I want to have sex with a girl this week

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

I define shit tests as being deliberate / orchestrated.

I don't look for proxies for maturity or self-regulation (that's not to say they aren't extremely useful in their own way). I look for direct evidence for them. I don't like high stakes games that involve negativity.

You mean you pass if you're mature and orchestrated?

[Natasha Tori Maru]

Just now, Inliytened1 said:

You mean you pass if you're mature and orchestrated?

Just gotta be mature really  

A man that can handle his shit - MUAH

[Olaf]

@Natasha Tori Maru how is that not a shit test 

[LordFall]

25 minutes ago, Joshe said:

That's interesting if you think about it. The term "shit test" was formed not because women are testing you, but because men perceive it that way. And if that's largely true, then "shit test" earns a spot in the Conformity thread. 

It's definitely a test, although it's probably mostly subconscious.

It comes from the concepts of signalling theory in evolutionary biology where in the mating process every suitor pretends to be a highly valuable choice. There are signals that are harder to fake than others and those are called honest signals. 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Signalling_theory

For human males it can come from the form of pretending to be higher status than you are or also hiding a lack of compatibility. That's why a lot of women will subconsciously say something offensive to you to test your frame and men will either be able to banter back and not be affected, get angry at her and "put her in her place type of energy" or crumble under pressure and start stuttering because they don't react well to confrontation. 

In all cases she has gained invaluable information in being able to see through the mask the man was putting on.

Edited 1 hour ago by LordFall

[Inliytened1]

Just now, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Just gotta be mature really  

A man that can handle his shit - MUAH

Well.  Let's be honest.  That's not all he would have to be.  You have to wanna fuck him too.

[Olaf]

@Inliytened1 "A shit test is a term for a situation where someone deliberately challenges, teases, or provokes you to see how you react under pressure. The idea is that they’re testing your confidence, boundaries, or emotional stability, rather than genuinely looking for the answer to what they said." this how ChatGPT summarises what a shit test means

[Ulax]

3 minutes ago, LordFall said:

It's definitely a test, although it's probably mostly subconscious.

It comes from the concepts of signalling theory in evolutionary biology where in the mating process every suitor pretends to be a highly valuable choice. There are signals that are harder to fake than others and those are called honest signals. 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Signalling_theory

For human males it can come from the form of pretending to be higher status than you are or also hiding a lack of compatibility. That's why a lot of women will subconsciously say something offensive to you to test your frame and men will either be able to banter back and not be affected, get angry at her and "put her in her place type of energy" or crumble under pressure and start stuttering because they don't real well to confrontation. 

In all cases she has gained invaluable information in being able to see through the mask the man was putting on.

Agreed

[Ulax]

Also there are two types of shit test

[Inliytened1]

45 minutes ago, LordFall said:

It's definitely a test, although it's probably mostly subconscious.

It comes from the concepts of signalling theory in evolutionary biology where in the mating process every suitor pretends to be a highly valuable choice. There are signals that are harder to fake than others and those are called honest signals. 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Signalling_theory

For human males it can come from the form of pretending to be higher status than you are or also hiding a lack of compatibility. That's why a lot of women will subconsciously say something offensive to you to test your frame and men will either be able to banter back and not be affected, get angry at her and "put her in her place type of energy" or crumble under pressure and start stuttering because they don't real well to confrontation. 

In all cases she has gained invaluable information in being able to see through the mask the man was putting on.

This is way too complex.  All you need is a physical attraction and the ability to get along.  There are not subconscious games going on there are only CONSCIOUS games. And I avoid those types of women because they want to play games.  Then again, they're usually the most exciting.

Like Natasha here. She is both no-nonsense and exciting.  And high on the spiral.  She is.what you call a keeper. 

Edited 36 minutes ago by Inliytened1

[Olaf]

@Ulax btw you said you practice shit tests allot, with chatgpt or something else?

[Ulax]

Just now, Inliytened1 said:

This is way too complex.  All you need is a physical attraction and the ability to get along.  There are not subconscious games going on there are only CONSCIOUS games. And I avoid those types of women because they want to play games.  Then again, they're usually the most exciting.

Like Natasha here. She is both no-nonsene and.exciting.  And high on the spiral.  She is.what you call a keeper. 

Its all a subconscious game

[LordFall]

3 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

This is way too complex.  All you need is a physical attraction and the ability to get along.  There are subconscious games going on there are only CONSCIOUS games. And I avoid those types of women because they want to play games.  Then again, they're usually the most exciting.

Like Natasha here. She is both no-nonsene and.exciting.  And high on the spiral.  She is.what you call a keeper. 

It's an important concept to understand to better identify the type of woman you're dealing with. Some women play games because they enjoy chaos and don't know how to function in a stable environment. Some others simply have high standards and are serious in their quest to find a long term partner.

If you mistake the former for the latter you'll end up with the exciting but destructive woman instead of an exciting powerful woman that's gonna be a blessing in building all that you desire in this world. 

Edited 1 hour ago by LordFall

[Inliytened1]

4 minutes ago, Olaf said:

@Inliytened1 "A shit test is a term for a situation where someone deliberately challenges, teases, or provokes you to see how you react under pressure. The idea is that they’re testing your confidence, boundaries, or emotional stability, rather than genuinely looking for the answer to what they said." this how ChatGPT summarises what a shit test means

Thanks. As I just mentioned to.@Lordfall, typically these are very smart women and that makes them exciting.  But also dangerous. I would rather have someone both smart and not dangerous.

[Ulax]

Just now, Olaf said:

@Ulax btw you said you practice shit tests allot, with chatgpt or something else?

A mixture. I practice them on this forum, on tiktok live, on llms too, when i'm watching a movie/ tv show I think of how to do it.

 

[Olaf]

@Inliytened1 you mean a psycho witch

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, LordFall said:

It's an important concept to understand to better be able to know the type of women you're dealing with. Some women play games because they enjoy chaos and don't know to function in a stable environment. Some others simply have high standards and are serious in their quest to find a long term partner. If you mistake the former for the latter you'll end up with the exciting but destructive woman instead of an exciting powerful woman that's gonna be a blessing in building all that you desire in this world. 

Yeah well telling the difference is the hard part.  What you really want to look for is Sassy and Imtelligent. One that will take control.  That's excitement.

[Inliytened1]

4 minutes ago, Ulax said:

Its all a subconscious game

These women know precisely what they are doing.  It isn't subconscious at all.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

8 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

Well.  Let's be honest.  That's not all he would have to be.  You have to wanna fuck him too.

Of course - but having a functional cock isn't the be all end all. People run into health issues. We age. Etc 

The relationship can't totally hinge on a solid member. 

Having said that, sex is so much more than penis in vagina 😁

[Ulax]

Just now, Inliytened1 said:

These women know precisely what they are doing.  It isn't subconscious at all.

You're right. They sit down with a pen and paper and pre-plan every interaction  

[Inliytened1]

Just now, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Of course - but having a functional cock isn't the be all end all. People run into health issues. We age. Etc 

The relationship can't totally hinge on a solid member. 

Having said that, sex is so much more than penis in vagina 😁

Of course.  I meant he can be the most mature guy on planet earth but if he doesn't seem attractive to you it's all for naught.   But yeah.  I know what you meant.