milfs liking you a good thing or a bad thing

[AION]

13 minutes ago, something_else said:

lmao, the thread is about age, of course it's relevant

that is not what this thread is about lmao

[something_else]

1 hour ago, AION said:

that is not what this thread is about lmao

Then what is it about, if not age?

[Schizophonia]

2 hours ago, AION said:

that is not what this thread is about lmao

It is because you’re nearly 40 and you ruminate relularly on the fact that you don’t have young women.

 

FOMO is not rational It’s a delirium that steers us away from what is truly good for us.

[Schizophonia]

Rumination comes to an end when one contemplates the fact that it involves the transfer of responsibility for symbolic castration.

You attract what you are; there is no separation.

There are fantasies but it’s like dreaming at night it’s not serious, nor is it something truly desired.

[Sugarcoat]

This seems kinda rare, but ofc I'm not familiar how it is in other countries. Didn't know these types of older women even existed in significant amount for it to be noticeable like that, unless you go to very specific places like club for older people. 

[AION]

My last gf was 23 just couple of weeks ago. And she was an architect. I’m ok with the quality. It is more the quantity that I’m lacking. Which is ok because I’m not doing cold approach anymore. I’m focusing on other things. Only thing I’m doing socially is social game. Meeting new people through hobbies and sports. 

Edited 9 hours ago by AION

[Sugarcoat]

15 minutes ago, AION said:

My last gf was 23 just couple of weeks ago. And she was an architect. I’m ok with the quality. It is more the quantity that I’m lacking. Which is ok because I’m not doing cold approach anymore. I’m focusing on other things. Only thing I’m doing socially is social game. Meeting new people through hobbies and sports. 

I'm so sorry I just have to share, the other day at a coffee shop some guy started to talk to me, and his guess was that I was studying architecture (I'm 23 too). I'm feeling ridiculous noticing these details 

Edited 9 hours ago by Sugarcoat

[AION]

@Sugarcoat you are studying architecture?

[Sugarcoat]

23 minutes ago, AION said:

@Sugarcoat you are studying architecture?

No, nutrition

[AION]

@Sugarcoat ah I get it now. He thought you were studying architecture 

[Emerald]

9 hours ago, AION said:

I’m not pushing 40 lmao this forum is bat shit crazy haha. 

How old are you. I thought you were in your early 20s.

But some are saying you're like 40.

[Emerald]

6 hours ago, AION said:

my age shouldn't even matter.. I'm a man lol

It does matter to the topic of the thread... and in dating in general.

When you're saying "only older women are interested in me but I'm only interested in younger women."

Like, are you a 23 year old guy trying to get into a relationship with a 21 year old woman... but these brazen 40 year old cougar ladies keep going after you?

Or are you pushing 40 and trying to date 23 year old women who aren't interested in dating an older man... but then a bunch of 40 year old women your own age are the only ones showing interest?

Your age is highly relevant to the topic of this thread.

[CARDOZZO]

Mjlfs are top tier 🔥😈

[Inliytened1]

7 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

Mjlfs are top tier 🔥😈

What's lower tier ?  Seems like the bar might be low.

Edited 7 hours ago by Inliytened1

[something_else]

48 minutes ago, Emerald said:

It does matter to the topic of the thread... and in dating in general.

When you're saying "only older women are interested in me but I'm only interested in younger women."

Like, are you a 23 year old guy trying to get into a relationship with a 21 year old woman... but these brazen 40 year old cougar ladies keep going after you?

Or are you pushing 40 and trying to date 23 year old women who aren't interested in dating an older man... but then a bunch of 40 year old women your own age are the only ones showing interest?

Your age is highly relevant to the topic of this thread.

No no you misunderstand you see, this thread isn’t about age

/s

[Inliytened1]

Id be surprised if any 40 year old woman took you seriously.  They might use you for your cock and that's good.  Leverage that. But outside of that I wouldn't look for anything.  If they did there is probably something wrong with them somewhere.  They won't be looking at your intellect. Not at their age compared to yours.

Edited 6 hours ago by Inliytened1

[AION]

@Emerald I’m sorry but I’m not sorry but I’m not going to disclose specific info towards you after you being so judgemental. But what I can say is that I’m not DILF material. 

[Emerald]

1 hour ago, AION said:

@Emerald I’m sorry but I’m not sorry but I’m not going to disclose specific info towards you after you being so judgemental. But what I can say is that I’m not DILF material. 

You may see it as simply being judgmental.

But at the time, I thought you were a 20-25 year old guy who may have limited experience with dating/relationships. So, I was just telling you that women won't be interested in you if you think that way.

But it's fine not to share your age. It just means that I can't accurately understand the situation you're in. And I feel like my initial impression of your post may have been incorrect.

Maybe I could ask it this way, "Are the "older women" who keep approaching you at least 6 years older than you?'

And, "Are the younger women you're trying to attract within 5 years of your age?"

If the answer is "no" to both of those questions, then the "older" women being attracted to you and the younger women not being attracted to you is normal. Most women are attracted to men who are within a few years of their age... and only 10-15% of women are open to dating a much older man.

If the answer is "yes" to both of those questions, then it makes me think you might be tending to flirt more with women you're not as interested in or may feel more at ease being open with women you're less interested in. 

[Emerald]

6 hours ago, Sugarcoat said:

I'm so sorry I just have to share, the other day at a coffee shop some guy started to talk to me, and his guess was that I was studying architecture (I'm 23 too). I'm feeling ridiculous noticing these details 

That sounds like a synchronicity because something very specific came up twice.

Are you interesting in architecture as a profession?

Or... is there anything about architecture as a concept (like building something structurally sound from a blueprint) that feels symbolically relevant to your life?

[eos_nyxia]

On 2026-10-15 at 0:25 AM, AION said:

@Emerald I don't look for them. When I'm in a public place they come up and talk with me. And I just talk to them out of politeness and because I'm a nice guy. But then they start flirting with me and giving me signals while I don't give them signals. 

How are guys still using this phrase in this way, unironically, in 2026?