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[Judy2]

38 minutes ago, r0ckyreed said:

Ofc that is good. Follow up and tell him he’s cute and attractive. If that doesn’t work, then you didn’t lose anything. But you will regret it for not being direct about your intentions. Trust me. Women are out of practice with this because it is atypical for women to be assertive and approach men. But that’s how I met some of my girlfriends, they reached out first.

he never texted back after that one time. i'm gonna die alone.

[Yimpa]

3 minutes ago, Judy2 said:

he never texted back after that one time. i'm gonna die alone.

 

[Schizophonia]

15 minutes ago, Judy2 said:

he never texted back after that one time. i'm gonna die alone.

What did you say to him ig you don't mind

Edited 2 hours ago by Schizophonia

[Rishabh R]

41 minutes ago, Judy2 said:

he never texted back after that one time. i'm gonna die alone.

I feel the same way right now . 

[Judy2]

1 hour ago, Schizophonia said:

What did you say to him ig you don't mind

something like "that's great to hear [in response to what he wrote]. i enjoyed the rest of my trip, too, but my luggage got lost in Amsterdam and i'm still trying to get it back."

 

[Yimpa]

On 9/5/2026 at 9:05 AM, Miguel1 said:

What is the truth?

 

[Sincerity]

2 hours ago, Judy2 said:

he never texted back after that one time. i'm gonna die alone.

Hey, keep your chin up. A nice partnership with someone is totally possible for you. Sending you all the love!

[r0ckyreed]

39 minutes ago, Judy2 said:

something like "that's great to hear [in response to what he wrote]. i enjoyed the rest of my trip, too, but my luggage got lost in Amsterdam and i'm still trying to get it back."

 

I feel like we are missing something because you said his first message was just “Judith!” If that’s all he said, then what was so “great to hear?” What did he write?

Also, stop being attached to this result. The fact that you put yourself out there is what matters. Keep doing it. A person with options is a person with inevitable success. 

[Rishabh R]

8 minutes ago, Sincerity said:

Hey, keep your chin up. A nice partnership with someone is totally possible for you. Sending you all the love!

I wish somebody told me this years ago rather than demotivating me.

[Yimpa]

2 hours ago, Rishabh R said:

@Yimpa Congratulations you lucky ones. 

Deep attraction, while extremely beautiful, is just the beginning. I still have doubts as to what comes next. Honestly, I’d rather play it safe and assume we are just on friendly terms. Rushing into intimate relationships has backfired immensely in my past.

[Rishabh R]

@Yimpa I have attracted many women throughout my life but none of them culminated in a relationship. What pisses me off and for which I hold a deep resentment is women choosing toxic guys over me. I mean it really fucks up my mind and also led me to beleive that no woman will love me - which maybe an illusion but you know when others around you are getting into relationship and you are the only single one it just screwed my badly in the past - psychologically speaking. Hope you find someone at least you won't die single which I may .

[Sincerity]

13 minutes ago, Rishabh R said:

I wish somebody told me this years ago rather than demotivating me.

No point in dwelling on the past. The time for a positive attitude and energetic greatness is now. You haven’t lost anything, just keep moving forward, enjoy what’s happening.

[Yimpa]

4 minutes ago, Rishabh R said:

Hope you find someone at least you won't die single which I may .

My goal isn’t to claim the other person as mine. I do not wish to take away their autonomy. Instead, I long to understand them for who they are, when the mask is taken off. I desire Naked Love. (Naked is being used metaphorically here, not literally)

Edited 10 minutes ago by Yimpa

[Rishabh R]

@Yimpa You mean relationship based on vulnerability,right ? Vulnerability is naked not love.

[Someone here]

The easiest way to get a GF/BF if you are desperate is social circle , especially through family and friends. Tell your family members if they know someone also interested in a relationship in their own friends and social circle. 
pick up is really not realistic for introverted people. You are not going to pick up some random girl from some mall and get her to be your girlfriend. For this to work requires a specific lifestyle and personality type already in place which most introverted people mostly lack .

Edited 8 minutes ago by Someone here

[Yimpa]

6 minutes ago, Rishabh R said:

@Yimpa You mean relationship based on vulnerability,right ? Vulnerability is naked not love.

A relationship based on TRUTH! If a relationship reveals that I am an abusive asshole, and that is something I seriously need to work on, then *I am very thankful for it and can work on healing that part of myself and moving forward. 
 

*at first I am not of course, I don’t want to romanticize this process. of course i feel like shit initially 

Edited 1 minute ago by Yimpa