I want to have sex with a girl this week

[Miguel1]

9 minutes ago, Ulax said:

There are easy shit tests to spot and hard ones to spot.

Easy ones are where the negative is implied ("That's an interesting shirt choice") and harder ones are where the negative is explicit "That is a bad shirt choice". 

I take everything she says as a compliment. At the very least she is trying to please me, otherwise why bother with such nonsense.

[Olaf]

@Inliytened1 there are many ways, mysterys way is to let her sit on your lap then say to her to get off and push her off as a joke and then if she comes back, that is enough of an IOI to kiss her. What I personally did one time was I was on a date with a girl and I apped her "fuck you" hahahah then she was like "why? What did I do?" and I said "it was about what you didn't do, you didn't kissed me" and then second date we kissed hahaha this isn't good advice, this was me just doing whatever lol

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[Joshe]

8 minutes ago, Ulax said:

"That is a bad shirt choice". 

I would interpret this as play, not a shit test. It only feels like a "test" because it's confrontational and not immediately easy to riff on for most of us. 

"I was thinking the same about your shoes but didn't want to say anything" That's when she hits you or stares at you like a devil, lol. Play continues. 

[Inliytened1]

3 minutes ago, Olaf said:

@Inliytened1 there are many ways, mysterys way is to let her sit on your lap then say to her to get off and push her off as a joke and then if she comes back, that is enough of an IOI to kiss her. What I personally did one time was I was on a date with a girl and I apped her "fuck you" hahahah then she was like "why? What did I do?" and I said "it was about what you didn't do, you didn't kissed me" and then "second date we kissed" hahaha this isn't an official method, this was me just doing whatever lol

Yeah exactly. Well..there's two options that I see. You can just start touching her. Or you can ask her if she wants to be touched. What i said here was..would you like me to touch you. And when she didn't answer..she kinda squirmed a bit and moved in my direction..then I reached under and pulled her panties down under the blanket.

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[Olaf]

@Inliytened1 Yesterday I was talking to a married girl in the mall for like 10 mins, at the end she was like, "I am married" and then a few moments later she said "I am trying to get pregnant"  I don't know what she was hinting at

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[Natasha Tori Maru]

These shit tests don't sound very... Scientifically sound 😂

I don't deliberately set up shit tests. But I want to see, and wait for the opportunity to witness, how dissappointment is dealt with when stakes are high. If you just spend time with someone in varied contexts it'll happen.

Someone who knows how to be dissapointed with grace and dealk with the feeling is a green flag.

[Joshe]

That's interesting if you think about it. The term "shit test" was formed not because women are testing you, but because men perceive it that way. And if that's largely true, then "shit test" earns a spot in the Conformity thread. 

[Inliytened1]

3 minutes ago, Olaf said:

@Inliytened1 Yesterday I was talking to a married girl in the mall for like 10 mins, at the end she was like, "I am married" and then a few moments later she said "I am trying to get pregnant"  I don't know what she was hinting at

Well..be careful there.  I've had my share of married women.  They probably want to screw you and use keep his health insurance. 

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[Olaf]

@Natasha Tori Maru you probably test men all the time, maybe not consciously

[Ulax]

3 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

These shit tests don't sound very... Scientifically sound 😂

I don't deliberately set up shit tests. But I want to see, and wait for the opportunity to witness, how dissappointment is dealt with when stakes are high. If you just spend time with someone in varied contexts it'll happen.

Someone who knows how to be dissapointed with grace and dealk with the feeling is a green flag.

You shit test all the time on the forum 

[Olaf]

@Inliytened1

[Inliytened1]

4 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

These shit tests don't sound very... Scientifically sound 😂

I don't deliberately set up shit tests. But I want to see, and wait for the opportunity to witness, how dissappointment is dealt with when stakes are high. If you just spend time with someone in varied contexts it'll happen.

Someone who knows how to be dissapointed with grace and dealk with the feeling is a green flag.

I honestly think you don't.  But you aren't the normal girl.  The fact that you are even here at all makes you not normal.  But in a cool way. You're like us. You don't play games.  You play it precisely how you see it.

Now. 

About those roosters.

 

[Ulax]

13 minutes ago, Joshe said:

I would interpret this as play, not a shit test. It only feels like a "test" because it's confrontational and not immediately easy to riff on for most of us. 

"I was thinking the same about your shoes but didn't want to say anything" That's when she hits you or stares at you like a devil, lol. Play continues. 

Its bad but I practice shit test responses all the time. So i'm amazing at them

[Miguel1]

9 minutes ago, Joshe said:

That's interesting if you think about it. The term "shit test" was formed not because women are testing you, but because men perceive it that way. And if that's largely true, then "shit test" earns a spot in the Conformity thread. 

Shit test doesn’t give the test justice.

It’s frame testing or rather, confidence testing.

[Olaf]

@Ulax that is awesome

[Natasha Tori Maru]

8 minutes ago, Olaf said:

@Natasha Tori Maru you probably test men all the time, maybe not consciously

You can think what you like. But it doesn't do to deny someone's self report in totality.

[Ulax]

Just now, Olaf said:

@Ulax that is awesome

I know 

[Olaf]

@Natasha Tori Maru giving a shit test to a men is not bad, if I was a woman I probably would do the same and probably without being aware of it

[Natasha Tori Maru]

Just now, Olaf said:

@Natasha Tori Maru giving a shit test to a men is not bad, if I was a woman I probably would do the same and probably without being aware of it

I define shit tests as being deliberate / orchestrated.

I don't look for proxies for maturity or self-regulation (that's not to say they aren't extremely useful in their own way). I look for direct evidence for them. I don't like high stakes games that involve negativity.

[Inliytened1]

2 minutes ago, Olaf said:

@Natasha Tori Maru giving a shit test to a men is not bad, if I was a woman I probably would do the same and probably without being aware of it

What's the components of the shit test? Sounds like too complicated.  So many women play games. I understand not wanting you to want them so much.  But putting you through some sort of an initiation seems like a pain in the ass.