Zenterus

Female Friends — A Dilemma

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If the attraction fades as friends it would have faded as a couple too

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Acknowledge the polarity, respect boundaries and be responsible for yourself and what you wish to put into these friendships. Pretty girls in general always have a bit of this flirty and fun energy about them. They know they are pretty and are sorta bubbly and just accentuate and ooze off this energy. I think a lot of guys get too lost in the ambiguity of femininity and it clouds their clarity. You said you want friends so just be friends with them. I don't see a problem with that. If anything changes with any of them great, if not that's cool too. There is a classic saying "don't shit where you eat." This applies mostly to work and to a much lesser extent to friend groups. Just see how stuff unfolds. 

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LOOOOL. You can act like a gay maybe haha

Edited by iamlite

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High chance you are just misreading signals. 

You have trained yourself to look for them - yes?

That's training a bias.

Just don't act. Sexual tension is just part of life. I honestly don't see the dilemma. If you feel you need to lay out a boundary - do so. Then move on.

Edited by Natasha Tori Maru

It is far easier to fool someone, than to convince them they have been fooled.

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