will getting a girl friend solve my loneliness

[AION]

Loneliness is inside of you. So it needs an internal fix. 

[OBEler]

@Ramanujan getting a girlfriend will 100% cure your loneliness if you like her. 

And male friends are not reliable. As you can see, as soon as they have a girlfriend it's hard to reach out. 

 

[Yimpa]

My girlfriend AKA myself won’t leave me alone 

[Inliytened1]

On 9/24/2026 at 9:57 AM, Ramanujan said:

i live in a 3rd world. its a taboo to do dating.  i tried to use friendship with other men to solve my loneliness. it worked for some time. but there are some problems. like some see me as a backup friend. some see me as a side friend , a side charecter in their life .  it was managable. but once they got married , they started avoiding me. they choose a pussy they met one year ago over me

so i am back to square 1. no friends. not enough social skills.  the pain of loneliness is absolutely unbearable. i start crying some day

 

will getting a girl friend cure my loneliness.  i know game take a while to learn. i am a game noobie. although i am an arm chair pickup artist

 

 

is getting a girlfriend different from having male friends for your loneliness. does it cure loneliness

No. Getting a girl will not.  The loneliness is within yourself.  It took me many decades to grasp this.

[Inliytened1]

A woman cannot fill the void within yourself.  Only you must do that. .

[Yimpa]

1 hour ago, Inliytened1 said:

A woman cannot fill the void within yourself.  Only you must do that. .

And neither can a man.

😭

[Inliytened1]

2 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

And neither can a man.

😭

Neither can a man.

[Yimpa]

1 minute ago, Inliytened1 said:

Neither can a man.

 

[Joseph Maynor]

@LordFall  Show us a picture of your girlfriend friend.  

[Inliytened1]

25 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

@LordFall  Show us a picture of your girlfriend friend.  

I don't think he really has one.  He's a whole lot of bullshit if you ask.me.

[Ramanujan]

On 9/25/2026 at 3:16 PM, Davino said:

It must be very hard brother. Hopefully one day you get high quality meaningful connection with men and women.

ohh man , i tried to be real , without any fakeness , be the nice guy , the good guy. what does that bring me.  to absolute loneliness. 
the world is hard on good guys and is designed for bad guys
i aint gonna be a bad guy just for getting a girl . but it hurts

i need to learn game 

[Ramanujan]

On 9/25/2026 at 8:25 PM, LordFall said:

Look at your profile picture though, it's of Srinivasa Ramanujan. That's not a random guy who you just like for who he is, right? He's a famous Indian mathematician who contributed a lot to the world and people recognized him for the value he brought.

he is gifted yeah 
but i get your point . once i become accomplished , i will meet people
 

 

On 9/25/2026 at 8:25 PM, LordFall said:

Why are you on Actualized.org, do you like Leo for who he is or what he brings to the world? 

yeah life works like this.  what you bring to the table. sad reality

although i stopped watching leo in 2020. 

 

On 9/25/2026 at 8:25 PM, LordFall said:

Once you find something interesting to do with your life and share it with others, I think you will run into the opposite problem and have too many people that want to hang out with you bro! 

yeah . meeting people through my expertise. nice idea

 

 

On 9/25/2026 at 8:25 PM, LordFall said:

Don't give up, you got this. India is a great place to meet women, you should build a brand and soon you can host events in big cities and once again meet too many girls.

i just want my loneliness to end. men all betray me . ig i will try woman

 

 

Edited 5 hours ago by Ramanujan

[Ramanujan]

On 9/27/2026 at 5:14 AM, OBEler said:

And male friends are not reliable.

yeah. sadly . they wont pickup phone. i gotta call them 5-10 times for them to pickup . or wait for  some days before i made the last call

 

On 9/27/2026 at 5:14 AM, OBEler said:

As you can see, as soon as they have a girlfriend it's hard to reach out. 

fucking hell. i had a homie. i used to call him for 7 years. now after he married , he wont pickup phone. fucking hell. i got betrayed. fucking snake.

 

[Inliytened1]

@Ramanujan you cannot solve this by placing men or women in your life. Stop this now or you shall chase your tail for decades.  I did this.  This will not fill the void you feel inside. All you have to do is stop feeling it. You must do it within your own mind.  You cannot deposit other beings into your life to resolve this for you.

Edited 5 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Ramanujan]

12 hours ago, Inliytened1 said:

A woman cannot fill the void within yourself.  Only you must do that. .

how do i fill that. what do i need to do to fill it

[Ramanujan]

@Inliytened1 how do i fill that  void

[Inliytened1]

6 minutes ago, Ramanujan said:

how do i fill that. what do i need to do to fill it

Just stop feeling it.   One day you will wake up and realize it was never about needing other. It was complete before.

Edited 5 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Inliytened1]

@Ramanujan but you're not going to do this are you.  You'll have to learn the hard way.  I don't blame you. It's nice to have another warm your bed.  Heck. Even alone it is nice to have a dog. But ultimately we cause our own misery with regards to being alone.   Being alone is something we have to face at some point or another.

Edited 5 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Ramanujan]

@Inliytened1 people are different. different people have different holes

Edited 5 hours ago by Ramanujan

[Inliytened1]

2 minutes ago, Ramanujan said:

@Inliytened1 people are different. different people have different holes . some want to be filled with logic , some with emotions . 

Yah but ultimately you're already complete.   It's us..the ego, that cannot grasp emptiness.   It wants something to fill emptiness when emptiness is perfectly perfect.  But the ego doesn't understand this because emptiness means it's dissolution.  I'm delving into spiritual matters now but it is relevant here.  The void you wish to fill is an illusion. 

Edited 5 hours ago by Inliytened1