Retroactive jealousy

[Lyubov]

1 hour ago, Joshe said:

Facts. Girls lie about it because the stigma of being a slut. Eventually, you reach a point where just don’t even care to ask the body count and just assume it’s 20-50. Lol. Animals gonna fuck. Fact of reality. Let it go. 

Yeah, once you reach a certain age you sorta realize you gotta accept it. Whatever woman you are with will have a thing or two that will piss ya off, don't dwell on the past. Obviously you can filter and choose someone who perhaps hasn't gone so crazy that it creates all sorts of issues where you're running into her ex bfs with her and whatnot, but even girls who appear good will have done a few things that will piss you off. So don't dwell too much on the past but get a read on her if she is worth building a relationship or not now. Nothing wrong with pursuing women who weren't promiscuous just know it may be a fruitless effort and not go how you expect.   

Edited 7 hours ago by Lyubov

[Breakingthewall]

On 8/9/2026 at 9:47 AM, Ben_P said:

now every time we have sex I just think, am I living up to what she’s had before, am I manly enough, is my dick big enough, does it feel good enough for her. I know these thoughts are toxic and aren’t that important for good sex but they plague me. 

Why do you think that if she told you that she discovered real sex with you? Makes no sense. If she would said that the ex was incredible and that then ok, but she said that until you she was blocked in sex, no good sex before you, so who cares if the others were masculine or not? Worse sex with them, better sex with you, period