this idealization of how things should be. While women are far more realistic about what mating and dating is. Probably because pregnancy is high cost and their fertility time span is only two decades. 

Women want flowers, chocolates, and for me to me to listen to their emotions. I know this is true from movies.

[Alexop]

8 minutes ago, AION said:

I’m no Chad but lately I have been Chadish 😛 It is just a temporary arch. But I was where you were so I kind of get it. 

Peace dude. I compare me with myself. Not with others. I am no pickup artist, but I evolved from a bullied loser who was rejected even from highschool Freshman prom's preselection to having multi-year relationships with women who look and behave better than any of those who called me loser could even smell. ✌️