is Redpill holding me back

[Majed]

4 minutes ago, Elliott said:

Most of my experience is from just being around women, I make friends with women, 20something university women. That'd probably be the best education you could find, if you have some interest that women share, soccer, some sport, just talk to the girls without trying to fuck them.

@Elliott I feel like understanding women's perspective is important. Part of it is to learn to grow up and not look at women as sex toys. 

[Elliott]

9 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Elliott I feel like understanding women's perspective is important. Part of it is to learn to grow up and not look at women as sex toys. 

https://youtube.com/@anapsychology?si=y4A4V9BrXWktZmeC

I watch this young female psychologist talk about relationships

 

I haven't watched this series of hers

 

 

Edited 23 hours ago by Elliott

[Natasha Tori Maru]

13 hours ago, Ramanujan said:

@Natasha Tori Maru yeah , a woman love me according to what i bring to the table. like money , muscles , resources and game. thats fine. but there is no guarantee that she will not dump me if she get an offer with a  better guy , with better money and status and looks.

it is said a woman love opertunistically , her unconditional love is reserved for her children

 

females have their problems too. like if you are not good looking enough , its game over. there is nothing you can do. man will love you according to your beauty. if you are ugly , its game over

So relationships are a transaction for you?

[GromHellScream]

22 hours ago, Ramanujan said:

i cannot respect woman after coming to know about what woman do to their husband during divorce in USA , hypergamy , woman going after bad boys and chads while making nice guys suffer ,  making nice guys suffer , shit test ,  not willing to cook etc etc

My Friend your entire perspective is perverted.. making nice guys suffer? No woman could ever make me suffer emotionally.

girls just feel better after they know your not a pushover so they have to test you its just part of how things are.

Not willing to cook? Plenty of girls willing to cook. If she doesn't do something you require, next? there's a million girls. Besides theres no way a girl isnt cooking for you if shes in love with you. Girls who are in love with you are amazing they will do anything for you

 

[Ramanujan]

3 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

So relationships are a transaction for you?

i mean its how things are. i gotta get a good physique , get enough money , have good game . its a lot of work.

i have to struggle daily to get a job . i gotta find time on top of that to all those things. 

i got a ton of things to do . like following my passion on the side .

but there is no way around it. in order to get a good girl , i need money + muscles + game

 

[Ramanujan]

@Emerald yeah

[Ramanujan]

7 hours ago, Majed said:

That's one way to look at it. But not all women are in their 40s. A lot of women in their 20s and 30s want to date and have fun. 

hoe phase

[Natasha Tori Maru]

4 minutes ago, Ramanujan said:

i mean its how things are. i gotta get a good physique , get enough money , have good game . its a lot of work.

i have to struggle daily to get a job . i gotta find time on top of that to all those things. 

i got a ton of things to do . like following my passion on the side .

but there is no way around it. in order to get a good girl , i need money + muscles + game

This is the same belief being repeated without inspecting the root.

Do you think you need these things to connect to a woman?

What happens as you grow old, when you need care? What if you get cancer? Injured? Are unable to work?

If you go into a relationship from this transactional frame, you will always attract someone who will leverage you for these things.

What does it mean to connect for you? Is a transaction a connection?

[Emerald]

7 minutes ago, Ramanujan said:

hoe phase

When I first read this I thought you said "Hoe Please" to  @Majed... like a girl might say to another girl "Bitch Please!".

And what's more... I didn't think anything was unusual about it for a solid minute.

Edited 16 hours ago by Emerald

[Ulax]

6 hours ago, Elliott said:

I'll try to find some videos that point to what im saying. They won't really be dating videos but women talking about relationships.

Most of my experience is from just being around women, I make friends with women, 20something university women. That'd probably be the best education you could find, if you have some interest that women share, soccer, some sport, just talk to the girls without trying to fuck them.

 

Here's a young woman I watch

 

https://youtube.com/@anapsychology?si=y4A4V9BrXWktZmeC

 

 

W Ana Psychology

[Ramanujan]

 

1 hour ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

What happens as you grow old, when you need care? What if you get cancer? Injured? Are unable to work?

that is a different story. in todays world , everything is fucked up . the girl will take half your money and kids after divorce , but if they stay up , they may or may not help.

 

1 hour ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

If you go into a relationship from this transactional frame, you will always attract someone who will leverage you for these things.

i mean

at starting point , its like a business deal

after spending some time together, things can get idealistic

 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Ramanujan these stories are part of the red Pill narrative. You need to explore alternative explanations. 

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I mean

at starting point , its like a business deal

after spending some time together, things can get idealistic

If you start that way, what sort of precedent are you setting? 

You want to start transactional and then change the terms half way through? It won't fly.

[Ulax]

3 hours ago, Emerald said:

When I first read this I thought you said "Hoe Please" to  @Majed... like a girl might say to another girl "Bitch Please!".

😂

[LordFall]

On 10/12/2026 at 6:17 AM, Ramanujan said:

i get unconditional love , with no strings attached

a utopian fantasy ig

Do you love yourself unconditionally? Start with that and build a beautiful life for yourself as a gift. Other people will enter your life based on conditions but that's not a bad thing. 

You seem to be looking at it as a mountain of tasks that you need to accomplish to be worthy of love and feeling exhausted by the list. That's not really the most effective way to look at life. 

Think about it more like a video game and unlike most people that lack a growth mindset, you're able to build all kinds of cool skills to add to the value of your base character. What does your character want to achieve and what kind of adventures will he live? What kind of exciting and helpful companions will he meet on his quest? People that don't go on quests don't really find cool companions, that makes sense. 

I want to throw creative events globally and help local businesses and creative people reach their financial and career goals through being part of my communities and agency. It'll help me both make the world a better place but also meet thousands more cool women that I might possibly date and business owners that I might start joint ventures with. This is at times a tedious, painful and exhausting quest for me but the upside makes it worth it. 

If you find a similarly appealing quest, otherwise phrased as life purpose, then the pain of life will become worth it. No matter how you live your life it'll be painful, the main difference is if the pain is building towards something amazing or you're mostly stagnating at the same spot not accomplishing your deepest and wildest dreams. 

https://www.instagram.com/stories/highlights/18036783041423983/

In this video I talk at the beginning about the fashion show I threw last year. It was one of the coolest experiences of my life and I had about 15 models walk the show under my agency name and the brand of another agency I partnered with. 

It was very stressful and we had to cancel it once and I ended up $2,200 in debt from it. That's the cost of the game bro! Learned so much and I would've paid even more for the experience. The next ones will be way more successful as my character has gotten way more powerful and experienced since then.

What is your characters main goals in life? Flesh that out and build a beautiful and fun quest around it and you'll have no shortage of female companions that want to join you on it. The Red Pill is too negative, take the truths from it and have fun. 

I would start with the question, if everything worked out and you were building your dream life for the next 3 years, what would it look like on October 13th 2029? 

Edited 8 hours ago by LordFall

[Leo Gura]

I thought he talking about farming.

[StaraX]

On 12.10.2026 at 10:16 AM, Leo Gura said:

@Ramanujan There's no point in being upset with women, they are just surviving, like you. You have needs, they have needs. Everyone tries to satisfy one's needs as best as they are able.

The idea that women have it easy is an illusion. Women a have problems you don't even know are problems.

@Leo Gura In terms of dating, and especially in the attraction phase, what problems do they have exactly? Of course, in the relationship phase, they have a shitload of problems. Statistics don't lie about that.