tomorrow I am gonna challenge myself

[Rishabh R]

@Olaf Great progress. I must treat it as evidence of what's possible rather than getting jealous of you .

[Olaf]

@something_else I know, I am still crying about those 2 girls. How many times do you find 2 lesbians who are ready for you  and they were attractive 20 year olds.

[Olaf]

@Rishabh R you can only be jealous if you put in the same amount of effort as I do approach the same amount as I do

[Zen LaCroix]

12 hours ago, Valach said:

You want a challenge now? From now on you are allowed to make maximum 3 approaches a day, after that you have to go home. Make it count.

This only makes you choose sets you think have a higher probability of working out. It doesn’t make you approach them or talk to them in a higher quality way. You will avoid talking to some since you only get 3.

[Rishabh R]

@Olaf I have approached more than a 100 women in my life time. Then I lost count.Maybe you're ahead .

[Valach]

17 minutes ago, Zen LaCroix said:

This only makes you choose sets you think have a higher probability of working out. It doesn’t make you approach them or talk to them in a higher quality way. You will avoid talking to some since you only get 3.

It is up to you how you use it. The point is that he will be more motivated to stop self ejecting from the sets.

[Olaf]

@Rishabh R there is a difference between 100 in a day and 100 in your lifetime, go try it today, approach 100 woman, it is not easy

[Rishabh R]

@Olaf Yup it's not easy . Why are you so hard on me dude ?

[Olaf]

@Rishabh R because I am hard on myself, this is what I did yesterday myself, it is not like 100 woman approached me, I had to get the courage and will power to do it

[something_else]

35 minutes ago, Olaf said:

@something_else I know, I am still crying about those 2 girls. How many times do you find 2 lesbians who are ready for you  and they were attractive 20 year olds.

Why did you not go for it? I feel like the answer to this question is at the root of the problems you’re facing

[Olaf]

@something_else I think I was in too much abundance, which made me think there is always better out there and I wasn't chasing, which made me attractive, but it also made me forget to close.

[Valach]

Just now, Olaf said:

@something_else I think I was in too much abundance, which made me think there is always better out there and I wasn't chasing, which made me attractive, but it also made me forget to close.

Deep down you are affraid of rejection, that is why you do not lead your interactions and escape into another one.

[Rishabh R]

@Olaf That's destroying you .

[something_else]

Just now, Olaf said:

@something_else I think I was in too much abundance, which made me think there is always better out there and I wasn't chasing, which made me attractive, but it also made me forget to close.

Something better? What exactly were you envisioning as a better outcome for that night than a threesome? 

The feeling of abundance and flow from talking to lots of girls is good, but it’s temporary. The more permanent feeling of abundance comes from actually being able to get laid consistently.

What is your end goal here?

[Zen LaCroix]

12 minutes ago, Olaf said:

@Rishabh R because I am hard on myself, this is what I did yesterday myself, it is not like 100 woman approached me, I had to get the courage and will power to do it

How did you summon this courage and willpower?

 

What was it like emotionally?

 

Any insights you got from doing this?