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Olaf

what is your goal going out?

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I think the goal should be to close when going out, for sure you need to qualify, make a list of things you want in a girl, but this week I have become much more focused on closing, which isn´t just getting her number, but really like imagine you were trying to pull her home, that is the goal, not just a number. It is like reach for the stars and land on a cloud, if you can´t pull her, you atleast have come much further then if your only goal was to get her number, you could get someones number in 2 mins, but can you pull someone in 2 mins? Probably not. This is my view atleast. Dream bigger than just hitting a certain amount of approaches or a certain level of numbers closed, that doesn't improve much per say. Imagine a gay guy trying to pull numbers: he would maybe be able to get 10 new girl friends, but they are friends, it doesn't mean they see you as a men they want to have a relationship or sex with, because it is platonic. Female to female. Not male to female.

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Probably in order:

1. Have fun & Dance (practice somewhat as well)

2. Make connections that benefit my career

3. Dating opportunities & Making friends

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Get off chops and let loose - I only go out to dance or see live music 


It is far easier to fool someone, than to convince them they have been fooled.

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