is Redpill holding me back

[Ramanujan]

9 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

@Ramanujan There's no point in being upset with women, they are just surviving, like you. You have needs, they have needs. Everyone tries to satisfy one's needs as best as they are able.

The idea that women have it easy is an illusion. Women a have problems you don't even know are problems.

yup . agree. 

but the elephant in the room is femisim. feminism caused a lot of evil

[Ramanujan]

@Emerald lol . ok cool . 

Edited 6 hours ago by Ramanujan

[Leo Gura]

5 minutes ago, Ramanujan said:

feminism caused a lot of evil

Nope. Women must have equal political rights to men.

Oppressing women is the true evil.

Edited 6 hours ago by Leo Gura

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Ramanujan what is a relationship about, in your view?

[Cubbage]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

That is no different than you eating some fast food vs planning a holiday feast.

Of course the fast food is quick and dirty.

Fucking great quote haha 👌 

[Ramanujan]

2 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

what is a relationship about, in your view?

i get unconditional love , with no strings attached

a utopian fantasy ig

[Natasha Tori Maru]

2 minutes ago, Ramanujan said:

i get unconditional love , with no strings attached

a utopian fantasy ig

This could be pointing toward the root of the issue.

Relationships are about connection. 

Some of the issue with Red Pill is it blocks connection - which blocks love.

[PsychedelicEagle]

51 minutes ago, Ramanujan said:

i get unconditional love , with no strings attached

a utopian fantasy ig

Do you also plan to give unconditional love? Or will you dump the chick if she gets fat and ugly?

3 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Nope. Women must have equal political rights to men.

Oppressing women is the true evil.

💯

[Ramanujan]

@Natasha Tori Maru yeah , a woman love me according to what i bring to the table. like money , muscles , resources and game. thats fine. but there is no guarantee that she will not dump me if she get an offer with a  better guy , with better money and status and looks.

it is said a woman love opertunistically , her unconditional love is reserved for her children

 

females have their problems too. like if you are not good looking enough , its game over. there is nothing you can do. man will love you according to your beauty. if you are ugly , its game over

 

 

 

[Ramanujan]

11 minutes ago, PsychedelicEagle said:

Do you also plan to give unconditional love? Or will you dump the chick if she gets fat and ugly?

as if she will give a chance to an average guy  who is not 6 feet and not making 100k  and no good game

[meta_male]

25 minutes ago, Ramanujan said:

yeah , a woman love me according to what i bring to the table. like money , muscles , resources and game. thats fine. but there is no guarantee that she will not dump me if she get an offer with a  better guy , with better money and status and looks.

This hasn't been my experience. I had a woman who wanted to stay with me when I was very skinny, had no money, had no friends or really any other resources. She even drove me to places because she had a car and I didn't. So it's hard for me to believe that women only love men for what they bring to the table. Some women really care about you for who you are.

[Ramanujan]

5 minutes ago, meta_male said:

This hasn't been my experience. I had a woman who wanted to stay with me when I was very skinny, had no money, had no friends or really any other resources. She even drove me to places because she had a car and I didn't. So it's hard for me to believe that women only love men for what they bring to the table. Some women really care about you for who you are.

exceptional cases wont disqualify the rule

[Elliott]

8 hours ago, Ulax said:

Many in game are in it to find a wife

Ya, I think it's counter productive. Just go make friends with them, ask them on a simple fun date, bam!, married. Women are easy and they want to be with you, maybe even more than you want them, they don't care about your little social anxiety hiccups, some do, but those types aren't marriage material. Most of these women you walk by, want you, just the way you are. You don't need special sauce, women like to just talk, just practice talking, talk to the cashier, a stranger you sit by, other people at the grocery, just practice being friendly, you don't need to be special or extra, bare bones boring talk, the more anxiety hiccups the merrier, people love just being with other people.

Marriage material women only care about; will you work, will you be nice, will you be open to being open, will you be receptive to feedback. That bar is ground level, anyone can do that today. All that other shit you're told they want, is marketing, idiots selling you something that harms you like cigarettes to look cool. They don't care about Rico Suave, or Fabio, some do, those aren't marriage material. They just want someone to go to the book store with, the grocery, a walk, simple vacation, simple basic man.

Edited 46 minutes ago by Elliott

[meta_male]

24 minutes ago, Ramanujan said:

exceptional cases wont disqualify the rule

In fact, I had two girlfriends that made more money than me and before me, dated guys that you could call more masculine with more status and success than I had. So, maybe there's more to attraction than your rule says. Of course, if you constantly view yourself as a victim in dating and go in to receive, then that mindset is rather unattractive in itself. Focus on the factors you can control.