As a short man, did you ever had a hot girlfriend?

[Olaf]

oh of course Kevin Harts wife! He is rich and famous, but still.

 

Edited 3 hours ago by Olaf

[Emerald]

I'm 5'2". And as long as a guy is taller than me, it wouldn't be a dealbreaker.

Yet again, I also find Peter Dinklage attractive. So, maybe height is not a dealbreaker at all.

I just find that most of the guys I've been romantically attracted to over the years have all happened to be between 5'7" and 5'10... either average or shorter side of average.

And I've never specifically tried to avoid dating guys who are over 6ft. I just happened to be interested in specific guys who were average height or a bit shorter. 

So, even if I aesthetically appreciate height in the abstract... it doesn't seem to draw me that much or motivate me to seek out a romantic connection. Otherwise, I'd have selected for much taller partners and/or have more crushes on taller guys, if it did.

So, while height tends to be a more classically handsome quality and most women would find taller guys more attractive than shorter guys in the abstract, I don't find that increase in general attractiveness that tall guys have very compelling as I'm much more tuned into the guy's specific personality and physical appearance.

And many women (perhaps most) are probably selecting for other factors that pertain more to personality and facial looks/figure being generally a looks-match to themselves. 

Really, as long as you don't register to a woman as unattractive facially and figure-wise, you probably don't have to worry that much about physical traits like height being a disqualifier... especially if you are taller than the woman in question.  

So, if you're worried that there won't be women interested on you because of your height, then I can assure you that's not true.

OR if you're worried, "All women always prefer the taller man", that's also not true. As long as you're over a particular woman's "non un-attracted to" threshold (which will be around her level of physical attractiveness... and maybe a degree or two in either direction), your height won't be a dealbreaker... and the focus will be more about your personality.

[Cubbage]

I'm 5 foot 5 and have never had a gf or sexual partner that isn't hot by my standards or in general. My last actual relationship was with an Iranian model who was taller than me. I'm not particularly good looking in a conventional sense either. Height is all in your head, soon as you let it go life gets much easier and funnier due to how it offends guys who only have being tall going for them and nothing else.

[Cubbage]

My tallest partner was 6 foot 5 lol if anything, I was more unattracted by her height than she was of mine. Instead of worrying about your height being a problem, be more concerned about other factors high value women find attractive instead.

Edited 1 hour ago by Cubbage

[Cubbage]

@Never_give_up My dad is 5 foot 1 and he never had trouble back in the day either haha other men will make you worry about your height, women are not arsed and if they are then they aren't worth your time. 

[Olaf]

@Cubbage Here we go! 

[Cubbage]

Just now, Olaf said:

@Cubbage Here we go!