these girls think I am sweet

[Ulax]

16 minutes ago, Olaf said:

@Ulax lets stop talking, lets take action, I am gonna go now

[Emerald]

1 hour ago, Olaf said:

@Emerald being yourself is the worst advice I have ever heard

Have fun being pretending to be someone else so that women will like you, then.

But women will pick up on the neediness and lack of sovereignty behind the act... and the fact that you're taking her lead to determine how you should behave and socialize.

Women don't tend to like it when men aren't independent-minded enough to act according to their own will.

And it's quite repellent when a guy is trying to follow her lead on how he should behave just to earn her validation.

[Emerald]

1 hour ago, Ulax said:

🤦‍♂️

Silly reaction. There are women with boyfriends, you know?

[Ulax]

3 minutes ago, Emerald said:

Silly reaction. There are women with boyfriends, you know?

Glad my reaction stood out to you  

[Yimpa]

50 minutes ago, Ulax said:

Glad my reaction stood out to you  

 

autism speaks…. AGAIN!  

Edited 9 hours ago by Yimpa

[Ulax]

3 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

 

autism speaks…. AGAIN!  

Glad you see me as so consistently special  

[Yimpa]

35 minutes ago, Ulax said:

Glad you see me as so consistently special  

 

[Ulax]

31 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

 

 

[Emerald]

2 hours ago, Ulax said:

Glad my reaction stood out to you  

Why do you always do this?

[Olaf]

update: I went out, approached like 8 girls, first I had so much resistance to be even 1% asshole, I was so nice to these girls more then ever lol. Then I got the balls to try something different. I went and did a few sets and I think I am getting it now. AION was right, it needs to be a balance, so the last approach went particularly better although I felt much more engagement from every conversation anyways, like I caught them off track, because they thought I would be the 100th nice guy that night, which is a good pattern interupt. But I think it is about delivery, it needs to be coming from a much more playful and fun energy. I think that some things I took a bit too far, but if I find a balance this should be much better then what I first did. Almost like a push pull, your energy very positive and your words a bit more negative, which is this contradictive energy that seems to do well. I think for now I might need to lean into being a bit more of a douchebag, because I was so nervous to do it and it kills my nice guy ego, which is good. I am gonna keep experimenting.

[Ulax]

5 minutes ago, Emerald said:

Why do you always do this?

Because of a lifetime of extremely positive social validation

[Ulax]

2 minutes ago, Olaf said:

update: I went out, approached like 8 girls, first I had so much resistance to be even 1% asshole, I was so nice to these girls more then ever lol. Then I got the balls to try something different. I went and did a few sets and I think I am getting it now. AION was right, it needs to be a balance, so the last approach went particularly better although I felt much more engagement from every conversation anyways, like I caught them off track, because they thought I would be the 100th nice guy that night, which is a good pattern interupt. But I think it is about delivery, it needs to be coming from a much more playful and fun energy. I think that some things I took a bit too far, but if I find a balance this should be much better then what I first did. Almost like a push pull, your energy very positive and your words a bit more negative, which is this contradictive energy that seems to do well. I think for now I might need to lean into being a bit more of a douchebag, because I was so nervous to do it and it kills my nice guy ego, which is good. I am gonna keep experimenting.

[Emerald]

Just now, Ulax said:

Because of a lifetime of extremely positive social validation

That's interesting. 

The way I was interpreting it as a defense where you're trying to get the last word and "win" the interaction. 

And I would typically think of it as a sign of insecurity, and a fear of showing weakness.

But I guess I was wrong. 

[Ulax]

Just now, Emerald said:

That's interesting. 

The way I was interpreting it as a defense where you're trying to get the last word and "win" the interaction. 

And I would typically think of it as a sign of insecurity, and a fear of showing weakness.

But I guess I was wrong. 

Glad you see me as so defensively adept 

[Miguel1]

6 hours ago, Emerald said:

The reality is that the woman you talked to had a boyfriend.

A lot of things you say are good but this is just false, and shows you have no experience picking up girls as a guy.

Getting so many in a row is a clear sign that it’s a you problem.

Edited 4 hours ago by Miguel1

[Miguel1]

5 hours ago, Ulax said:

I used to think like you do when I was still early in my journey but more experience will teach you the limits of this mindset

I always find it funny when you ”talk from experience”, when you virtually have no results. 

[Ulax]

24 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

I always find it funny when you ”talk from experience”, when you virtually have no results. 

Glad my results mean so much to you  

[Miguel1]

1 minute ago, Ulax said:

Glad my results mean so much to you  

It’s also very clear how you are so actively using Todd’s technique of misinterpreting things thrown at you.

It’s cute at first but then just becomes a defense mechanism to actually have real conversations and growth.

Pretty much every feedback I have given you, you amusingly use the same technique. It gets old real fast.

I hope you don’t use the same technique again on this respond, otherwise it just becomes obnoxious.

[Ulax]

2 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

It’s also very clear how you are so actively using Todd’s technique of misinterpreting things thrown at you.

It’s cute at first but then just becomes a defense mechanism to actually have real conversations and growth.

Pretty much every feedback I have given you, you amusingly use the same technique. It gets old real fast.

I hope you don’t use the same technique again on this respond, otherwise it just becomes obnoxious.

Glad you're so invested in my growth and potential  

[Asayake]

13 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

It’s also very clear how you are so actively using Todd’s technique of misinterpreting things thrown at you.

It’s cute at first but then just becomes a defense mechanism to actually have real conversations and growth.

Pretty much every feedback I have given you, you amusingly use the same technique. It gets old real fast.

I hope you don’t use the same technique again on this respond, otherwise it just becomes obnoxious.

I agree but you did set him up for an easy one there!